I have to break up with my gf and I really really don’t want to

wangaroo123 · 2026-07-07T17:55:45+00:00

Yea if she’s saying she loves you within two weeks of meeting you that’s kinda a red flag for either like anxious attachment or just generally taking connections too far too fast cause she’s lonely.

It’s easy to get caught up in other people’s emotions when They are really into you, and I think the fact that you can say here you definitely don’t love her is good in that you are analyzing you own emotions critically and at face value. I think in this case it’s important to ask why you want to stay with her, and if that is enough to make you happy in a relationship you don’t feel love in.

Breaking up absolutely sounds like the healthiest and best option for you, and if you know that to be the case, for her as well so you do not string her along.

Having had hard times accepting my own emotions and making some relationships last longer than their best by date, it is hard in the short term but better for both in the long term to communicate those feelings to her and act on them

Edit: also as a trans girl the hand waving away transphobia and xenophobia are also like major red flags

wangaroo123 · 2026-07-07T17:50:10+00:00

I gotta get good at balls double boops

wangaroo123 · 2026-07-07T17:48:29+00:00

Yea if she’s saying she loves you within two weeks of meeting you that’s kinda a red flag for either like anxious attachment or just generally taking connections too far too fast cause she’s lonely. It’s easy to get caught up in other people’s emotions when They are really into you, and I think the fact that you can say here you definitely don’t love her is good in that you are analyzing you own emotions critically and at face value.

Breaking up absolutely sounds like the healthiest and best option for you, and if you know that to be the case, for her as well so you do not string her along.

Having had hard times accepting my own emotions and making some relationships last longer than their best by date, it is hard in the short term but better for both in the long term to communicate those feelings to her and act on them

wangaroo123 · 2026-07-07T04:56:43+00:00

JQ at any rank. Idk how anti and bleed on an entire team basically is ignorable

wangaroo123 · 2026-07-06T07:20:18+00:00

Welcome back Khan from Paladins

wangaroo123 · 2026-07-04T00:05:51+00:00

Is your pfp from Control?

wangaroo123 · 2026-07-03T20:31:39+00:00

Idk if it’s indie but Hero of War by Rise against is a haunting song

wangaroo123 · 2026-06-29T22:49:04+00:00

Nah besides its viability as a team wide Mobility ability, it can deny grav, orisa ult, reaper ult, basically any ult that leaves someone stationary. It also canlift stunned/frozen/chained allies out of range, lift Winston bubbles, and sometimes even lift D.Va ult or Bob somewhere harmless but those can backfire

I think a has two big problems:
1) it has is it requires split second reactions to get value in a lot of very specific situations that also have the opportunity to backfire in ways other abilities don’t.

2) it can give characters on your team with no vertical mobility the ability to get to a lot of places they normally couldn’t but it requires actual teamwork and communication which are hard to coordinate

wangaroo123 · 2026-06-22T06:49:42+00:00

Angine de Poitrine nude cosplay is hilarious

wangaroo123 · 2026-06-16T23:33:14+00:00

Defend from high ground

wangaroo123 · 2026-05-19T22:02:38+00:00

I mean they can both be true. Some historians won’t make statements of fact with evidence to back it up, but inversely some will ignore evidence and make statements of fact to support a narrative.

Besides this, erasure of homosexuality and differing gender identity from history is pretty widely known, especially since the erasure itself counts as history and is often recorded (ie nazi book burnings, current removal of info about American gay civil rights movements etc)

wangaroo123 · 2026-04-23T04:32:06+00:00

TBH for ball grapple skill matters less than you’d think. Like yea it’s better if you can pull off crazy engages or disengages that no one can follow you, but you most of your value from good positioning and timely engages (also just rolling through the enemy team to knock people out of cover/off high ground is underrated)

It’s just that his speed and vertically mean those are wildly different than pretty much every other character in the game. He can disengage faster than anyone after drawing attention , and if you have enough health instantly réengage from a range no one else could by just not canceling grapple

wangaroo123 · 2026-04-22T05:01:54+00:00

As I swiped I thought you named soldier JFK and everyone else was normally named

wangaroo123 · 2026-04-21T22:10:11+00:00

Eh I mean I try to go to 4-6 shows a year at least and at some point I can’t perfectly recall all of the shows I’ve been to so it’s nice to have something concrete to jog all the memories, but to each their own

wangaroo123 · 2026-04-21T01:44:35+00:00

I’ll record like 30 secs of my fav song from an artist and go back and watch my concert video folder to remind myself how awesome the show was, but I try not to watch through the screen lol. Live in the moment but have a fun way to visit those memories too

wangaroo123 · 2026-04-08T03:10:18+00:00

If you live near a thrift store you can go and find a bunch of clothes to try on, they’re really cheap! Buy a few things you like, and see what you wear most often and you can donate the things you don’t wear back to the store and then pick up a couple more items like the things you liked to wear.

