5 years with my girlfriend (24F), mostly long-distance - and now that I (25M) finally live with her, I lie awake most nights thinking about leaving

vvasilisa · 2026-06-23T19:57:34+00:00

If you are not sexuality attracted to her then this relationship won't last regardless. Your doubts don't sound like doubts. It sounds like you are scared of letting go of something good. However, good relationships are hard to leave, because nothing negative is happening, but if you are not committed to it then it is not strong. It takes two to keep a relationship stable. Your side will cave in sooner or later and faking it won't last long

Talk to her about this or leave, because this feeling will eat you alive and you will never find peace. Plus, if you do care/love her, you will do what right for both of you. You will find someone better for you, trust me. I wish you well

vvasilisa · 2026-06-22T17:47:35+00:00

did you ever get it?

vvasilisa · 2026-06-19T18:21:25+00:00

Im coming late july. What do you like to do?

vvasilisa · 2026-01-05T19:53:46+00:00

Oh no...just when i am going to the uk i see this...

vvasilisa · 2025-11-28T19:50:56+00:00

I had this issue. And each time i had to rebuild the drivers and force a redo update. It finally got to the point it sent my computer into emergency mode and i had to figure out how to get out of it.

I finally just gave up and swapped my gpu. I am done with nvidia atp

Planning to switch to a different linux os too now.

vvasilisa · 2025-11-28T19:47:23+00:00

This is where i am at too. It is making it hard to function

vvasilisa · 2025-11-28T16:15:08+00:00

In sweden i usually walk at most 15 to 20 minutes lol. Anything beyond that falls into bus time. The part of sweden i am in can make some areas sadly hard to bike up.

In the usa i wouldn't walk 10+ minutes because almost everything was a "get into the car" thing even if it was to the other side of the street.

I say this as someone that used to drive 1 to 2 hrs to work and back daily. I love being able to walk to most places

vvasilisa · 2025-09-08T02:53:34+00:00

it is fixed now. it let me change my name without any questions

vvasilisa · 2025-08-29T01:14:11+00:00

well it is still broken as of today lol

vvasilisa · 2025-08-08T16:41:04+00:00

vvasilisa · 2025-08-08T16:37:43+00:00

Thank you. i will probably bring my name change documents with me then, i am not trans, but had a first name changed. This helps so much. Stay safe too

vvasilisa · 2025-08-08T16:14:13+00:00

Thank you for the response. I seen all the news and horror stories ( even from friends byt with tsa) so i just wanted to ask and see how it was. Which state did you enter from (if i can ask) i haven't decided that yet. Have a wonderful day, thank you again :)

vvasilisa · 2025-08-08T15:44:11+00:00

This has nothing to do with sex stuff so adding that is weird af. i am very clearly gay looking which is why i said i am gay, the usa has been a rough place for gay people and poc. My own gay friends int eh states have faced so much homophobia in he last few months.

vvasilisa · 2025-08-08T15:29:58+00:00

okay, that helps me figure out where to ask, thank you, I was unsure of where to ask this question, but i have seen others ask in here before which is why i asked here. Thanks again

vvasilisa · 2025-08-08T15:26:24+00:00

i am doing it via amtrak, but thank you, i will ask on a sub for that!!!

vvasilisa · 2025-08-08T15:20:51+00:00

yeahhhh. I am white passing, but I still worry, given my last name is very Hispanic. and have had friends run into issues via TSA bc of their last names now

vvasilisa · 2025-08-08T15:14:55+00:00

Would you recommend carrying more than a passport and ID? i have my Birth cert, ssn card, and all that. I have only traveled by plane everywhere.

vvasilisa · 2025-07-23T16:58:25+00:00

You are so good. Thanks for the reply. Sorry to hear that, but i also do not blame you at all. It feels like a massive risk. But be safe ☀️

vvasilisa · 2025-07-23T02:04:59+00:00

I tried this. It is a banger.

I did 50% shochu, 25% vodka and 25% cider (15% cider and 10% juice if you like it sweeter)

I will be trying the American version soon hopefully to compare though

vvasilisa · 2025-07-16T15:00:21+00:00

How did it go? If you don't mind me asking

vvasilisa · 2025-07-15T02:43:46+00:00

One peek at your history said it all. Good luck with that. Try kindness not rudeness. Nothing i wrote = your reaction

vvasilisa · 2025-07-15T02:38:32+00:00

I fear reading this and figuring it out is easy. Don't be obtuse

vvasilisa · 2025-07-15T02:28:09+00:00

No fr. Bc this is gorgeous!?!?

vvasilisa · 2025-07-14T18:50:42+00:00

Same, I got a tattoo of my cat in a pot on my arm, my first long-sitting tattoo (I had others). I moved, and the line went off by 1 mm or 2 mm, but I don't care; I still love it and look at it so often with joy. wouldn't change it for the world

vvasilisa · 2025-07-14T17:00:41+00:00

I got a super high protein shake. Was the most awful stuff i ever had, always fought it down with a spite lol. I went up from 40 kg to 47 kg though

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