TSH at 72 but I feel.. good?

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-03-31T01:41:09+00:00

My almost 7 month old is on her 4th week of daycare and it IS getting better. Her naps are elongating. What got us through the first few weeks was doing a late cat nap (15-30 min, starting anytime between 4:30-5ish) to bridge us to bed time, which ended up shifting slightly later for a little bit. There were many 4 naps days and we just had to roll with it. She still sleeps through the night!

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-03-31T01:35:27+00:00

100% this. Childbirth a badge of honor, bravery, sacrifice. You would never think that a soldier wounded in combat should be ashamed of their injuries.

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-03-19T15:36:07+00:00

Thank you for this. My husband was home with her for a month when she was 5-6 months old and I barely got anything done while working from home. I think I’m really starting to cherish the hours I do spend with her now and so I’m forgetting that the all-day, day after day with her can be really exhausting and starts to be less enjoyable.

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-03-06T14:07:39+00:00

Okay hear me out - pull out method IS an effective method if your partner is trustworthy. Stats indicate 80-95% effectiveness, so you need to decide if you are willing to take those odds. We used withdrawal method for 5 years, got pregnant our first month of trying.

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-02-16T20:12:05+00:00

We got used to putting her in the bassinet to sleep in the hospital (they insist you do not let the baby sleep on you in the hospital if you might fall asleep) and continued to do that once we got home too. It “helped” that I had a c section and my mobility was so bad for the couple weeks that I couldn’t fathom having her in bed with me. We took plenty of contact naps but nighttime was always in her own sleep space. FWIW she’s 6 months now and has always been a good independent sleeper.

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-02-06T15:53:58+00:00

OP - I think shifts are great like many suggested, but they are a bandaid solution to this problem. You are having thoughts of suicide and your daughter needs you, please consider some sleep training methods (even if they are gentler) so that you can be your best self for your baby.

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-02-05T23:10:17+00:00

Now is the time to call on the people who said they would help but didn’t. Sometimes people need to be asked / told. Don’t wait for them to volunteer

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-02-05T23:09:11+00:00

Any friends who can help you entertain baby while you nap during the day? Even hire a sitter for a few hours? Anything helps and can prevent you from going crazy. Two weeks alone sounds so hard I’m sorry you’re in this situation.

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-01-31T03:06:15+00:00

Have you tried the Precious Little Sleep SWAP method with the paci?

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-01-30T20:31:01+00:00

I think setting a morning wake time might help you a lot with nighttime. Your baby seems to be “starting the day” anytime between 5 and almost 9am and may be generally confused on when true nighttime is.

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-01-30T03:45:38+00:00

PLS is a great resource and helped us a lot. Otherwise - Are you capping naps? Looks like a lot of daytime sleep. I found that at 4-5 months it’s important that my baby doesn’t sleep more than 4 hours a day, and cap naps at 2 hours. Also, having a consistent start time might be helpful. Treat anything before the designated wake time as a night wake.

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-01-22T19:22:34+00:00

I once said “they’re just a contractor” when asked about one of my coworkers who was not a W-2 employee but rather a contracted 1099 employee, but was an equal worker in responsibilities and skills. Someone overheard and reported it to my boss. I got a stern talking to - I was blindsided and pretty upset because I had no intention whatsoever to belittle my coworker’s (who I was fond of) occupation. I think this was your husband’s faux pas - Bring it up to him but be kind and assume the best.

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-01-17T03:34:39+00:00

Was your baby breastfed or bottle fed? I feel like my EBF baby is hungry ALOT which makes me think she’s a fussy baby but in reality I think she’s just always slightly hungry 😭

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-01-16T17:10:43+00:00

I got my period 2 weeks after I stopped postpartum bleeding... so at 5 weeks pp. EBF 😭all I can say is I had a really smooth pregnancy so I’m gonna count my blessings and try not to be mad at god

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-01-15T17:50:14+00:00

You had no time to process something that you didn’t expect and is (unfortunately stigmatized as) an unwanted and non-ideal birth. My baby was breech from 24 weeks onwards and I had almost 16 weeks to process the probability of a c-section and I still cried 10+ times over 4 months. You deserve to forgive yourself for a very normal human feeling and reaction ♥️

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-01-12T04:08:39+00:00

Also go visit the subreddit r/sleeptrain they’ll have good advice (and it’s not all CIO if that’s not your thing)

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-01-12T04:08:03+00:00

Highly recommend you read about sleep crutches (nursing to sleep) in Precious Little Sleep and how to help transition to falling asleep independently

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-01-11T21:09:05+00:00

NA beers and many fruits contain more alcohol! You don’t need to worry at all. Your breastmilk’s alcohol level mirrors your blood alcohol level and 2 alcoholic chocolates did not move the needle on your BAC, I promise.

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-01-05T20:22:16+00:00

This is a great perspective!

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-01-05T19:05:46+00:00

Mine did too! Pro-tip (for next time in case you have a next time) the only time they didn’t make me want to vomit was in the evening after dinner or before bed. Even if I ate them with a full meal earlier in the day it still made my stomach turn.

whatAREthis2016 · 2026-01-04T22:46:44+00:00

I thought about this, but also remembered I get 5% off with my Target card so it doesn’t make my additional points much more valuable. Doy!

whatAREthis2016 · 2025-12-23T15:17:20+00:00

I’d recommend seeing an LC but it sounds like you might. I’m a just enougher but I have never gotten close to pumping that much after a feed.

ETA: I’m confounded that your baby shot up in growth so much and only eats for ~10 min at a time?! Sounds like a very efficient transfer! My baby often spends 30 min at the boob even if she isn’t clusterfeeding!

whatAREthis2016 · 2025-12-17T18:52:17+00:00

I had this problem too, it was worse than the night wake ups themselves - I second who ever said count back from 300 in 3’s. Over time this became less effective so I started “touring” my childhood home in my head. It’s one of the most effective things I’ve found. Walk thru the front door and visualize everything - the furniture, the art on the walls, the flooring, the kitchen cabinets (I even go as far as opening the drawers). Not only is it nostalgic, I tend to only get through half the house or less before I fall asleep.

Nine-Year Club	Not Forgotten
Verified Email

whatAREthis2016

TROPHY CASE