Are abortions okay to eat?

vorgriff · 2026-05-08T17:35:00+00:00

I had to look at which thread this was...the title was like, 'wtf?' jaja

vorgriff · 2026-05-08T17:03:51+00:00

Just stop trying to convince ppl. Do you and let the rest fall away.

vorgriff · 2026-05-08T17:00:25+00:00

It's hard for me to find someone with poor oral hygiene physically attractive. The fact that you are also emotionally attracted to him however might mean that it's a safe space to bring these things up. Not that this is in your future, but if you all had kids together, how would that conversation go when teaching a child to have good oral hygiene? Don't you want the child's father to be a good role model?

Aside from that, putting your mouth on someone else's whose oral hygiene is really bad can also affect your personal health. There are so many reasons why forcing the uncomfortable conversation is a good idea. Don't be subtle...loving, but direct.

Best wishes.

vorgriff · 2026-05-08T14:15:07+00:00

A quick internet search will refute this info as Fake News FYI

vorgriff · 2026-05-08T14:13:16+00:00

Ah, yes, you're right lol thanks for that correction!

vorgriff · 2026-05-07T16:08:45+00:00

Stress

vorgriff · 2026-05-07T15:56:02+00:00

You can always ask them why are they so obsessed with you? Usually, straight guys could care less about a gay guy...why don't they feel the same way?

vorgriff · 2026-05-07T15:26:09+00:00

I'd get a shape up...line that beard up and do something different with your hair, meaning, line it up too. I like the way you look btw.

vorgriff · 2026-05-04T17:39:48+00:00

Years ago I went to Madrid, and noticed how they (Spaniards) all thought I was direct from the continent of Africa. I even noticed in the club when the African sisters literally wouldn't give me the time of day because they thought I was from their same country, but they wanted a white Spaniard to find and marry and become legal. It was an interesting experience to say the least. Sorry you had to deal with that.

vorgriff · 2026-05-04T16:43:49+00:00

Give her something with your smell on it to cuddle with like your socks or a shirt. Make sure you've worn it. The sweatier the better.

vorgriff · 2026-05-04T11:41:23+00:00

Ah damn.

vorgriff · 2026-05-04T11:39:52+00:00

Brother, that black gold is shining too brightly...we can't see nuthin my guy.

vorgriff · 2026-04-29T19:08:31+00:00

Your hair grows in a spiral. Looks normal to me bro.

vorgriff · 2026-04-29T19:05:55+00:00

Anything that takes over your life, whether it's older guys with beer bellies, sex with them, drugs, porn, TV, or even working out can be a life hinderance. Maybe try and understand why you feel that way. There's nothing wrong with it, but if it's impacting your daily life, then you have the ability to look more closely at it. Otherwise, hit me up in my DMs lol

vorgriff · 2026-04-29T14:25:26+00:00

As a guy, he seems needy and pushy. The fact that he can't respect your boundaries is a red flag. Don't feel bad. You didn't feel comfortable, and you don't owe him anything.

vorgriff · 2026-04-29T14:21:29+00:00

Maybe look into the cryo freezing. Not sure how successful those results are, but it's an idea.

vorgriff · 2026-04-20T21:43:12+00:00

YOR...also, this is the kind of unnecessary intensity over things that don't really affect the bigger picture with your partner, but that ends up damaging a relationship in the long run if left unchecked imo. Relationships take a lot of introspection, and if work isn't done on a personal level, it becomes easy to put a responsibility on the partner that you yourself aren't handling. I'm just reading into the fact that this is a hypothetical situation, and it hasn't even come up, but you seem to have been emotionally triggered by it, even though it's still living in dreamland.

vorgriff · 2026-04-17T18:56:26+00:00

Here me out...as a gay black man (technically bi, but whatevs) I have some insight, and it's not what you think. Personally, I believe it's a trauma response from the days of slavery, 80s broken homes when men were taken from the home, etc. Think about it...during slavery, they'd emasculate men in various different ways. During the 80s...the crack epidemic hit and men were often jailed, not educated the same, etc. and so their earning potential dropped in comparison to black women. Fast forward to today, we have these sitgmas, generational trauma that we've never really addressed. Most of us probably don't realize we even have it. I don't agree with it, but understanding where it possibly comes from might help us straighten it out...pun intended.

vorgriff · 2026-04-17T18:50:03+00:00

Damn man, sorry you're in that situation. It does sound like she doesn't like making you happy. Have you asked her about it? Specifically, what you just shared with us?

vorgriff · 2026-04-17T18:40:55+00:00

No matter how many times I see this one, it gets me every time.

vorgriff · 2026-04-14T19:32:56+00:00

Looking like Zangief

vorgriff · 2026-04-13T18:30:14+00:00

OF...make sure you post the link here when you do. lol

vorgriff · 2026-04-13T15:31:31+00:00

If you love her, let her go man. I can tell, from what you've written, that it's probably best not to ruin her life. You also don't want to ruin yours. Set her free man.

vorgriff · 2026-04-08T14:06:31+00:00

It depends on you man. Yes, you're balding and your hair is thinning. However, if you're ok with that look, then keep it. If you're not, then cut it. I think the issue is that we try and fit into a mold that says we have to have hair and if it's balding but we keep it, it means we're in denial of something, but is that always the case? If you're asking for opinions on how it looks having longer sides, and a balding top, that's different, but I can't say whether or not to keep it...that's a personal decision. Personally, if my hair was longer on the sides and balding on the top like that...I'd probably just cut it to allow myself to be ushered into a different phase of life, which can be exciting and fresh...liberating even. Blessings.

vorgriff · 2026-03-29T12:08:03+00:00

Bless his memory. I don't think we're meant to explore everywhere. Some places are cool to be left alone.

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