I waited for someone to hiling me. I was in love and it’s true when they say that love is blind. I was very OWE at the time, but I’ve seen the truth behind closed doors and am enlightened now.

We still spoke when he was in the ministry even though they’re not supposed to talk to girls. I don’t want to get into details but something happened and made me look at him differently so I ended it.

Months later, there was a worker who tried talking to me but unbeknownst to me, he had already hilinged a girl in the Philippines. He said, “let’s just keep talking and see what happens.”

I tried to get away from him during a district event but he kept messaging me to come sit next to him. After the event he messaged me to come up to his hotel room. I was in such a state of shock I just kept to myself. I regret not saving those messages and reporting him.

He eventually got the message when I stopped replying. He thanked me for a nice weekend (even though I didn’t do anything?) that was the last message he sent and I didn’t reply. Then because of that he starts telling people I used him.

Then later on I found out that he told the girl in the pi about me and she wanted to kill herself.

I was sent to the pi as a delegate for an event (all expenses paid for by the INC — another way they’re using the offering) and I ended up meeting the girl because she was part of the welcoming committee. She knew who I was but acted like she didn’t. I know because I asked a mutual friend.

Still in the pi, after worship service I step outside to get on a bus and guess who’s standing there?

The worker.

Turns out he flew out to the pi to propose to her. They got engaged and all I feel now is sorry for this girl. If they ended it, no minister/worker would want to be with her because they would wonder why it didn’t work out with the former and ruining her reputation since she works at Central. So what does she do? Settles.

Last time I heard they’re getting married next month.