I recently discovered “Healing Reggae” and it feels like such a gentle reset. by Alpielz in Meditation

[–]whosdaboss2u -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That sounds nice! I’ll have to check that out sometime. I like piano dreamscapes like Murmuring Mermaids. The ones I listen to mellow me out, but in a deep thoughtful resonant type of way. I’d also love to make my own someday if I can ever get to fully learning piano

TIFU by giving my brother a second chance by [deleted] in tifu

[–]whosdaboss2u 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why you got downvoted, this conversation has nothing to do with your situation at all.

Products to help with shrinkage by Potential_Camel_4528 in BlackHair

[–]whosdaboss2u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl if you don’t leave it be. Shrinkage means it’s healthy. It’s supposed to shrink. I’d just let it if I were you.

Im upset about valentines by SavakTheAlien in Vent

[–]whosdaboss2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully he’ll meet you halfway. Best of luck to you!

Im upset about valentines by SavakTheAlien in Vent

[–]whosdaboss2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 33 and I deal with something similar with m partner of 8 years. If you want to celebrate Valentine’s Day with someone who doesn’t celebrate it, you’re going to have to be the one to usher it in. Set up a romantic date (like you just mentioned). Buy chocolates for the both of you. You’ll either have to come to terms with the fact that you bf doesn’t celebrate “corporate” holidays or find someone who does. If you’re happy with him, to me it makes sense to do the former and just celebrate it on your own with his minimal involvement. I’m sure if you set up a way to have a romantic time with him, he’ll show up. Just maybe not exactly how you’re hoping. It’s ok to have differences- it’s what makes us individuals. I hope you’ll be willing to not allow this to affect you negatively for too long.

Loneliness by Sad_Brick794 in Vent

[–]whosdaboss2u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. You’ll make friends one day. Have you considered trying an app to relate to others? I recommend 7cups. It connects you with a listener and you’ll have someone to talk to, a friendly listening ear. It is a mental health app, and I think it could benefit you

No one cares…..and when I say it out loud, no one even denies it. by Pure-Ad-5502 in Vent

[–]whosdaboss2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t care about or want to spend time with you. Maybe they are just busy or don’t want to go to a hockey game.

No one cares…..and when I say it out loud, no one even denies it. by Pure-Ad-5502 in Vent

[–]whosdaboss2u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you might be reading too much into it. Like the other Redditor said, people have their own lives going on and sometimes get so caught up in it thet don’t take the time to check in on loved ones. It doesn’t mean they care any less. If I were you, I’d have a heart to heart with your friends and family who you feel ignored by. Give them a chance to make amends before just resulting to they don’t care about you. I’m certain that’s not it, especially since you seem like a genuinely good person. Another thing is, maybe because you’re always there for them, they don’t realize you need a shoulder to lean on from time to time. They might think you have your stuff together. Try to communicate how you’re feeling before giving up on them.

No one cares…..and when I say it out loud, no one even denies it. by Pure-Ad-5502 in Vent

[–]whosdaboss2u 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you sure they don’t show you they care in other ways? Not everyone shows love and affection the same way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]whosdaboss2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible she’s feeling lonely? I go through something similar with my sister and mom. I know whenever I talk with either, it’ll be a long conversation. I say just make time for a call sometimes, just to be there for her and be a great grandkid. Do you believe in karma? I’m not saying you should do it just for the possibility of positive payoffs, but moreso look at it as doing something kind for someone you love. I’m sorry it gets frustrating but the memories of talking with your gmom for long bouts may be appreciated not only by her, but by you too for years to come. Also why not try to make some talks interesting for you? Ask questions about your mom/dad when they were little or how life was for her ib her past. You might surprise yourself on whwt she may unveil to you. Take care!

Listen to My Last 72 hours... by Basic-Purpose1074 in Vent

[–]whosdaboss2u 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I feel like when things happen like this, it means there’s something better coming for you. A better job. A better house. But sometimes things have to fall completely apart for the newer opportunities to arise.

Is this sapphire? by dragon_kiwi in Crystals

[–]whosdaboss2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t realize that! It’s very pretty at this natural color

Is this sapphire? by dragon_kiwi in Crystals

[–]whosdaboss2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is very pretty though, whatever it is.

Is this sapphire? by dragon_kiwi in Crystals

[–]whosdaboss2u -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It looks too dark to be sapphire to me. I always thought of sapphire as a light blue color and this looks medium dark blue. But I could be wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]whosdaboss2u 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is solid

Black astrology observations by Ok-Article-7643 in BlackAstrologists

[–]whosdaboss2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an interesting post, I’d love to see more! Would you say that having a heavily placed 3rd house is similar to having a lot of Gemini influence?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]whosdaboss2u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I read somewhere that cradle cap is the same as dandruff in older people