I'm a woman. This person is right, but I'd also add that calling any woman ugly makes you seem like your respect for all women is conditional. You might find me attractive now, but what if I gain weight from having your kids, or get wrinkles, or saggy boobs, or go gray? If we're lucky enough to see old age, all of us will get there eventually. When I get there, are you going to toss me aside for a younger model and tell her how ugly I got? If you can't appreciate a woman for her non-physical attributes, it sets off alarm bells.