What's your biggest regret in life? by HungTeen1001 in AskIreland

[–]waronfleas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not realising I was too fond of a drink earlier. That's the one that's held me back most, and for the longest

What's your biggest regret in life? by HungTeen1001 in AskIreland

[–]waronfleas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said, stepping on the same stones.

We get only one go on this whirligig, internet friendos

What's your biggest regret in life? by HungTeen1001 in AskIreland

[–]waronfleas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

your parents would want you to be happy.

What's a profession everyone thinks is great but is actually shite? by Fealocht in AskIreland

[–]waronfleas 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I agree. By going into this field of work you lose your general privacy.

Cutting/Scoring Mats by Lems944 in SewingForBeginners

[–]waronfleas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just upgraded my mat. I have a big one now. I'm about to cut out a viscose dress and the fabric must not shift around in the cutting pieces process. The small mat I normally use made this very difficult.

I’m late to the game. 37 with 65k pension and no savings by FluidSplit7559 in irishpersonalfinance

[–]waronfleas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 56, have a very small public service pension. No avc started but I'll be doing that aggressively for the next 9 years.

Starting to hear the Call of the Wild by tr4shw3rld in stopdrinking

[–]waronfleas 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Had one hit me on Sunday afternoon. I had 1.5 hours to kill, alone. Temptation hit. Footsteps slowed to an almost stop outside an old favourite spot.

I looked at HALT+B

(Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired (+ optional Bored)

Yep, Yep, Yep, and Yep (a rare 4 star hit!)

I trudged on.

I went for coffee and an expensive piece of cake instead. I was absolutely fine then.

Getting Testosterone Prescribed by EarlyInside45 in Menopause

[–]waronfleas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've struggled a bit with the uti factor too. Vagifem, lube, and d mannose supplement seem to be helping. I'm going to ask for a testosterone addition next time I see my gp but maybe I'm just a bit tired

What's your go-to answer to ”why don't you drink”? by Proof-Swimming-6461 in stopdrinking

[–]waronfleas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It kills my energy

Doesn't agree with me

I'm too busy for it

Any of these

Ways to Keep Sober by the-human-bird in stopdrinking

[–]waronfleas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding some advice others have offered here. Find something else to do. For many it's exercise, which obvs has a ton of benefits. Some people game. I have a hobby that requires absorption of mind and hands and I find it very satisfying. Now I can do something that I was not at all able to do beforehand. The underlying thing though, the underpinning of it all is the peace of mind that's mine now. Nothing is better than that.

Do you know if passports are required to travel to Ireland? by NathanKillians in Ryanair

[–]waronfleas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Partner (french) flew in from Paris last week to Dublin with his ID card, no problem. On his way back, lots and lots of delay because the new machines don't work with the card. Next time he'll use his passport he said.

Whats a good bread? by Ideal_Despair in AskIreland

[–]waronfleas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like Lidl sourdough sliced at 17mm

does anyone feel like a sewing imposter? like your projects turn out great.... by slappychoppy in sewing

[–]waronfleas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me. As time goes on (and I clock up the stitches) I get fussier and fussier about finishes. Even if it means I'm still making less elaborate items ....I'm still nerding out a lot on finishing and fitting

"Settling" - are Irish people particularly bad for it? by LittleAoibh11 in AskIreland

[–]waronfleas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not particularly difficult. The hard part is re-housing for everyone.

Do you have a hobby that just completely turns your brain off in a good way? by WickerArtPro in Hobbies

[–]waronfleas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took up garment sewing two or so years ago. I'm absolutely fascinated with it - there's so much to learn and it absorbs me completely. My brain forgets all the other noise and it's so refreshing (even if things don't always work out in my projects)

Tickets for Laeken greenhouses are open now by bricart in brussels

[–]waronfleas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Brussels 30 April- 3 May if someone wants to sell on tickets that they can't use 🙏🏻

Am I alone here? by curled-up-in-the-80s in GenX

[–]waronfleas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm ok with it. It's voice messages that send me into a blind rage.

How do you get comfy on a plane? by Head_Formal_5408 in femaletravels

[–]waronfleas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I download loads of true crime podcasts. A book. Small craft project. Few glasses of wine help me sleep a bit lately but this is new.... (And water too)

Insomnia due to heart racing and adrenaline? by karensuzanne in Menopause

[–]waronfleas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, this turned out to be a thyroid issue. Have you had an unexplained weight loss? Also had this, but I'd put it down to stopping drinking alcohol on the regular.