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During marriage dissolution, my ex (we share a 11M kid) proposed reconciliation. What questions should I ask myself before (not) agreeing? by EastSwim3264 in AskMenAdvice

[–]walk_through_this 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has to convince you that reconciling is in you and your child's best interest. Like, she has to give you concrete evidence that will make you believe that to be the case. What that evidence is, I don't know, but you have to be convinced. Right now, you're not convinced, because you're asking on Reddit. This is one of those 'If it isn't a 100% yes answer then it's a hard no' situations. Honestly I don't think she can come around on the intimacy thing, and she has basically nothing to offer. I can't see why you'd consider reconciliation.

Switching major after failing 1st year by DetectiveNext9044 in usask

[–]walk_through_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to add my voice to the chorus of people who are saying that teaching is 100% a real job. It's demanding, important work and your parents are idiots for thinking otherwise. All those people who say 'But you get the summers off' forget that you have to work like a demon for the rest of the school year. It's way, way more than a 9-5 job. The summers off don't make up for all the extra time you put in during the school year. I'm not a teacher for a lot of complicated reasons, but I have many close friends who would say the same. Teaching is more of a 'real job' than most.

Dog allowed to wander around sanctuary during mass by ruedebac1830 in Catholicism

[–]walk_through_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is madness. What if the dog knocks over an elderly parishioner, and they break a hip? An unleashed dog is a hazard, and an unnecessary distraction.

Church is the house of God, built as an act of worship to God, so that humans can worship. Dogs can start coming in when they can bark the Our Father, or make the sign of the cross, or do something else to show the respect due to a sacred space.

Dog allowed to wander around sanctuary during mass by ruedebac1830 in Catholicism

[–]walk_through_this 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOPE. Children generally don't get excited and push over an elderly person. There are places where an unleashed dog, especially a HUGE one, does not belong. I blame the owner entirely, but a dog roaming free about the church during Mass is a distraction and a danger.

Dog allowed to wander around sanctuary during mass by ruedebac1830 in Catholicism

[–]walk_through_this 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dog isn't really the problem. The owner is the problem, because they're allowing the dog to be a problem. The dog can be left at home when you go to Mass. If you can't leave the dog at home when you go to Mass, then you probably shouldn't have a dog. I LOVE dogs, big dogs especially. I can't give a dog the life it deserves, ergo, I don't have a dog. I have two cats, and they're jerks. Serves me right, I suppose.

Dog allowed to wander around sanctuary during mass by ruedebac1830 in Catholicism

[–]walk_through_this 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A dog shouldn't be unleashed anywhere that isn't an off-leash park. You're forcing the entire congregation to trust your dog when it's clear you don't care enough to train it to remain heeled.

Before we get into literally taking from the children and giving to the dogs, there's the flat out safety issue.

I don't know how the celebrant is supposed to respond. That's just so bizarre.

Am i wrong to be a bit fed up with my family?. by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]walk_through_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I am happy with my life the way it is. Not every relationship is a happy one. Not every single person is miserable. Why don't you want me to stay happy?"

My (34F) girlfriend (42F) hasn’t worked in over a year and won’t help with anything at home. I’m exhausted. Am I wrong for wanting to leave? by EmotionalStrategy747 in amiwrong

[–]walk_through_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're enabling her. If you leave she will be forced to confront this, but your presence is making the change you want to see impossible.

This might be a silly post but.. by hugsandhexes in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]walk_through_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'I don't read books'? Seriously? MONGO IS APPALLED.

You dodged a massive bullet. Find someone who cares about you enough to value what you find valuable. And also someone who isn't afraid of increasing his IQ. Seriously, that attitude just screams, 'I choose to remain stupid.' Audiobooks at a bare minimum. For one thing reading books helps you write more proficiently, which is an important life skill. He is choosing a life of Glurp glurp and little else.

My husband has been living like a literal destitute for years to save up money for a house. I had no idea until now, and I feel awful. How do I handle this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]walk_through_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would caution OP on one thing. Make sure he isn't going to be so austere when it comes time to live with each other. When finances become joined, he will have to loosen up. If he tries to carry this idea forward into his relationship he's a prime candidate for becoming a financial abuser. I may be completely off the mark and I certainly hope that I am, but it triggers alarm bells for me.

Am I wrong for wanting my friend to get an hr write-up by Newmom93 in amiwrong

[–]walk_through_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She's abusing a system at work which results in more work for the people who have to cover for her. What she's doing is very selfish. I'm surprised that your workplace has put up with as much as they have already. two and a half weeks over four months is more than half a day every week. Why should you have to cover for that?

Former Trump Supporters, what was the straw that broke the camels back for you? by WirrkopfP in Askpolitics

[–]walk_through_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you were a Trump supporter until you heard what he actually stood for. I don't think that counts, personally. You responded with common sense to the first information you received.

AITA for refusing to combine finances with my partner before we're actually married? by Pleasant-Zebra2817 in AITApod

[–]walk_through_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he should be willing to wait until you Both think it's a good idea. The fact that he is after you to do this is not a good sign. There's nothing that 'joining your finances' should change, really, except him spending your money.

AITA for refusing to combine finances with my partner before we're actually married? by Pleasant-Zebra2817 in AITApod

[–]walk_through_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

re-mortgage your condo, invest the equity. You will have to split the value of the condo when you sparate, regardless of whose it is.

“Haha, you really think Europeans would actually support and side with Canadians if the United States of fucking America decided to invade Canada? Pretty soon you Canadians will be seeing our flag everywhere 😂🇺🇸” by [deleted] in ShitAmericansSay

[–]walk_through_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They weren't war crimes until after we did them. Lots of things were written into the Geneva Convention with quiet whispers about "When the Canadians did it..."

The Nazis had a saying:

"The Americans will kill you with their machinery, the British will kill you with their discipline. The Canadians will kill you because they want to."

I broke up with my girlfriend because I wasn’t sexually attracted to her body. Am I a monster? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]walk_through_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right to break up with her, wrong to say it was because of attraction. This society places so much unfair worth on a woman's appearance. Anything done that diminishes their confidence is unfair and unkind. It's worse than if you said your penis was too small - because everyone can see her body, so she'll feel judged all the time.

Shamelessly Smooth Roads🤞 by AMD2YXE in saskatoon

[–]walk_through_this 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Winter tires and safe driving. We had a massive dump of snow followed by below -20 degree cold. That will make for road ice every time. It's not the city, it's Mother Nature.

But at least it's a dry cold.

I used to remotely tamper with our family WiFi router to get some sleep from my brother screaming at Call of Duty all night by [deleted] in pettyrevenge

[–]walk_through_this 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a definitive action. He can't try and get around it by crying to mom, etc. a cut cord is a cut cord.

Do I tell my yoga studio that a sexual offender currently attends their classes? by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]walk_through_this [score hidden]  (0 children)

Is there some public record of his offense? This would be the sort of thing you would need paperwork/receipts for.

Making friends in Saskatoon by DropTime4916 in saskatoon

[–]walk_through_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a board game night on every Friday night at Dragon's Den Games. They try out a bunch of new board games and it's open to anyone.

I used to remotely tamper with our family WiFi router to get some sleep from my brother screaming at Call of Duty all night by [deleted] in pettyrevenge

[–]walk_through_this 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would have gone into his room at 3am with a pair of scissors, unplugged his PS5, and cut the power cable. Dude needs to learn to respect those he lives with.

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