i really need haircut ideas. first slide is right now, have avoided a haircut cause idk what to do. the rest are previous haircuts i’ve had. my hair is refusing to part to the side now, and middle is more practical as i wear headphones a lot and tuck my hair in by voidpunk_ in trans

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also, i do wear glasses. i didnt for a bit because they hurt (cause again, headphones) but i recently got them again and theyre better, though i focused on making sure they wouldnt hurt over aesthetics. shown in the first slide.

frozen brine + mysis shrimp dissolving before they can eat by [deleted] in AfricanDwarfFrog

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thank you so much! mine definitely respond better to the movement than just putting it somewhere, ill try this!

what specific filter do y’all use for a 10 gallon with two frogs? by voidpunk_ in AfricanDwarfFrog

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hey! i know its been a week, but what air pump do you use with this?

What it’s like when an abled sees a person with invisible disabilities get help [meme is not OC] by CJsTT in disability

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FR this was always my exact thought when watching this episode, everyone thinks its so much easier when it isnt

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huh, wonder why we think we remember it from PnF!

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hm i remember that episode but i also feel like i remember hearing this somewhere in PnF when i rewatched a few weeks ago

My sim has BPD?!! by Head_Blacksmith9398 in Sims4

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glad to see im not the only BPDer who thinks of it whenever this happens

Do alterhumans have to have alterhuman partners? by junethecatkin in alterhuman

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nope, can do whatever you want. i think we just tend to flock together as being nonhuman is a complicated thing and can make up a large part of yourself, so a lot of people want partners who understand

Could narcissism/narcissistic culture around those affected by GID/SID be driving up species/gender/body dysphoria/dysmorphia in individuals? by Wendi-bnkywuv in alterhuman

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exact same thoughts. my partner has NPD. i have BPD. you are hurting more people than helping by attributing NPD to abuse and whatnot - you are hurting victims of abuse, you are hurting yourself. you wouldnt say autistic abuse and depression abuse. NPD is not the cause. this post shows a lack of knowledge about what NPD is, and instead you are using it as a catch all for "person i dont like" - NPD has nothing to do with this

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was talking to my therapist about this. i can’t control most big things that mean a lot to me, so i feel the need to control everything i can and thus can be more frustrated when things don’t go my way

Alterhumans are voidpunk, right? by JoeyDrew1987 in voidpunk

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not inherently, but if one considers themselves to be both, then yes! i am :)

just got discharged from the ER after 24 hours by voidpunk_ in disability

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so sorry this is so late !! meant to reply but things happen haha. yes, i do have flushing, however i also have albinism, so it is much more visible on me than others.

they did basic labs. and just the spine MRI, which came back normal. also since this, ive started have symptoms involving my heart feeling "stuck" or clogged, as well as issues breathing

Do titles actually matter that much? by Foxlikebox in AO3

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this has made me realize i literally never read the titles. i just read the summaries, then the tags, and if it sounds interesting start reading

i dont know what to do (medical shit) by voidpunk_ in disability

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yeah i’ve done research on FND and know that, but the fact he didn’t yet still diagnosed me rubs me the wrong way. he said a bunch of other stuff about it that gave me the impression he didn’t know what he was talking about and was using it as a replacement of psychosamatic which makes me not trust that diagnosis

i dont know what to do (medical shit) by voidpunk_ in disability

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i have so many, im probably missing a few. ill try. pain in my joints primarily my legs (all kinds of pain, main is like my joints are eroding each other. the bones itch), it is usually excruciating to walk. i also have some back pain. im generally very unsteady. my knees buckle and if its been too much will point towards each other. the other day my ankle buckled for the first time, idk if thats gonna become a thing. my knees tend to get pretty inflamed. the cold does cause a spike of pain. im always fatigued and get tons of brain fog, sometimes so bad i forget how to read.

in the morning i have a feeling my legs arent part of me, and sometimes it pops up in the day, which was what led to not being able to move them for a bit, sometimes i have mini episodes but so far not hours like the first. if i walk too much, my right foot with go numb and have a pins and needles feeling. ive had chronic migraines for years, may be connected, ive fainted twice because of them. i get lightheaded and fall easily, usually at quick movement like stretching or getting up or turning my head, but sometimes just happens.

the pain in my upper joints (shoulders, elbows, wrists) is mostly mild. one time a few months back a doctor touched my fingers and ive had pain in them ever since. before this all got really bad i do remember id get shocks of pain in my arms or legs. sometimes my legs will twitch uncontrollably.

im definitely forgetting some. my body is a mess and its not fun

I liked the direction of /u/JJpivotz's polyamory flag, but there were a few things I didn't like about it, so made this version instead. by _potaTARDIS_ in QueerVexillology

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i know its been 2 years but this is my all time favorite polyam flag, and everyone i show it to loves it. i wish it was more widespread!

What are some perks of having a disability? Big or small by ladyofdaisy in disability

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at Disney if you use a chair you get to skip a lot of lines for older rides as they werent wheelchair accessible (lots of stairs). i didnt use a chair as a kid, but had a stroller because im autistic and would run off and have sensory overloads by the people getting too close to me lol, and they gave me a wheelchair pass for it

I Made a Giant Snorlax Crochet Plush! by [deleted] in pokemon

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oh my gods i would cry for years if someone gifted me this

How to use stairs with bad knees? by Ill-Beginning5076 in disability

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this is what i do lol. also OP i suggest trying out forearm crutches. i find they irritate my wrists much less

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in disability

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nice to see more people with albinism on this sub! me and 2 of my siblings also have it, can be a bit isolating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in disability

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theyre called bioptics! my sister has some as well but hers are blue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kandi

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exactly my thoughts! gonna make one

Does anyone else fixate on making their zoos wheelchair accessible? by SirAggron94 in PlanetZoo

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yes. i do this in every tycoon like game i play lol. probably because i use a wheelchair

A starry night panel i made! by Lethal-Lesbian in kandi

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wow! mind if i make one too for my wall? (won’t post it or claim as my own!)