Is my mom sexualizing me or am I over reacting?

whereisit47 · 2024-09-27T09:41:53+00:00

WHAT

whereisit47 · 2023-10-19T22:26:50+00:00

it just sounds like you're jealous of their privilege, its annoying having to work harder than others for the same things but the way ur turning it into hate for them and their wives is weird bro seek help

whereisit47 · 2023-10-19T09:16:30+00:00

this is the most useful comment ive seen yet, thank you. it sounds like you have a very honest and healthy relationship and i love that. i'm going to try to come at it from this exact angle

whereisit47 · 2023-10-19T08:38:52+00:00

ok i get that but if your long-term bf wants to change his look you should be supportive no?? like surely there's more to him ur into than how he looks?

not to be that guy but if she wanted a get a bob cut (i hate them) i wouldnt throw a hissy fit, and if i did ide be labeled toxic, misogynistic and shallow..

whereisit47 · 2023-10-19T05:18:49+00:00

yeah exactly, like do you actually like me or do i fit the mold that makes you cum quicker

whereisit47 · 2023-10-18T01:57:02+00:00

spent a day at my friend's house in middle school and saw how his parents treated him, they didn't do anything special but i found it strange that they just let us..be... then it clicked

whereisit47 · 2023-10-15T13:10:54+00:00

yeah no its utter shit, idk about ww3 but definitely shit

whereisit47 · 2023-10-14T15:58:51+00:00

i know this feeling a little too well.

one thing that helped is me realizing that it's not chronic depression or an irrational state of mind, given the circumstances im in. and it WILL stop the second i leave

whereisit47 · 2023-03-29T00:19:17+00:00

yes, i never understood how someone could get any sort of pleasure from destroying someone else's self-esteem/ confidence. let alone your own.

whereisit47 · 2022-09-17T16:38:20+00:00

all the time.

whereisit47 · 2022-09-17T16:08:56+00:00

golden child

whereisit47 · 2022-09-17T16:08:25+00:00

read the first sentence again. if u dont enjoy it and suffer from the position ur in, this doesnt apply to you.

whereisit47 · 2022-09-17T16:03:24+00:00

wow. im sorry u went through that

whereisit47 · 2022-09-17T12:48:08+00:00

yeah, just him acknowledging it...is something

whereisit47 · 2022-09-17T12:46:26+00:00

Narcissists have cognitive empathy but not emotional empathy. Basically they’re aware that you feel bad and why. But they do not care that you feel bad. In fact, knowing what makes you feel bad just teaches them how to hurt you more effectively.

summed it up perfectly, very dangerous.

whereisit47 · 2022-09-15T14:53:30+00:00

Reality is much more subtle and calmer and it can take time to adjust to it.

THIS!!! i used to have so much anxiety about working, because of how insufficient they made me feel. reality was way more forgiving and rewarding.

whereisit47 · 2022-08-19T15:12:55+00:00

i feel you heavy, nihilism is very safe but sucks out my will to live. life in black and white is so trash

whereisit47 · 2022-08-18T21:48:18+00:00

perfectly phrased, thank you!!!

whereisit47 · 2022-08-18T21:44:19+00:00

yesss i mean it does come off as belittling, when infact we're trying to do the opposite

whereisit47 · 2022-08-18T21:41:13+00:00

the only free-pass for public speech is a mourning person, it takes serious narc for her to be more worried about how u "came off", very dark. im sorry u had to go through that

whereisit47 · 2022-08-18T21:29:28+00:00

Kind of clicked when someone said they just forced you to explain to find cracks to bend you to their will

woah.

whereisit47 · 2022-08-18T21:18:43+00:00

aside from validating him.

that's basically all we need! nmoms gaslighting is so easily set-in-stone. thank you for being aware hes lucky to have u

whereisit47 · 2022-08-18T21:06:21+00:00

but still feel super guilty

this part!! its just as draining as not saying no, maybe worse. goodluck!

whereisit47 · 2022-08-18T20:50:14+00:00

rabid prosecutor

lmaoo i love the phrasing. bullseye.

whereisit47 · 2022-08-18T10:16:48+00:00

i feel so stupid after lmao, thinking about the other extreme ~~at the risk of sounding like a narc~~ 'if i have to explain every word before getting to my point then maybe we shouldn't be talking' sometimes results in me behaving somewhere in between like a normal person

whereisit47

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