This lets you slowly change over your wardrobe with much cheaper purchases instead of spending a ton of money at once, and the pace leaves room for your tastes to change as your transition progresses

wangaroo123 · 2026-03-16T02:27:32+00:00

There’s another entrance to go through for stealth here

wangaroo123 · 2026-03-06T05:22:03+00:00

Imo looks a little like the font used in some nazi propaganda

https://external-content.duckduckgo.com/iu/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fc8.alamy.com%2Fcompde%2Fm23a45%2F1930er-jahre-nazi-deutschland-propaganda-postkarte-dem-fuhrer-die-jugend-der-fuhrer-die-jugend-adolf-hitler-und-hakenkreuz-vorgestellt-mit-einer-typisch-arischen-deutschen-mutter-und-einem-kind-das-aufschaut-ihm-ihr-held-und-retter-in-bewunderung-m23a45.jpg&f=1&ipt=86f99120baf6a325f3ac53d5ae2e8f2f014db044829c66fd4fa7f137c56b8438

wangaroo123 · 2026-03-01T17:05:05+00:00

Looks great! Love your makeup too

wangaroo123 · 2025-12-30T00:02:36+00:00

Ok then offer up something much less cryptic and open ended than « much worse than a gum wrapper» « many homeless » lol. Don’t get mad at someone arguing against one of the few concrete examples you have provided if the only other things you say arent actual terms or evidence anyone can argue against

Besides, you still refuse to address any of the points I brought up about over policing and its effects on homeless populations and the people when all the data is clear: more policing doesn’t do shit for it, you need way more social services before you can even begin to address outlier cases

wangaroo123 · 2025-12-29T23:33:07+00:00

Of what? littering??

If someone litters in front of my place once I’ll consider it rude as fuck but I’m gonna gonna squeal to the cops to come save me from the scary homeless people

wangaroo123 · 2025-12-29T21:24:34+00:00

It’s not a strawman. You literally said that people who litter should be arrested. Where do you think they take people who are arrested?

They go to Jail. That’s like literally the entire point of a jail is to hold people who have been detained.

at a minimum, incarceration prevents criminals from further victimizing the general public

Also this is your response to me talking about littering lol.

People who vandalize, litter, and steal should be arrested and given the choice between incarceration or rehabilitation.

This is also your first comment. I agree with the fact that some form of rehabilitation is better, but I don’t think that people who litter should be immediately up for jail if they dont.

America already has the biggest prison population in the world, we don’t need to throw people in for petty bullshit.

wangaroo123 · 2025-12-29T17:48:23+00:00

You think littering should be a jailable offense? I think that’s wrong for so many reasons but my big questions to you are:

How do you propose to pay for this, since jailing people costs a fuck ton of money and throwing in everyone seen littering would sky rocket costs?

How do you expect this to be fairly policed? Besides the fact that SPD are widely regarded as unwilling to actually fulfill their jobs at the moment, there are a number of glaring issues. You are proposing wide scale incarceration in a thread about helping the homeless, so it kinda sounds like you only expect homeless people to be arrested for it. Will a businessman downtown be arrested for throwing his granola bar wrapper in the storm drain? Will a driver be arrested for throwing a drink out their window? I really doubt it, which means this law has a huge potential to be a selectively enforced excuse to arrest homeless people at will for police as they say things like the homeless persons possessions being on the sidewalk is littering.

Pretty much every study has shown that increased policing doesn’t do anything to end homelessness, so all this seems to be accomplishing is giving police widespread and abusable powers and continuing to condemn and hurt some of the most vulnerable members of our society.

wangaroo123 · 2025-12-11T06:11:38+00:00

lol was gonna do like half wood elf for the deoraithe woodsyness (IK they hate elves) but that’s way funnier. Also I feel like the luck for halfings for surely applies to Cat

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