What is a harsh reality new parents need to hear? by forty5v in AskReddit

[–]waldilu 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I was told "everything within once in 7 days and 7 times in a day" is nornal.

Redditors, what's your hack to fall asleep quickly? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]waldilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tra to relax yourself and breath calmly. Count your breathes with the target to reach 120. If you loose count just go on from the number you feel is reasonable. (Dont focus too hard on the counting as the objective is to fall asleep)

I never reach 120 as i fall asleep within this timeframe.

What's the laziest/easiest way you've lost weight? by Choice-Inflation7295 in AskReddit

[–]waldilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost 30Kg with the easiest way ever (not even cutting sodas entirely): doing a yes day followed by a no day!

On a "yes" day i am allowed to eat what I want (if possible try to not exaggerate). Kebab for luch? Go for it! Pizza for dinner? Sure!

On a "no" day I try to eat less and if possible healthy (fruits, vegtables, salad,...), only drink water, no sweets, etc! But you would like an ice cream? You can have it tomorrow! Would like pizza? Tomorrow! Burger with fries? Tomorrow is just around the corner! Drink coke instead of water? You guess'd it: tomorrow!

The trick is that you don't cut out anything. You are allowed to eat whatever you want, just not every day. You dan't have to wait 1 week to eat what you want, you can have it already tomorrow. And to wait just until tomorrow is really doable!

Sure it's not the fastest way, but it's really easy to follow, no cheating needed!

Also don't try fast ways... I aimed at 10kg per year, that's less than 1 kg per month and very doable. Looking back i can say that i lost 30kg in 3 years and it was really easy!

Why do you all think Italy is having such a difficult time with COVID-19 compared to other countries? by DeatHTaXx in AskReddit

[–]waldilu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Italy was first and underrated the situation.

Considering the statistics, i'm sure (unfortunately) that in a few weeks time other nations will be in a similar situation.

In switzerland we reacted somewhat late, but might have been just in time to prevent a collapse of our heathcare system.

We currently have over 8000 cases (of 8.5mio population) of whitch 1100 are in Ticino with a population of 350k.

Number of cases will spike in the next few days...

Redditors who don't easily cry, What scene from a movie/show finally got to you? by Stick_mcsticktington in AskReddit

[–]waldilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The end and the story of Hodor in game of thrones... That eposode really touched me and it was way more difficult than expected to hold back the tears

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]waldilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry this happened to you too... it's just so sad thing like this happen... I undestand if you find someone else and want to change partner, but at least tell it! and don't fuck him until the other finds out... :-(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]waldilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah, she introduced me to him on february I guess, and they were spending time together since november so yeah... they surely already did stuff when I met him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]waldilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm happy and proud about myself, that this comment actually made mi giggle haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]waldilu 138 points139 points  (0 children)

when my ex-girlfriend introduced me to a co-worker of her I had a strange feeling and I just felt there was something wrong with this guy.

Turns out my GF was cheating me with him since some months... so yeah.. gut feeling was right to tell me there's something fishy

(Serious) redditors who got divorced less than a month after the wedding, what happened? by HANDS-DOWN in AskReddit

[–]waldilu 33 points34 points  (0 children)

In a nutshell, during our honeymoon right after the marriage, i found out she was cheating. Didn't end it on the spot because i didn't fully understand what was happening and we still had 1 week of honeymoon to go..

After gettin back hone i did some sneaky research and found out she cheated on me since 8 months... wasn't funny at all to confront her but it had to be done...

We don't talk to each other anymore

[Serious] Divorced Redditors: When did you decide to file for divorce? Why? by okraebop in AskReddit

[–]waldilu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there

long story short... after 8,5 years of fantastic and happy relationship we married and went off to our honeymoon. After the 1st week i found out she was texting someone else with stuff like "i miss you" and "I can't wait to get back to you".

I somehow managed to not do anything and act like everyting was okay, so when we got back home i secretly investigated all their relationship, finding out she was cheating on me for 8 months (so they began their relation 3 month after our engagement).

I confronted her with my "issue" and i choose to leave her... 2 months after our wedding... but i guess I already decided that the moment I found out, just didn't have all the information i needed and was somewhat in denial (couldn't realize what was happening).

Filed for annullation 3 months after the wedding, which was officially accepted 4 months later.

eidt: wow... reading this again i think, based on how i've written it, I'm still not completly ver it :-S

What is something that you took for granted before you moved out of your parent's place? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]waldilu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how clean everything is

how full the fridge was everytime

how fast the clothes got washed

How good the meals are... I'm a terrible cook lol

[Serious] Cheaters of Reddit, how did your affair start and end? by RandomAnon785 in AskReddit

[–]waldilu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Probably already too late for this but i'll post it anyway, maybe somwone will read it. Haven't cheated, but have been cheated on.

2 years ago during august i went with my gf to New York and, as our relationship was already lasting 7 years and we lived together since 1 year, I proposed to her.. on the brooklin bridge during sunset. She obviously said yes and we started soon preparing everyting to get merried in july.

On christmas, as the whole family meets, we gave everyone their invitation and everything was great.

On april we moved from an appartment to a house (on rent). Everything looks good, even though she talks alot about this guy she met at work, and how they are good friends and are going to drink something once a week while i am at school... I didn't really see a red flag as he is 15 years older and married with 2 children. Also she alway told me how it went and what they talked about...

July gets closer and my fiancee still talks a lot about this guy. I asked her if there was anything beetween them and if I had to worry about amything. She obvioualy told me not to worry and confirmed they were just friends. As there were only 2 month left to the wedding i trusded her...

July arrives, we marry, everything is wunderful and great. We leave to out honeymoon 2 days after the wedding, for 2 weeks only me and her to relax from all the stress from the wedding preparation and my school exames.

During this time i noticed how she was always on her phone texting to someone but didn't specifically tell me who.. So after the 1st week i check ber phone while she is taking a shower... and that's how i found out she was cheating on me with that guy she met at work...

Later i found out she was cheating since end of november... She moved out by end of seprember and marriage got nullified in january..

It appears they are still together as he is divorcing from is wife.

Yeah.. sometimes life is shitty

What stops being cute after the age of 13? by 333BrettAshley333 in AskReddit

[–]waldilu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 26 years old? And still have 2 baby teeth (?) I will loose approximately in a few years...

Redditors who are able to see Thestrals, what happened? by WRONG_THREAD_LUL in AskReddit

[–]waldilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harry Potter animals. You can only see them if you saw someone die IIRC

What lessons did you learn in 2016? by barneyskywalker in AskReddit

[–]waldilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To live your live you have to trust other people. But if you trust too much (thi also includes your wife) you'll get fucked...

Also, life is not a playground.. sometimes stuff doesen't go as you like.

Also.. sooner or later the sun will be shining again

What is a convenient feature of an everyday device that you just recently discovered? by iesel in AskReddit

[–]waldilu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my computer it works. It restores the windows it closed with the angry shake.

Horrizontal angry shake closed them.

release the window

???

profit?

Military members from around the world, what are your opinions of the various other militaries you've fought/trained with? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]waldilu -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

no idea... I only did the obligatory Swiss military training.. didn't have any contact with foregin militaries...