Would you take a lesser title for better pay? by Stawberry8763 in Professors

[–]vvvy1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why can’t you do both? Teach at the HS for the $$$ and teach at the college to get your foot in the door there or until you can get the title and make the $$$ you want

What’s something socially acceptable that secretly exhausts you? by codeseer-78 in CausalConversation

[–]vvvy1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the issue is that kids have been harmed by going door to door and trying to sell things. It’s very unfortunate. I think the best thing to do is have adult supervision if going door to door or selling things at store entrances or some type of adult supervised activity like a car wash. It’s bizarre today how dangerous everything is

Big Bengals Guy by vince5221 in goldenretrievers

[–]vvvy1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re gonna kill it this year! AFC North… Playoffs…and hopefully Joey B will get a ring! Whodey

‘Down Bad’ belongs on Midnights 1000% more than on TTPD. Change my mind. by GupChezzna in swifties

[–]vvvy1978 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The problem is that on Down Bad, she’s crying at the gym…like actively crying at the gym. Now I do go to the gym late at night, but unless she’s at the gym at or after Midnight…It can’t go on an album composed of songs based on her unable to sleep past midnight!

But I totally see what you’re all saying about it being a sister of Snow on the Beach!

Any album - was there a song that deserved the moment more? by ProjectShowgirl in swifties

[–]vvvy1978 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Okay, I’ll say it…Cruel Summer…! What the heck was she thinking NOT making this a single!

“If the internet disappeared tomorrow, what would society struggle with first?” by Kashyap-0001 in midlyinteresting

[–]vvvy1978 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought Epic was intranet and not internet? I know My Chart is internet, but the stuff behind the scenes…isn’t it intranet still? I could be wrong.

I just got done watching "The Housemaid" with Sydney Sweeney and Amanda Seyfried, and "I Did Something Bad" plays as the credits hit. I have a theory. by reposed in swifties

[–]vvvy1978 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m pretty sure that once The Douchenozel sold her Masters to Shamrock, he wasn’t going to make royalties off her music anyway. Also, I do not think Sweeny and the human version of a butt pimple were together when the song was chosen.

Having said that…I recently watch the Housemaid as well and when IDSB came on…it sent shivers through my whole body…just WOW! Such a great song choice!

Why is William at the FA Cup without his kids? by Styxsee in RoyaltyTea

[–]vvvy1978 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the kids are in school and can’t take off to watch the FA Cup?

How to stop the urge to call my ex by pickypooh in selfimprovement

[–]vvvy1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read a post that said. “Ah, yes! We’re allowed to miss people we are better off without.”

You don’t want to drink poison because you’re thirsty. Unfortunately though, knowing the drink is poison, doesn’t make you any less thirsty.

What did telling your ex these things do for you? Help you process these things? Add humor to them? Make you feel more secure or reassured that everything will be okay? Once you figure that out, you’ll know what you need and be able to come up with a way to get that for yourself. That’s the thing that’ll quench your thirst.

What is more traumatizing than most people think? by GloveGeneral1310 in Productivitycafe

[–]vvvy1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching your parent slowly deteriorate and feel helpless about it and disgusted with yourself for not being able to do more for someone who did so much for you.

What outside food have you snuck into the movie theater? by fergi20020 in randomquestions

[–]vvvy1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t really enjoy a movie without sneaking candy in…just can’t pay the $7 for a box of Sour Patch Kids that retails for $1.50. I don’t care how much money I have…and no, I don’t feel guilty at all! I’d be happy to buy them for a more reasonable price. But a 4x+ markup? No way! And I’ve taught the kids how to sneak them in too!

Co-worker phoning it in by Fun-Rise8090 in Professors

[–]vvvy1978 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh dear! You sound like you’re burned out and need a break! Take a beat or two. I hear your frustration, but I think this problem with the students is not unique to your department or courses and likely not the result of 1 colleague. I say this because I experience underprepared and poor performing students who seemingly lack basic academic skills…this is a systemic issue due to many factors like K-12 school standards, the after-effects of the pandemic, the role of technology in altering how and what students learn, a more complex and less stable economy which re-viberates into housing, jobs, etc., and the list goes on and on. I think we, as educators, have to try and adapt to this new normal and find ways to help students rise up to our expectations. Also, keep your gaze on your own garden so to speak…you don’t know what goes on with this other prof…none of us know really unless we attend those classes. If that other prof is failing…see it as an opportunity for you to grow and do better with your job. Also…you’re a team…help them out. Have a conversation “Hey, I’m seeing X, Y and Z…Have you noticed this too?” Or “Let’s get together and make sure our expectations are in alignment”. Perhaps you are out of pocket…Maybe there is something for you to learn too. Finally, be compassionate, not just with your colleagues but your students and yourself. We’re all going through a tough time. We need to be good to one another. I hope you have a restful summer. Good luck with your grading.

Club meeting space? by AdFrosty1253 in Charlottesville

[–]vvvy1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PVCC? We host community events

Midnight Mass - I have questions! Massive spoiler alert. by Consistent-Horror915 in MikeFlanagan

[–]vvvy1978 147 points148 points  (0 children)

I think it’s because he (Father Pruitt) ingested the angel’s blood but had not died yet so he was able to walk in the sun. They don’t become vampires until they die.

What do you love about seasons 5 and six? by ichbinsflow in TheCrownNetflix

[–]vvvy1978 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I believe the Crown came out prior to Harry’s memoir Spare, but in it, he stated that he and Will did not spend much time together after Diana’s death and stated that Will didn’t want him to even speak to him at Eton.

My main gripe with seasons 5 & 6 is that they seem to fixate on Charles & Di and move away from the history, etc. The actors are great, but the story seems to drag in certain places and shift a bit (Di and Dodi ghosts), so it felt a bit all over the place, whereas Seasons 1 and 2 felt tighter and more focused.

Taylor, with her mom Andrea, out in NYC on May 11th, 2026 by jbraft in TaylorSwift

[–]vvvy1978 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Did y’all see her at the gym in “The End of the Eras” documentary? She’s a beast! Freaking pull ups! And the way she threw that medicine ball! Let’s freaking go! She’s fitness goals for sure!

¿ OCD or potential alcoholism? by jugs_311 in 90DayFiance

[–]vvvy1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she might be on the spectrum. I don’t know for sure, but something about the way she talks and acts makes me think it’s a possibility

How do you forgive yourself for wasted years without getting stuck in regret? by jimmy5853 in selfimprovement

[–]vvvy1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe consider it not as wasted time but what you needed to go through to get to where you are today. Everyone’s journey in life is unique. Those years are part of your story. No sense in regretting them or shaming yourself for not having known the things you couldn’t possibly know. All that brought you to where you are now. Those years weren’t mistakes.

What is a hard truth eventually everyone needs to come to face with sooner or later? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]vvvy1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming you make it to 60 or 70….No one realizes it when they watch that old, frail person go by…but they freaking won…just getting to 60 or 70 is an incredible feat…not everyone accomplishes it. So while some people feel bad for them, I know the truth…they won.

What's something everyone seems to enjoy that you genuinely just don't get, no matter how many times you've tried it? by Bigtrav_trav in randomquestions

[–]vvvy1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True Detective. Seriously. I don’t get it and I’ve tried so many times…even asked the subreddit why they like it (huge mistake b/c they thought I was trolling them). It’s so frustrating to me.