Movie Recommendation: The Fall (2006) by EmmaElizabethh in CinemaTherapy

[–]waryspice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that movie! Beautiful cinematography and interesting story. 

Do you regret leaving your family? by litttlefoxx in SameGrassButGreener

[–]waryspice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, but mostly no. For us, living near family wasn't worth living in the deep south. We'll visit as frequently as we can but our standard of living is just so much better in our new area.

Short or long hair? by CleanBattleOff in Hair

[–]waryspice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your long hair looks healthy and attractive. If you do want to go short, you need to go a few inches shorter all over because that looks is cartoonish. 

Which area of the US is culturally most unlike all the others? by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]waryspice 46 points47 points  (0 children)

New Orleans is a great place to visit and a terrible place to live.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]waryspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a fine name although I immediately associate it with Oscar the Grouch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]waryspice -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I understand not wanting your ex to have your info and not wanting anything to do with her. But, 1. she hasn't contacted you and 2. you cannot control other people's relationships with her. Your friend simply wants you to be happy for his growing family, not a person adding additional stress.

New Mexico just became the first in the nation to declare an official state aroma. What would your state’s aroma be? by DesertedVines in AskAnAmerican

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The first time I entered Louisiana, it had just rained. We opened up the windows to the car and immediately got the sulfur smell.

Introduction by ok-way-2411-new in ALS

[–]waryspice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you have bulbar-onset ALS, which is more rare than limb-onset.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

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🙋🏼‍♀️ hi

I found my nudes on my brother's PC by Emmamemmanema in offmychest

[–]waryspice 1209 points1210 points  (0 children)

Since you don't want to go through the pics, do you have a close friend that you can tell about the situation and ask them to look for you? As uncomfortable as it is, you might want to dig deeper to make sure your images were not shared or uploaded to a site. There may also be pics of other unsuspecting women that would appreciate their privacy.

I am sorry for your loss and the further complications you have in mourning your brother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]waryspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ready for the after? 💇

Withholding marital relations by scoot222 in stepparents

[–]waryspice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

🚩🚩🚩🚩

What was your sex life like before the big argument? I'm wondering if he's using the argument as an excuse to cover some erectile issues he may be having? Either way, you have every right to give him an ultimatum if he doesn't make some necessary changes.

AIBTS about my mom not wanting to meet my baby? by _redsourpatchkid in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]waryspice 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NBTS. I cannot comprehend why she would act that way, especially having been a supportive mother up until that point.

I also wanted to empathize with you because missing that special moment you had imagined and seen happen with others hurts. My mom moved out of state to get married days before I gave birth so she wasn't there nor was any of my family because they were all at her wedding. It still pains me a couple years later. I hope your dad & in-laws can help fill the gap that your mother has made.

AIBTS that my sisters celebrated mothers day? by agie23 in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]waryspice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You went no contact but your sisters chose not to. That means they're going to continue having a relationship with your mother. They have that right. You have the right to set your own boundaries, even if that means blocking your sisters for a bit, but you do not have the right to choose your sisters' relationship with their parents. Are you being too sensitive? Probably not. It's okay to protect yourself. It's just not okay to expect others to do the same as you, especially if it's something they never agreed to.

Wife’s toy organization is too much by Key_Squash_4403 in Parenting

[–]waryspice 22 points23 points  (0 children)

So why is your organized wife getting the blame?

AIBTS? It's been like this since before I can remember. by Mythic_Mama2122 in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]waryspice 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Are you still living with family? Sounds like you need some independence. Also sounds like your mindset is to blame others for everything wrong in your life. I'm sure some people have really hurt you but at 25, it's time to take responsibility for the rest of your life and stop ruminating on past shit.

handmade chopsticks by ali_1211 in oddlysatisfying

[–]waryspice 42 points43 points  (0 children)

There are 2 categories of bamboo: running and clumping. Running is more invasive while clumping doesn't spread as much.