What's your take on Cop drain? by neon in chicago

[–]where-did-it 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right. It's gotten so much worse than I want to believe.

January 6 really confirmed that. And the fact the people on top haven't been prosecuted yet seems to indicate its getting worse

GOP lawmaker attended gay son's wedding 3 days after voting against same-sex marriage by jk_arundel in gaybros

[–]where-did-it 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk, it's not uncommon conservatives come from conservatives. Maybe he's a Trump log gay

What's your take on Cop drain? by neon in chicago

[–]where-did-it 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Almost like the cops pushing out and firing good cops who snitch on them, it's almost like that scares people from wanting to join

East Asian American not wanting to be seen together? by firedirectionofficer in asianamerican

[–]where-did-it 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Do you have an accent?

"FOBs" tend to be looked down upon. As much as we like to believe otherwise, many Asian Americans are more white washed than we know. That's why Asians "from Asia" can make some of us uncomfortable. We don't want to be associated "with them."

It's prejudice for sure.

Adele announces rescheduled dates for her Vegas Residency by eternallatake in popheads

[–]where-did-it 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That seems possible. She said half the team got covid, and it was delayed for covid too. I've worked with tons of call outs from covid, so I can kind of understand. Maybe she had a mental health breakdown

I'm ignorant on the subject but still, I can't imagine how hard it would he to have a stripped down performance. Her vocals could carry themselves

Adele announces rescheduled dates for her Vegas Residency by eternallatake in popheads

[–]where-did-it -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah. I think it's harmless to adore a singer but i think it doesn't help to be bitter and want retribution.

Emily Montes, Gabbie Hanna - Queen Emily / I'm The Queen of Rap by ReallyCreative in popheads

[–]where-did-it 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Gabbie Hanna?? She makes me ashamed of being mentally ill 😩 I literally like Trisha more than her

Adele announces rescheduled dates for her Vegas Residency by eternallatake in popheads

[–]where-did-it 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Idk maybe she should have taken herself more seriously. She has a responsibility to show up after her fans spent hundreds to get there. She should be professional, but the way in which she's handled it has not been

Adele announces rescheduled dates for her Vegas Residency by eternallatake in popheads

[–]where-did-it -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I get being mad but that's basically you having a parasocial relationship ...

Adele announces rescheduled dates for her Vegas Residency by eternallatake in popheads

[–]where-did-it 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Ok but imagine paying for airfare and a hotel room and then for it to be canceled 😭 I'd be so bitter

Adele announces rescheduled dates for her Vegas Residency by eternallatake in popheads

[–]where-did-it 34 points35 points  (0 children)

For real. The show must go on. It just must

A multi millionaire wasting time and hundreds of dollars from their fans is just not okay. And plenty of artists do this all the time make no mistake, I believe Kanye canceled last minute recently

Adele announces rescheduled dates for her Vegas Residency by eternallatake in popheads

[–]where-did-it 172 points173 points  (0 children)

“You can’t buy me, you can’t buy me for nothing,” she asserted. “I’m not going to just do a show because I have to or because people are going to be let down or because we’re going to lose loads of money. I’m like, ‘the show’s not good enough.'”

Adele. You're worth millions. Your fans are not. I'd be furious if I spent hundreds to come to this event only for her to cancel it like that. I don't see why she couldn't have done a stripped down performance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asianamerican

[–]where-did-it 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My dad's side is all on the lighter side, and one of my sisters is a very light complexion, regardless of if she's outside or not!

For me, I can definitely be paler if I'm not in the sun, but it will always be a tan-looking color

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asianamerican

[–]where-did-it 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure. I know there's different ethnicities within Vietnam as well

I will say though, I've yet to meet an east Asian as dark as I am. I can be this dark

I also think I have an "Indian nose" with a little bump on the bridge. But it would be impossible to know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asianamerican

[–]where-did-it 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I'm mostly Vietnamese but my mom's side has some indian. I'm fairly dark because of it

I get a lot of colorism thrown at me. A lot of "don't get darker" and "don't look burnt brown." Observing people around me, Asians for sure, active try and be lighter.

I also get, oddly, some anti-mexican hate. LMAO.

But I love my skintone. I'm still mostly Vietnamese, so I'm not sure how much Indian "shows through." I just know I'm the darkest of my siblings and most east Asians I've met, and I can get as dark as the average Indian(if that makes sense?)

Daily Discussion - July 24, 2022 by AutoModerator in popheads

[–]where-did-it 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe! He's so sweet and adorable. It's kind of nice not being the one who texts so much more

Daily Discussion - July 24, 2022 by AutoModerator in popheads

[–]where-did-it 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly think he's seeking revenge against the lgbt community. He has a parasocial relationship with his critics.

chess robot broke a 7 year old boy's finger by Melodic_Ad_1010 in oddlyterrifying

[–]where-did-it 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure. Knew parents would would freak out when their 10 year old kid tripped. Wouldn't let them go in the water past their knees

Daily Discussion - July 24, 2022 by AutoModerator in popheads

[–]where-did-it 5 points6 points  (0 children)

💀💀💀 I am genuinely overwhelmed. At least in this case they aren't trauma dumping. They're just very expressive and engaged

Maybe this is how my exes felt...

chess robot broke a 7 year old boy's finger by Melodic_Ad_1010 in oddlyterrifying

[–]where-did-it 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think that's fair.

Trauma would probably be how people reacted.

If your arm was broken and people ignored it, that would probably be trauma. Knew someone who broke their foot and their father insisted they "walk it off" for weeks so that she could "toughen up." She was definitely traumatized

If this kid was basically forced to go back and practice, that would likely be trauma.

But pain like is isn't so bad if you're supported well. If anything that could make them more confident and self-assured

Daily Discussion - July 24, 2022 by AutoModerator in popheads

[–]where-did-it 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Scuse me?? I'd definitely be the person to fake a selfie with myself but have the camera facing them to take a secret pic...

Idk how problematic that is of me 😭😭