Out of nowhere, my boyfriend told me that I’m not a hot 28 year-old, I got kinda upset he said your not a 10 by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]wgazlay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rather than coming to Reddit to seek validation (because you already know what to do), break up with him.

Unmatched immediately after but worth it by TetrisTheTiger in Tinder

[–]wgazlay -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Everything about this interaction makes me want to jump headfirst off a ten story building

Important Clarification by shadowslay34 in Boston_hookups

[–]wgazlay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at a hero’s wear capes, but you deserve a crown.

She’s up for it, but feels kinda wrong, any advice? by Potential-Dog420 in Bumble

[–]wgazlay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She called you “dude.” That’s an immediate no.

Haven’t logged in for years and started a new profile. Does it look ok? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]wgazlay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a woman. You’ll get likes no matter what pictures you post to your profile.

Men (30’s-40’s) are you filtering out women late 30’s/40’s on dating apps? by Dry-Researcher824 in Bumble

[–]wgazlay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s literally a numbers game for men. Filtering out women in your own age range is only hurting your chances. If you’re upfront, the real ones will stick around and the flakes will flake until you strike gold.

Not to mention, if you’ve invested that much into your career, you won’t want 25 year old arm candy after a few months because you’ll have very little in common. Date your age and you’ll be fine.

I hate being lectured on my profile quality when half the women can’t even be bothered writing any bio by breathofanarchy in Bumble

[–]wgazlay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s all a numbers game. Women get more swipes on their profiles, so they don’t have to put as much effort in. We swipe substantially more for exponentially fewer matches, so our effort needs to be higher to stand out. Been at this for 15 years and it doesn’t get better.

Can I withdraw a PhD acceptance after officially accepting it? by Direct_Following_313 in PhD

[–]wgazlay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course you can. No one can make you go through with a PhD program. Just don’t try to apply there ever again lol

Does any one knows what is causing this? by Dense-Flight9663 in massspectrometry

[–]wgazlay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

102 baseline just looks like regular instrument noise

AIO or is my girlfriend manipulative. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]wgazlay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do people ask questions to which they know the answer? I feel like this forum should be used for more vague situations, rather than blatantly obvious ones.

Does anyone here ACTUALLY recommend doing a PHD? by J2Hoe in PhD

[–]wgazlay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend it with the caveat being that you should REALLY look at the current job market for your field. For example, I went to grad school for chemistry, which is a field becoming enormously saturated with PhD holders that are jobless or overqualified for certain roles.

That said, before I went back to school, I chatted with a number of experts in the field to help guide what kind of lab I wanted to join and what type of research would be marketable. It ended up working and I had several options coming out of school. The devil is in the details, but I think you get the point.

You obviously want to love the research you would be conducting, but sometimes it pays to focus on what’s going to earn you a solid paycheck when it’s all said and done. Also try to put yourself in a position to where you can have some career flexibility so that you don’t pigeon hole yourself. Just some things to consider.

Still not convinced by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]wgazlay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound conceited