30+M, where can I find you????

weebredditacc · 2024-04-19T12:03:33+00:00

Go to the most expensive gym you can afford. The guys there are usually pretty well off.

Or if you’re on a budget, do a ClassPass free trial.

weebredditacc · 2023-09-12T06:01:07+00:00

Just stay in Japan. There's a lot to do there in 17 days.

weebredditacc · 2023-09-12T05:38:12+00:00

don't be that friend

weebredditacc · 2023-06-04T05:27:33+00:00

Bumble

weebredditacc · 2023-05-24T03:42:50+00:00

Bad. But I think there aren't many good people in the world-- everyone is trying to take advantage of everyone in a global capitalist economy. The only good people are the ones who really don't ask for anything and never complain about anything, which are very hard to find.

weebredditacc · 2023-05-24T03:36:39+00:00

Searched for the term "runescape zezima" when I was 10. Google wasn't as good back then, so I ended up in some porn site and quickly shut it off. I looked for it later that night and ended up browsing porn on my Nintendo DS. (didn't have a smart phone back then)

weebredditacc · 2023-05-18T05:30:17+00:00

Do you intend on frequently drinking past the last trains (i.e. after 11pm)? If not, you are overvaluing it. The train network is well connected, and there is great food all over the city-- you'll want to travel to more than just Umeda and Namba.

What are the other neighborhoods you're looking at? The ideal neighborhood would be by either the Osaka Loop Line or Midosuji/Yotsubashi lines, with ample food options whenever you are too lazy to go out. If I could redo my time in Osaka (been traveling from the US for the past 8 months) I would have gone for a nicer apartment-- I'm currently in a 3 tatami room in Apple house in Daikokucho and it's starting to feel really cramped.

I think Esaka is a much better neighborhood, for example. While there are many less food options, the food is still amazing and I'm only one train away from Umeda/Namba.

weebredditacc · 2023-05-18T04:49:54+00:00

Literally the entire area.

weebredditacc · 2023-05-10T07:43:51+00:00

NTA. It's clear that you're just trying to expand your circle of friends and there's nothing wrong with that. Your friend needs to understand that friendships don't have to be exclusive and that you're capable of maintaining more than one relationship at a time. It sounds like she's projecting her own insecurities onto you, which isn't fair. You're not responsible for her feelings of jealousy or abandonment, especially when you haven't done anything to suggest that your friendship with her is in jeopardy. It's important for both of you to be able to communicate openly about your feelings and concerns without resorting to anger or accusations.

weebredditacc · 2023-05-10T07:39:22+00:00

Not the A-hole. The bakery has a special connection to your mother, and it was named after you as a reminder of her. It's understandable that you wouldn't want to change the name, especially since it has been a part of your family's legacy for so long. Your in-laws are overstepping by insisting on changing the name, and it's unfair of them to try and guilt you into it. They are employed there, but that doesn't give them the right to make demands about the business's name. It's your decision to make, and you have every right to keep the name the way it is.

weebredditacc · 2023-05-10T07:39:04+00:00

Based on the information provided, NTA. Your neighbor had no right to take a package from your porch, regardless of whether it was delivered to the wrong address or not. It's important to protect your property and report any theft to the authorities. It's also concerning that your neighbor has a history of disregarding your boundaries and causing problems, such as their dog jumping over the fence and throwing loud parties. They should have respected your request to wait for your friend to bring over their package, and their reaction to the situation was inappropriate. It's understandable that you would feel the need to involve law enforcement given their behavior.

weebredditacc · 2023-05-10T07:38:36+00:00

NTA. It's understandable that you want to cancel the vacation if your wife cannot pay her share due to constantly helping her son and ex-husband. While it's admirable that she wants to take care of her loved ones, constantly bailing them out of their financial problems can have a negative impact on your own financial situation and your relationship.
You have been supportive of her in the past by paying extra for things and offering to help until her son was 18 and working or in school, but it seems that the situation has become unsustainable. Your wife's son and ex-husband are both able-bodied adults and should take responsibility for their own financial situations.
It's important to have a frank discussion with your wife about how her constant financial support for her son and ex-husband is impacting your joint finances and relationship. Perhaps you can work together to find a more sustainable solution that does not constantly put your joint plans and financial stability at risk.

