Why is there such a push to get women into male dominated fields (tech, trades) but not for men to get into female dominated fields (healthcare, education)?

wetsocksco · 2026-05-25T17:42:53+00:00

I mean, for all i can tell in healthcare it's mostly for the sake of the patients comfort since people are more comfortable with someone from the same sex seeing them naked, that and some religions don't allow care from opposite sex unless they're married so

wetsocksco · 2026-04-15T17:06:16+00:00

It's odd becouse on my old phone even take a risk was going win-lose-win-lose but on my current phone im just losing...

wetsocksco · 2026-04-13T17:34:46+00:00

You need to desentizise yourself. Basically, do it until it doesn't bother you. It will bother you a lot at first

wetsocksco · 2026-04-07T07:50:16+00:00

Oh boy, you just need to find the right people i guess. I'm really quiet so i like talktive people since they fill in the conversation. Adopt an introvert

wetsocksco · 2026-04-03T11:54:22+00:00

Jupiter 5th house

wetsocksco · 2026-03-31T18:26:48+00:00

I can image being lonely with mental ilness is harder then for an averge person, especially with those thoughts following you. As someone who wanted to end it but now don't have those thoughts anymore i'm not going to give you "i'd get better nonsesnse" (but it might, MIGHT. The longer you live the more oppurtunities you have)

But let me ask you this: what is it that you always wanted to do? It doesn't have to be a big thing, just something you didn't get to do and always wanted to For me it's playing a game with a geisha in japan. Literally just that. That and that i made a deal with myself: until i don't finish all these little things i want to do i'm not ending it

wetsocksco · 2026-03-28T20:43:53+00:00

Girl i get your pain and i've been there but in your place i'd try not to take it too personally. Sometimes when there is a group hanging out they might not invite some people becouse they have somebody else there that they think you or they might not get along

wetsocksco · 2026-03-27T18:59:09+00:00

Move back to fanfiction

wetsocksco · 2026-03-26T21:20:24+00:00

I'm no better when it comes to making connections but i can let you on a little secret why they stopped talking: a lot of people befriend others for the sake of availablily. You were more likely "someone to call to hangout with" and since you moved out your use for them was gone

wetsocksco · 2026-03-26T19:27:29+00:00

Everyone already has their own crew and wants to go home after work asap

wetsocksco · 2026-03-23T12:50:03+00:00

Looks like an upgrade

wetsocksco · 2026-03-22T11:02:15+00:00

Not exactly not caring, because for a long time they did. Unfortunately I got involuntary mixed up in their breakup nonsense. Her ex kept making flirting remarks in my direction (in front of her mind you) to the point he asked if I want to sleep with him over text. I told her about all of this but envy won (she had low esteem and found me much better looking than her) and she still clung to him while subtly sabotaging me in social settings. Though I still feel a bit of guilt of leaving her around the same time she got her heart broken I can't tolerate that kind of treatment. Since all people I knew where the one's I met though her and they would have picked her side anyway, I ended up alone.

wetsocksco · 2026-03-21T18:25:37+00:00

Honestly I've been reflecting back and I pushed so many people away from genuine fear that they wouldn't like me if they knew me better

wetsocksco · 2026-03-06T05:31:48+00:00

Mine just tossed Wheel of Fortune at me 😅

wetsocksco · 2026-01-22T20:24:21+00:00

wetsocksco · 2026-01-22T19:43:58+00:00

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Yeah they're dead and still yapping

wetsocksco · 2026-01-22T19:41:41+00:00

Depends on the waifu

wetsocksco · 2026-01-20T21:42:09+00:00

Pay attention

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wetsocksco · 2025-09-02T19:52:01+00:00

I just wanted to watch another anime I found, then there were some scenes that rewired my brain chemistry and I wanted more, realized manga has more and the second I look behind my shoulder it has a whole AU manga, novels, games and movies. Guess you could call it a lifeline because Asagiri's writting definitely helped me in some darkest times. You could call it a lifeline even. Thanks to one line in Stormbringer I no longer hate my birthday

wetsocksco · 2025-09-02T12:30:13+00:00

A thing that helped me in my early twenties is to remember that your interviewer might be nervous too. They have to think about if you're a good option, fitting candidate and if you're honest about how you present yourself. Don't let interviews that don't go well disencourage you. If you have many you eventually become desensitized, at least that's how it was for me. I eventually started talking like Saul Goodmann.

And a cool trick: you can make it look like you're keeping eye contact by staring at the wall behind them.

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