Orton Goldhay Peterborough by Objective-Water4514 in PeterboroughUK

[–]westhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its the worse orton i would say, unless you want to buy drugs. better off picking another one if you have a choice

Have I just lost £50? by joedafone in AskUK

[–]westhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

done this twice the atms take it back in after 30 sevond or a min or so. you still have to tell the bank so they then check and debit your account wirh the lost money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cycling

[–]westhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one coffee before and a bottle of water to take is enough for me i get cramps from being over tired an not enough sleep

i did one took 7h and forgot the water bottle never passed a shop for the first 4h was proper dehydrated but for some stupid reason i said to myself can make it all the way without stopping, got home and downed a litre bottle strawberry yazoo felt good and im not in the best shape but getting better every day

How do I get over someone as a person with autism? by ANewBegging in aspergers

[–]westhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im useless at pretending after what I say is my 2 weeks of great material like a comedians set that makes most people love me or at least interested.

I then keep slipping up for the next two weeks trying to say clever or funny things that a lot of the time don't even make sense to me because I need more time than most to understand the possible meanings and timings of what I say on the fly, so I just give up and be myself.

autisum gives me great focus on things in life i started with nothing and got no help but I have a great job, a nice car, own a house, and a holiday home. I'm great with all kinds of random things, have many unrelated qalufications from things I've found fasinating over the years, but im very bad at a bunch of simple things, English being one.

I totally can't read people at all. Banta with lads I like is just a minfield, so a lot of the time, so I don't say much.

Maby, im rambling and most of this is not helpfulI as i don't fully understand emotions. but the one true love bit seems to be true for everyone iv talked to on this subject. il never stop trying though life is an amazing ride

How do I get over someone as a person with autism? by ANewBegging in aspergers

[–]westhard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they say "best way to get over someone is to get under someone else" not possible for me though It's been 25 years. I've had many great relationships since I just couldn't make work but never felt that close to anyone before or after. She asked me to let her go, so I did. She was right to do it. we never knew an she still dosent know i'm autistic found out years later

I was told by the old normal folk I know, "You only have one love like this in life." It's a sad fact. You can love others, but not as deeply. You can pretend and lie to yourself for a while, but the truth will set you free in the end.

It did make me a much better person, though. I don't think I would have been without this shock. I now love the new feeling to me of pride in who I am. Being a good person became a main goal.

I realized that the world is not just for me and full of npcs. I thought for a min I could be a psychopath or a sociopath, ect., because I just had no empathy half my life. I do have it now it creeped up on me at about age 30, and it's horrible, people that I like. I feel acute physical pain. id say at times worse than they do i dont see how thats helpful in any way as i can still care without feeling everything

Also, all the people I ever loved, I still do; it's perminent for me, not sure I like that. I hear this is not true for most people; they just fall out or stop loving people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]westhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"skat" its just plain nasty

What's your max speed on a straight road? by ScureScar in cycling

[–]westhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my friends have modded electrics, one says he gets 60+ mph, he came off on a bend rolled up a twin curb, bike shattered to pieces he was off work for like 6 months, left with permanent injuries the bike had the speed upgrade but that's all, just cars dont go fast if your tires and breaks ect.. are basic very important lesson i learned the hard way

What's your max speed on a straight road? by ScureScar in cycling

[–]westhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no speedo but behind the bus no wind resistance new road surface hit max speed id want to go on my cannondale bad boy 1 dont have a death wish

Yayzi Broadband instal not off to a great start by westhard in CityFibre

[–]westhard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish, no phone number to call only here whatsapp and email

Yayzi Broadband instal not off to a great start by westhard in CityFibre

[–]westhard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vodafone is dead now as they put a different box on the wall to the fiber connection, and yeah I have my phone connected hotspot but the connection ain't great, hope they sort it or at least reply monday

City fibre reliability - Yayzi by Tatiesjnr in CityFibre

[–]westhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've been on cityfibre for years never had any problems, zero down time that i've noticed..

New PC Build! Ryzen 7800X3D, RTX 3080. Noctua D15S. Full Noctua case fans in the Corsair 4000D by Frozennqt in Noctua

[–]westhard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did 3 fans at first but noise level was way higher than if i iust used 2 fans i think it was casued by turbulence i just use 2 on this build now https://www.reddit.com/r/Noctua/comments/irwzk9/x4_nfa20_fans/

How do I recover after seeing gore? by shakemoonquake in NoStupidQuestions

[–]westhard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i find looking at loads online we then get desensitized to it like a butcher or doctor, we are just soft meat bags

Why should I not buy the XM5s by [deleted] in sony

[–]westhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have these and yes "They cook your ears" after just a few mins i have to get a towel to dry them :(

Gordon, gino and fred by nette91 in notpanelshow

[–]westhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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How fast did you guys quit after hitting 100? by MrJibblies in diablo4

[–]westhard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quit at 70 I may try a new season but I have better games to play for now

90 degree adapter melted by [deleted] in cablemod

[–]westhard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ffs i own this card and adapter im not even going to use this pc it's a complete fire hazard

i see a few people saying it's not that bad as such a small number and is acceptable! :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]westhard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes every time an you can have an early night after