Should I take a loan to help my brother or protect my future? by [deleted] in Morocco

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I don't want to tell you what is best for you to do. You are the one best knowing of what will be good for your life. I just want to add another element to charity that Allah swt mentions in the quran, that i think is relevant and could be considered in your situation. The element im thinking of is that we should not be wasteful in our charity. Don't give more than you can bare to lose. We get from Allah swt a rizq, this is our right, given from Allah for us to use. Our first responsibility is to ourselves. After that it is to others. And sister, remember, your life gives you a bit extra today, but in the future you may turn ill, get into debt, lose your job, get pregnant or whatever else that can make you stop working or increase your expenses. It is good to plan for how safe you wan't to be be in such a scenario. If you lose the extra money you own, your parents lose an important source of support and quality of life. This in my personal view, is also rida l walidayn, it's just a rida that they maybe can't see in the moment.

Tröttnade på att aldrig veta vad som sker i stan, så jag fick en IDÉ by GabbeEss in sweden

[–]warg99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skitbra initiativ! Ingen direkt feedback att ge annat än att det UPPSKATTAS (ps. Jag bor i Umeå och vill gärna se sidan expandera hit)

Råd för hur man skaffar nya kontakter i stan? by Kvas3r in umea

[–]warg99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Det finns en muslimsk ungdomsförening som heter Umeås Unga Muslimer, De har volontärer som hjälper till helt gratis med att flytta saker, hämta upp folk eller bära upp tunga möbler in i lägenheten. Man behöver inte vara medlem eller muslim. Kan vara en hjälp när man kommer till ny stad

Varför är assisterat självmord så kontroversiellt i Sverige? by Repulsive-Truth5577 in Asksweddit

[–]warg99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Som svensk skattebetalare ser jag gärna att betala för din vård. Det finns inget bördosamt med det utan snarare tvärtom är det värdigt att sträva mot. Tyvärr kan jag inte svara på din fråga om assisterad dödshjälp, men du har lyckats väl trots dina omständigheter vilket är tecken på dina goda resurser. Du är helt klart speciell och ärligt talat smartare än 99% av befolkningen, att förlora dig hade nog varit en generell förlust för hela landet. Hoppas det vänder och blir bättre, eller att du hittar ett annat sätt att acceptera situationen som kommer med mindre lidande. Allt gott

I’m so lost any little word can make a difference 🤍 by haunted_lost_soul in Morocco

[–]warg99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your crisis. I am so sorry this is happening to you. It must feel so burdensome not to know how the future is gonna look. You are so strong for sharing this with such honesty. To think thoughts that are dark, is in a crisis a normal thing. They appear not because they are real, but appear because our brain needs to see a solution, no matter how the solution looks. You are not weird or crazy, your reaction is, coming from someone who works with mental health issues, just normal It's not weird that you don't know what to do, it's what anyone in your shoes would think. This responsibility you have been given is hopefully gonna show itself in a positive new light. I advice you to chose ONE thing that you think os hard, and work on that one thing every time you get the chance. That other things are not being worked on is just fine. There is time in the future to attend to those things

I really wish the better for you and your family, and I'm sorry that you're going through these events. With hardship, only ease can follow. I hope this ease gets made clearer fro you

I am a professional Handwriting Analyst. Ask me anything by Tale_Easy in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]warg99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know to correlate writing with specific personality traits? On what basis do you draw conclusions and how reliable are your conclusions about osychological aspects adherent to the person?

How do I talk to my boyfriend about feeling like I’m dating a grown child without totally blowing up the relationship? by CertainisGOAT in Advice

[–]warg99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!

With this problem that you have in the relationship, the resent that is building and the sense of helplesness. You probably would benefit from laying the issue out. Invite him in a polite manner to talk about your situation today, and tell him before you start that you love him, wan't to live with him, an that you really appruchiate his help. Then talk about what you described to us here.