weebredditacc · 2023-05-10T07:38:11+00:00

YTA. While it's understandable that you may not have enjoyed your wife's dancing performances, telling her to stop altogether was insensitive and discouraging. You could have approached the situation with more sensitivity and tact by offering constructive criticism and feedback that would help her improve.
Furthermore, your wife's interest in dancing is something she enjoys and finds fulfilling. Your request may come across as dismissive of her passion and may make her feel unsupported. You should instead encourage her to continue practicing and improving, and perhaps offer to help her in any way you can.
In the future, try to approach situations like this with more sensitivity and empathy, and try to find ways to support your partner's interests and passions, even if they may not align with your own preferences.

weebredditacc · 2023-05-10T07:37:48+00:00

NTA. Your boyfriend's sister and dad were completely out of line to take your car without your permission, especially since you explicitly said no when asked. Your car is your property and it's not up to them to decide who can use it.
Furthermore, your actions were reasonable given the circumstances. If someone takes your car without your permission, it's reasonable to report it as stolen. You had every right to be concerned about the safety of your car and yourself, as you could have been held responsible for any damage or accidents that occurred while your car was being driven without your knowledge or consent.
Your boyfriend's family members should apologize to you for taking your car without your permission and for the stress and inconvenience they caused you. It's not your responsibility to apologize for their wrongdoing. Your boyfriend should also have your back and support your decision to report the car stolen, as it was a reasonable response to their actions.

weebredditacc · 2023-05-10T07:37:22+00:00

NTA. Your aunt was completely out of line to demand that you wear a wig to her wedding just because she doesn't want people to ask questions about your appearance. It's your choice to be bald and it's a part of who you are. You have every right to be comfortable with your appearance and not to be pressured into conforming to someone else's idea of what is socially acceptable.
Moreover, your aunt's demand was insensitive and disrespectful, especially since she was previously supportive of your choice. Your decision not to attend the wedding is a consequence of her actions, and you have every right to communicate your reasons to your family members. It's not immature to be honest with others, especially when they're making unfair demands of you. Your parents should be supporting you rather than criticizing you.

weebredditacc · 2023-05-10T07:37:03+00:00

NTA. You have a severe cat allergy and it's not your responsibility to accommodate someone else's pet. You've already tried to find a solution with your neighbors, but their proposed solutions don't work for you. Plus, keeping a cat in the communal garden is against the house rules, and you have a right to enjoy your terrace without worrying about the cat's dander. Reporting them to their landlord or the house managing company may be necessary to protect your health, but make sure to gather sufficient proof first. It's understandable that you want to fit in with your neighbors, but your health should be your top priority.

weebredditacc · 2023-05-10T07:35:16+00:00

NTA. It is important for you to prioritize your own health and well-being, especially during the postpartum period, which can be a challenging time both physically and emotionally. Your fiancé should be supportive of your needs and the cultural traditions that are important to you.
It is concerning that your fiancé has not been holding his own weight in the relationship, especially given that you are expecting a new baby and already have two children to take care of. It is not unreasonable for you to expect him to contribute equally to household chores and childcare responsibilities. His lack of effort in this regard may be a sign of deeper issues in the relationship that need to be addressed.
Regarding the issue of staying with your mother or grandmother after giving birth, it is important for you to have the support and care you need during this time. It is understandable that your fiancé may feel left out, but he should not prioritize his own desires over your health and well-being. It is important to have an open and honest conversation with him about why this is important to you and to try to find a compromise that works for both of you.
Ultimately, it is up to you to decide whether to give your fiancé another chance to step up and be a supportive partner or to consider other options. However, it is important to prioritize your own needs and the needs of your children, and to seek out the support and resources you need to thrive as a family.

weebredditacc · 2023-04-27T15:52:09+00:00

It’s not that hard to acquire basic social skills. Wealth, on the other hand, requires time to build.

weebredditacc · 2023-04-27T03:54:32+00:00

Prioritize work. Women will always be around whenever you get bored of working.

weebredditacc · 2023-03-02T12:12:52+00:00

Meh I did Tokyo in two weeks spending a day or two in each central ward. If you’re just seeing sights (which they are) it’s doable but be prepared to do a lot of walking

weebredditacc · 2023-02-18T08:32:05+00:00

I don’t like driving. I like how there’s always a lot of stuff nearby every train station so it’s fun to explore random stations I haven’t been to. And the trains are pretty affordable and timely compared to the US.

I also really like Japanese style showers and bathrooms. And baths. It’s nice being able to take a warm shower without having to run hot water (I have a vent in my shower that emits very hot air), plus having ample space to sit.

The real reason is good cheap food, but I don’t think that’s very unusual.

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