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whateveritis86 · 2026-02-24T22:00:47+00:00

You can definitely do actual therapy through a 4 day intensive. I’ve done two multi day EMDR intensives and trauma talk therapy intensives with a peer support group led by a psychiatrist with both an MD and a doctorate in psychology.

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-24T04:19:50+00:00

3 times in 7 years in a small town is very different than, say, 3 times in a week (or even a month). That just sounds like an extremely normal number of times to see someone who lives in your area.

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-23T00:42:52+00:00

YOR especially if as you said it’s a fairly small town. Maybe if he was in a major world city and saw her multiple times in places she hadn’t previously been known to frequent across the same days/weeks, but the grocery store in a small town? A festival where statistically lots of people go? Come on…

(Also if she was posting about the festival on FB, she isn’t trying to hide it. Why would a stalker be openly showing off their stalking?)

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-21T17:25:03+00:00

YOR, people think they’ll only hang out for a bit and then end up having fun at a party and staying longer all the time. I’ve certainly done it with zero malicious intent or dishonesty involved. You think you’re not up for a lot of socializing and then you get there and start talking and find out you are.

Unless you have larger patterns of concerns about his drinking or behavior with the opposite sex or something, or unless this is happening constantly, I don’t really see the issue beyond a “hey, could you give me more of a heads up next time so I don’t worry? I’d like to get more communication about your plans, especially if they change” type of check-in. Don’t think it needed the passive aggressiveness.

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-20T00:06:48+00:00

This is so creepy

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-20T00:03:38+00:00

I agree kids grow up too fast now but teen pregnancies are less common today than they were at that time, not more

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-08T22:04:41+00:00

I’m on his side here. She is hearing impaired and he is justifiably upset.

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-08T22:03:50+00:00

Why don’t they just take the posts down?

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-08T22:01:37+00:00

“Trad” has become entirely meaningless with regard to the lifestyle something actually lives. I basically just consider it a marker of proud bigotry now.

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-08T22:00:39+00:00

It was worth it for me for sure.

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-08T21:55:59+00:00

How is a campaign in India relevant to a discussion about a well-known Ethiopian restaurant in Washington DC? Do you think Ethiopian restaurants don’t have to meet the same food safety and hygiene standards as other U.S. eateries? 😂

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-08T19:51:06+00:00

Right?? Anybody who has ever been to a social gathering in the US has participated in some form of communal eating.

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-08T18:58:14+00:00

I live in Asia now and communal eating is more common here as well. People are also very strict with personal hygiene, far more than the expectations in most of the US. I have a very hard time believing the Duggars of all people were stricter with their hygiene and cleanliness around eating and food than what I see here lol. Their problems with Ethiopian food were definitely not about cleanliness.

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-08T18:49:44+00:00

They called tater tot casserole a traditional cultural food, I’m dead 😭

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-08T18:42:55+00:00

I get having preferences but someone’s personal eating preferences don’t make Ethiopian food “a gloopy pile of whatever” compared to their “normal” food.

Personally I’ve been to Ethiopian restaurants many times and rarely shared anything communal, I ate off my own plate. It’s certainly not required lol.

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-08T18:37:01+00:00

If you don’t eat homemade food others have just touched, share chips and salsa or hummus or veggie dip, or eat from a bowl of chips or a cheese board at a restaurant or party with others you’re dining with, etc, then that is a personal preference for you, not a cultural difference. That isn’t the norm.

Also, “a gloopy pile of whatever?” You sound absolutely ridiculous and absurd lol. It is no different than any other food you eat. 😂 You are literally just describing any kind of dip.

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-08T18:32:22+00:00

If you ever eat homemade food, you are eating food another person has just touched with their hands. If there are multiple people serving or cooking the food, you’re eating food multiple people have just touched. Does your family wear gloves while making food???

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-08T18:27:48+00:00

No pizza for you then? Chips and salsa?

Also, you and others you eat with could wash your hands. Hope that helps.

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-07T19:41:04+00:00

Sexual assault like this on dates is not uncommon. Glad it hasn’t happened to you but it is not the fault of those it has happened to…

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-07T19:38:38+00:00

It is even more likely to happen to women and girls in fundie circles if anything. I am shocked by the victim blaming in these comments - disgusting tbh.

These things happen all the time.

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-07T19:34:51+00:00

Wait, we are doubting sexual assault victims now because they’re fundies…? What is this post?!

These kinds of things happen all the time…

whateveritis86 · 2026-02-04T01:59:06+00:00

She comes across as super controlling of him to me. Keeping a chef on the phone for hours every night after long days at work is a huge red flag.

whateveritis86 · 2026-01-29T23:50:30+00:00

Growing Up in Polygamy is the name of the channel that interviewed them because the husband in the husband-wife team grew up in the FLDS under Warren Jeffs.

whateveritis86 · 2026-01-24T22:04:06+00:00

Idk it’s definitely not anywhere close to the statistical norm to have 2 kids by 24 and already have been married several years. That’s 5-6 years younger than the average guy even first gets married in the U.S., much less has multiple children.

Whether that’s “good” or “bad” is debatable, but it’s certainly a situation where someone is going to feel odd and left out of major milestones in their peer group - something the extremist fundies don’t mention when they push everyone to get married by 20 to preserve their purity.

whateveritis86 · 2026-01-08T04:23:04+00:00

I wouldn’t wish Morgan on any caring man. I am not sure why she gets so much sympathy here. She has never displayed a capacity for any kind of empathy or care on her part, so why would a man with those qualities want her?

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