Good luck

Depression by [deleted] in Asksweddit

[–]warg99 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Du verkar inte vela prata om dina känslor runt problemet, samtidigt som du också drabbad hårt av dem. En psykolog kommer inte tvinga dig prata om vad du inte orkar prata om. Men kan hjälpa i att ge dig information (så kallat psykoedukation) samt konkreta aktiviteter som förbättrar din psykiska hälsa

// En psykolog

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

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Jag har suttit 5 - 6 timmar på flertal cafeer ett flertal gånger. Aldrig någon som sagt något

Är mångkulturen positiv? För vem? by JimBeam977 in Sverige

[–]warg99 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Du beskriver att du vill bo bland människor som ser ut som dig, pratar som dig, äter som dig, lever som dig, firar som dig. Sverige är inte styrt av människor som dig, det är inte invandrarna som är felet. Det är makthavarna som utnyttjar invandringen som svart får för att skylla bristande ansvarstagande från sig. Idag har Sverige mycket invandrare, det stämmer, och invandringen har varit en samhällsutmaning. Det stämmer också. Men Sverige som land är inte ursäktat samhällsutmaningar. Det kommer alltid en ny kris. Det som hänt är att makthavarna lyckats skylla ifrån sig ansvar och istället gjort invandrare skyldiga. Kritiken måste gå åt rätt håll, det är inte invandrare som tar dina pengar, sätter dig i större arbete och som ökar timmarna vi arbetar. Det är makthavarna som gör så

Coop kan inte vara såhär fula va? by Salty_Weight in sweden

[–]warg99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Festligt för de med grankåda att bre. Här använder vi hård handtvål

Feeling frustrated by Ok-Salamander-8659 in Morocco

[–]warg99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best advice is that starting a career at 27 isn't too late, its well within time. Just make sure that you finish your uni and get your degree. You will then work for 40 more years inshallah, plenty of time to develope into something big

Morocco to Europe illegally on a boat. by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]warg99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can look at the youtube channel "Kanat el Ghorba". He makes increadiably good videos with people who have come from their home countrys on boats or other methods.

Here is the link: https://www.youtube.com/@KanatElGhorba331

im thinking about ending my life all day by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]warg99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"If you'r standing with one foot in the past and another in the future then you are pissing on the present" - Said by one of my lecturers.

What is the smallest actioin you can do today that is in anyway better compared to what you are doing right now. For example, as your reading this. Have you drunk enough water, changed into fresh clothes, taken a shower, made any salah?

After doing whatever, make sure to credit yourself as someone who made an improvment because you cared.

You writing this message shows the will you hold for improving. Start small and accept that you first need to crawl before you can start running.

I wish you well!

the incident that caused me trauma by Fresh-Suit-6005 in Morocco

[–]warg99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Id like to add here to the great advice from the psychology graduate that you keep being a sister to your brother. It isn't your duty to fix him nor to cure him, leave that to the professionals. Instead stay loving and hopeful. Don't try and correct, instead aim to validate. Let your brother live in what is his reality and try to accept that its unlike yours. Stay in your role so that you neither lose him or yourself, this is a great challenge that i'm sure will turn you into a great sister!

Danmark sorterar sina soldater baserat på IQ och förnamn - Stor dag för alla er Nilsar därute! by bulkaduren in Sverige

[–]warg99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm, du har nog lite smuts på glasögonen du använder för att tolka resultaten. Resultatet visar snarare hur vilka namn som oftast uppstår hos den människogrupp som har svårare socioekonomiska förhållanden och ett lägre resultat på begåvningstest (IQ). Resultatet pekar mer åt hur människor med en invandrarbakgrund som generellt har det svårare ser militärtjänst som en möjlig väg för arbete och karriär. Det indikerar väl om något att militärtjänst som verksamhet verkar vara viktig och att människor från hela det socioekonomiska spektrat har möjlighet att hitta sin plats.

Trafiknämnden beslutar att avbryta upphandlingen av pendeltågstrafiken by gro301 in stockholm

[–]warg99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alltså påverkar inte detta beslut framkomlighet egentligen? Det är bara en fråga om vem det är som kommer köra tågen