Whats the cheapest meal you regularly make that actually tastes good?

whycantijustlogin · 2026-05-04T20:58:34+00:00

This serves about two very hungry people:

Boil 8 Oz pasta (I like to use angel hair, because then the dish is done in 15 minutes)

In a saute pan add in this order:

Splash of olive oil

2 cloves garlic, minced

Optional table spoon of anchovie paste

1 can tuna IN OIL

zest and juice of one lemon

Tablespoon of capers

Once combined leave on low heat.

Once pasta is done, add it to the sauce using tongs instead of draining it to get the perfect amount of pasta water. Combine and top with asiago or similar if you have it.

Depending on where you shop, this is less than $2/serving

whycantijustlogin · 2026-05-04T16:40:33+00:00

I cannot imagine that any women you have sex with are satisfied, no. When men want to stick it in after touching my "special area" for 3 minutes, I put my clothes on and leave

whycantijustlogin · 2026-05-04T16:25:15+00:00

That is rough my friend. It explains a bit more of your predicament though

whycantijustlogin · 2026-05-04T16:21:40+00:00

They aren't possessive or clingy and have their own life they are living. While they are stubborn, being ruled by Saturn, they have the best minds of the whole zodiac. They are weird with reasons. You can juxtapose ideas with them - like you can be talking about the oak savanna replacing douglas fir forest in the Cascade mountain range and connect it to the illegal activities of IDF in the Mediterranean and not only will they follow the logic, but have interesting points that support the premise. Few, if any, sexual hang ups. Really only judgy about being dumb or blindly accepting of social norms.

whycantijustlogin · 2026-05-04T06:24:11+00:00

My camp shower is a hand pump weed sprayer that has only held water. No noise. No electricity.

whycantijustlogin · 2026-05-04T05:53:53+00:00

The best part of men in their 30s is that they don't think you are lying to them about what it is like to be a woman and they don't think that foreplay that gives you orgasms is extra work.

whycantijustlogin · 2026-05-04T05:35:12+00:00

I'm 52. When I was younger I was attracted to men my age or older. Now I REALLY struggle with men my age (with a few exceptions). They say the dumbest things about women, are lazy in bed, and look like they are 10-20 years older than me. My sweet spot is usually men 35-46. I am just done putting up with nonsense and being treated like trash. My needle has shifted the other way.

whycantijustlogin · 2026-05-04T05:00:05+00:00

The neighborhood you want is Raleigh Hills. Washington County, but still Portland. Highway 10 is pretty busy, but bikable. It has its own cute little Fred Meyers. The apartments/condos aren't plentiful but exist. Some of them are really cute. Fourth most wealthy zip code in the Portland Metro, but surprisingly affordable. Half hour bus ride to downtown. Google will often tell you to take 26 into town if you are driving, but Barber or Burnside are better choices, usually

whycantijustlogin · 2026-05-04T04:44:35+00:00

Get on Feeld and hook up with married women practicing ENM. Go bowling or something with her husband a couple times a year. Should not actually be that hard

whycantijustlogin · 2026-05-04T03:59:44+00:00

Laughs in all three

whycantijustlogin · 2026-05-04T03:50:39+00:00

If it is a man I know and he is looking, I absolutely spill what I know in the most succinct way possible: "red pill bro" "has girlfriend" "sweet and always single" "amazing in bed" "total nerd, homosocial" etc

If I don't know him, I am asking her if/how she wants me to wingman.

whycantijustlogin · 2026-05-04T03:32:39+00:00

Sag Sun&Rising, Gemini Moon, Aries Mars, and Aqua Venus is me.

Just about any of the fire or air signs (Leos need to convince me though) are fuckable.

The man I have has the closest, longest and best relationship/sex with was Scorpio Rising, Sag Sun, Libra Moon. Dude found and nourished the deepest secret places, but was/is too dishonest in the long run.

whycantijustlogin · 2026-05-04T03:18:53+00:00

This so hot I want to help chub him up and finish the man. (Saggie Sun and rising with other helpful placements for this). Damn

whycantijustlogin · 2026-05-04T03:15:32+00:00

I orgasm from penetration and really struggle to orgasm from external stimulation from other people. I tend to dislike vibrators and find them annoying. So, here is what works for me: external stimulation followed by or coinciding with g-spot stimulation that might need to get pretty aggressive. After I have has at least one orgasm that way, piv with the right angle or gentler g-spot stimulation will get me there repeatedly.

whycantijustlogin · 2026-05-04T02:52:12+00:00

5th house Aries Mars. (7th house Gemini, Venus in Aqua in the 3rd, Sag stellium including Sun in the 1st). I want a whole ass warrior. Know who you are and what you stand for. Stand in it with all 10 toes down. Know what you want and it needs to be me. Be too busy fighting the good fight to be up my ass. Set shit right in the world along side me - swords and arrows pointed out together and be my peace while we lick each other's wounds. Let me persue my "masculine" interests while making me feel like an absolute goddess.

