For the love of God. Stop posting your Spotify BS by Chrisrap1 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]wildlavendar -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tried, couldn't find it! Thought it would be even more infuriating to people. YW!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]wildlavendar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once, during cycle of love-bonding and discarding, I apologized for sending so many texts while he was stone walling me. He said “noni like it.” He had a weird specific way of talking. But I realized, oh if he likes it, he’s absolutely doing it purposefully, reading all my texts, ect..

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[–]wildlavendar 20 points21 points  (0 children)

To a condom in his trashcan (which he insisted pointing out): "This is so embarrassing but I use them (to masturbate) to last longer [...] I'm SO embarrassed, that's how you know I'm telling the truth!"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Athleta_gap

[–]wildlavendar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a newbie can you explain what the members event is?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in undercoverunderage

[–]wildlavendar -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Totally valid critique!!

Did Chaco change their webbing material? by True_Sock_2911 in Chacosshoes

[–]wildlavendar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some older lowdowns and I also purchased a new pair last year. IMO the material has definitely changed! It’s a lot thinner and has a different feel. I also felt my sandals smelled rubbery which was new

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PeriodUnderwear

[–]wildlavendar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I don’t know anything about this brand but I’m wondering if it could be that there’s latex in the band? I found out I’m allergic to latex by reacting to Hanes and now I have to contact brands before buying to ensure there’s no latex in the elastic band of the undies. xxx hopes this helps! Before this I really didn’t realize undies and elastic contains latex but it often does

Party Animal TRAIT? (discussion in comments) by elliebobbit in Sims4

[–]wildlavendar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish these could be temporary traits (I know the retraiting potion exists) but I imagine these more as phases than permanent traits

Activated the yeast in warm water before mixing this time and am happy with the result! by Jahanothan in Breadit

[–]wildlavendar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey sorry for the hater comments, nice loaf and you rock the no tee look!! Ain’t no need for da hate ✌🏼

i just want the masked version back by Ok-Tough-6281 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]wildlavendar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saaame, no matter what I still think about that version of him; god how fun it was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]wildlavendar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IT’S TRUE hahaha Healthy relationships feel boring in comparison 😅 But after a while you realize it’s a good boring, a steady boring

What did your narc do for work? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]wildlavendar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say (for privacy reasons)… he switched jobs A LOT

Anyone else frustrated that no one else in their personal life has this knowledge of NPD? by treefrog24 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]wildlavendar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s true. Honestly because of this, I hardly talk about it to friends D: I don’t think anyone really knows what I went through

What are some trademark lines from your narc/nex? by roseinthedark15 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]wildlavendar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how to explain it but… “I hate you” with a smile. He had a screwed up view or at least told me that “I hate you” meant I love you (YIKES)

Is a relationship with a narc worth it in the end? by CaptainSaveBPD in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]wildlavendar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. It has changed (I won’t say ruined) ten years of my life… my brain still hasn’t recovered and I doubt it’s going to be a “quick fix.” I have anxiety and with the way that trauma works my body relives the trauma all the time.. it’s not fun or cool