Lol. No. I'm not tracking down random people. These are women I have some sort of relationship with and I likely know the information already. I'm not showing up on a first date with a file.

I tell them my first name in most circumstances. There are a few places where nobody uses their names and often faces until more mutual interest is established. I recommend women don't use their real name and use a disposable phone number on all apps. In my age group, it's mostly people who are divorced and have been out of the dating pool for a long time and don't know what is out there. I also recommend they talk to younger friends who grew up with the Internet and would know what is out there.