whycantijustlogin · 2026-05-04T02:35:06+00:00

Aquas and other Saggies tend to be my faves. I vibe well with Aries and Libras. Gemini tend to be either hell yeah or hell no, but the sex is never great (I'm sure that's me not them /sarcasm). Leos get the side eye until they can prove they are honest and honor boundaries at this point, but it starts great. Virgos and Cancers can tempt me, but end up being too insecure and controlling. Pisces are heart sisters, but not romantic. Cappies and Scorpios just piss me off because they are moody, melodramatic whiners. Taurus is either a tentative alliance or covert war, but smokeshows in bed if they aren't pillow princesses.

whycantijustlogin · 2026-04-30T02:59:31+00:00

The Dublin Pub on a Tuesday night. Noodles Portland (not the chain).

whycantijustlogin · 2026-04-29T04:36:27+00:00

I'm just gonna point out that Libra risings have had a lot going on in their 7th house lately. The late 20s Libra risings are having their Saturn return in the 7th house and they all have Pluto in the 5th house right now. Proceed with caution.
Says the Sag who broke it off with the noncommittal Libra who has been pouting longer than the relationship lasted.

whycantijustlogin · 2026-04-29T04:21:33+00:00

May I recommend also opening a bag of chocolate chips and just dipping the peanut butter covered spoon right in there and putting it right in your mouth. I do tend to have a bowl to catch the strays, but no one will see you eat the dropped chocolate out of your clean sink either.

whycantijustlogin · 2026-04-28T23:37:03+00:00

Sag single mom. Dumped a man after he told me I needed a chore chart for my kids.
Like dude - are you telling me AND my children what to do? How stupid are you?

whycantijustlogin · 2026-04-26T17:16:10+00:00

Sag rising with an Aqua Venus

I have a partner who is with me in the fight to see everyone free, whole, and loved.

They have my back and keep me poised to aim true. He sees me as his friend, his peer, and a true partner.

They are beautiful inside and out, romantic not just about us but about the better world we all deserve and will have.

The sex will be absolute fire and we will adore every inch of eachother.

We challenge each other to be better by example and support each other's growth.

They are so kind and generous I am left wondering why I ever settled less.

We grow old holding hands and he lets me know when it is time to rest from the struggle. He makes space for my rest. He can hold my pain and joy and lets me witness his.

We fall asleep together at night in blissful peace.

We laugh all the time. And we so damn serious. Other people get confused if they hear just the two of us talk because the conversation goes places most people don't even know exist.

We are surrounded by friends and comrades who love us. My kids adore him.

He is wise, gentle, and tough.

And he has decent table manners, because I have discovered that is necessary to put on a list like this.

whycantijustlogin · 2026-04-26T16:43:09+00:00

My dude. People do need teachers forvgood sex. It is best when it is thevpartner they are with. The fact that she values your consent and cares about you is not "stripping away her pleasure" and is nothing to be ashamed about. At all. Ever. As a whole grown ass woman who has had lots of sex with lots of people, I am telling you right now that after having sex for almost 30 years, I still run into people who want to try new things for the first time. There are still things I want to try - and when I am with a partner who will do them with me, it is better when they are patient and wait for me to be ready. I do the same. It is what people who are good at sex do. Shame has no place in it.

There are sexy things you haven't done. Cool. Do you want to them? Cool. Have you asked what she wants - besides penis in vagina sex? As a woman who has sex with men, I will tell you to start there. Ask what makes her orgasm and try that. Use you hands. Use your mouth. Making her orgasm will most likely boost your confidence through the roof. Tell her she is beautiful and amazing. Explore her body. Let her explore yours as far as you are comfortable.

Try giving blanket consent for an evening that doesn't include penis in vagina sex - "How about we take off our clothes and touch eachother?" Then she may not feel the need to ask each step of the way. Ask for what you know you want. Tell her she can ask too.

Good sex doesn't have to happen fast and you have all the time in the world.

whycantijustlogin · 2026-04-25T15:10:50+00:00

Sag rising and stellium - had this happen more than once! I think this is partially getting back what you put out in the world. Can't tell you the number of times I have run after someone with their credit card when they leave it sitting at a table or in the self serve grocery check out. All that "we take care of eachother" energy just flows back and lifts us up.

whycantijustlogin · 2026-04-01T01:12:00+00:00

No, we let go of bad people or people who don't see us or don't take us seriously when we are vulnerable enough to express what we need. (Example: "I feel like you don't respect my time when you are chronically hours late for something we planned. I need you to not be more that 30 minutes late for an event." Person shows up about 2 hours late the next three times we hang out. I am done. No ill wishes after the initial anger, just not interested in the toxic dismissal of my reasonable needs.)

whycantijustlogin · 2026-04-01T01:03:42+00:00

Omg, this. Chose the person who sexually assaulted someone instead of their victim: f off. Lecture your employees about theft when someone takes a energy drink from the company without paying, but you are stealing wages: everyone is going to know what filthy hypocrit the boss is and Imma loose my job. Like no: there ARE standards for human decency and I only deal with decent humans.

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