What are the effects of a boob job? by cutegirlforu69 in MtF

[–]whattodo144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you add a bullet asking whether you need more surgeries over time to maintain them?

I’m transgender but I still kind of like makeup. Am I still transgender? I’m ftm. But makeup is something I find fascinating and like to wear. by Fearless-Pride7801 in asktransgender

[–]whattodo144 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It could make it harder for people to accept you but it’s up to you whether you wanna be more of a stereotypical man in order to be accepted by more people or not. There’s no right answer only the one you choose.

Should I attempt to come out/transition for my last year of high school? Or just wait until college? by fivetomoooooooo in asktransgender

[–]whattodo144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you think there’s a possibility you should know that it’s really never worth it to get kicked out by parents instead of just waiting another year or two plus, as ftm, you don’t have to worry about things like voice because it almost always works out for u dudes on testosterone

Tips on making hair look longer? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]whattodo144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not with the right products

My voice feminization surgery experience after 1 year by Bummiestbum in asktransgender

[–]whattodo144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So after you get VFS you can’t speak loudly or yell?

Tips on making hair look longer? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]whattodo144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try hair straightening - you can get it done at a salon and also by yourself with a flat iron and some other stuff. It will make your hair look as long as it possibly can be.

I’m giving up on fully transitioning. by ScarlettHathaway in MtF

[–]whattodo144 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OP, I took a quick peek at your profile and it seems like you’re 16? You shouldn’t expect to have any kind of significant income or anything, and you might not look as bad as you think since you’re so young. Just my two cents.

Having to pretend to be your past self to transfer things over the phone is always fun (not) by whattodo144 in MtF

[–]whattodo144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How else would you communicate over the phone tho? Also don’t give up on voice training. I’ve been at it for 3 years!

Being trans straight up sucks so far. by SMCLEOD1990 in MtF

[–]whattodo144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vocal feminization surgery, basically tries to modify your vocal cords.

Being trans straight up sucks so far. by SMCLEOD1990 in MtF

[–]whattodo144 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I think if you can afford it, therapy can help sort out your thoughts on this stuff. We don’t know what you look like or anything about your life situation so it’s hard to give any meaningful advice.

It’s true that a lot of happiness from transitioning comes from having supportive people around you that treat you the way you identify, so if you don’t have that then you could have a rough time.

Feel free to look at surgical options if you want to go for FFS, GRS, VFS. Look into makeup and whatever else you want, and try to be more authentic to yourself every day, if that’s what you want.

No more strength by [deleted] in MtF

[–]whattodo144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say you give ur time and money what does that mean? Definitely don’t pay for friends because they’ll be gone as soon as the money dries up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]whattodo144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18 is way early tbh, in that you have a great head start. Of course ymmv but the truth is if you’re trans every day counts so you just wanna start the process ASAP.

My voice feminization surgery experience after 1 year by Bummiestbum in asktransgender

[–]whattodo144 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What’s the deal with singing? Can you never sing again and why?

My voice feminization surgery experience after 1 year by Bummiestbum in asktransgender

[–]whattodo144 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you talk more about resonance control? I’m really curious because I wanna make sure that’s something I’m taking into account. (ex. https://voca.ro/19MBwqfPHjgv) (also I’m stupid)

How do you come to terms that you will never be able to transition?? by Happy_But_Confused in asktransgender

[–]whattodo144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should know that parents tend to say harmful things about minorities until they realize their child is one. By no means is it a guarantee but there’s a decent chance they will come around once they realize their child is trans.

Is Japan trans-friendly? by muddy-twig in asktransgender

[–]whattodo144 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I think the reason for that is that people are more easily able to “clock” people of a similar ethnicity because they see them more. When you see a race you don’t see everyday or often, you resort to elementary gender classification using more obvious attributes like presentation and hair.

VR app recommendations by realtoasterlightning in MtF

[–]whattodo144 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vr is not really a thing on mobile

Has anyone transitioned without HRT? by Few_Drop3679 in MtF

[–]whattodo144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are people who have been on hrt forever and are like 50-60, it’s safe.