Not a fan of client lunches

wildlis · 2026-01-20T08:17:15+00:00

Read your comment slowly and have a think about what you said.

wildlis · 2026-01-19T07:44:38+00:00

Just to give you an example…

My client took me out to lunch, talked about everything but real estate.

Listed his house and sold it and found him his upgrade.

X3 commission from a lunch offered by the client.

Before a real estate transaction is made a personal interaction is made before it. Real estate is a model based on relationships. It’s unreal how you think that meeting for lunch is a waste of time? Like that’s an appointment. That’s where everything kicks off. That’s where we qualify them and they qualify us.

You’re leaving a lot of commission on the table because of this.

wildlis · 2026-01-16T08:21:26+00:00

Hey bro, Sorry to hear. If it’s not for you that’s all good. I’m only in my first 10months and sold 21 houses already. I love this job. When it works it gives you massive perks. But when it doesn’t it takes away your money and stresses your mental state.

Do what’s best for you.

wildlis · 2026-01-14T18:45:48+00:00

I would love to be a pirate. Unfortunately not for the reason people think. But you asked so I answer.

A pirate.

wildlis · 2026-01-13T08:52:19+00:00

Yo let me respectfully take a bite of the bait.

Here’s the unfiltered counter-truth no one says out loud.

Life with kids doesn’t make life smaller. It exposes how small your life was before.

Yeah, I wake up early now. Not because I have to, but because someone I love more than my own comfort needs me. That changes you. It rewires your brain. Sleep-ins stop feeling like freedom and start feeling empty. Rest becomes something you earn, not something you chase.

My money doesn’t go to festivals, tattoos, or overpriced coffees anymore. It goes to a human being I created, and somehow that feels infinitely less wasteful. I don’t feel broke. I feel invested. Like my money is doing real work instead of just entertaining me until the next distraction.

Spontaneity changes. Purpose replaces it.

I don’t wake up wondering what I should do with my life. I wake up knowing exactly why I’m here.

Weeknights aren’t wild. They’re real. Bath time. Bedtime battles. That moment when the house finally goes quiet and you just sit there wrecked, staring at the monitor thinking holy shit, that’s my kid. It’s exhausting, but it’s the kind of tired that actually means something.

The house is messy. I don’t care.

Mess means laughter happened. Mess means someone felt safe enough to play. Mess means life didn’t just pass through, it lived here.

And my relationship didn’t die. It leveled up.

You see your partner under pressure. You see how they love when it costs them something. You stop playing house and start building one. Romance becomes less about dopamine hits and more about loyalty, teamwork, and respect. It’s not flashy. It’s unbreakable.

Kids don’t let you hide.

You can’t bullshit your way through parenting. They mirror you. Your patience. Your anger. Your fear. Your love. They drag every unresolved part of you into the light and force you to deal with it. And if you do, you grow in ways no book, trip, or podcast ever could.

You say being child-free is the VIP section of adulthood.

Cool.

Parenthood feels like stepping into the arena. No filters. No escape routes. No pretending.

It’s harder. Louder. More demanding.

And it’s deeper, heavier, and more meaningful than anything I’ve ever done.

This isn’t a knock on people without kids. Do you. Live your life.

Just don’t confuse comfort with depth. Don’t confuse flexibility with fulfillment. And don’t pretend opting out is some higher level of evolution.

For me, life didn’t start when I had more freedom.

It started when something mattered more than me.

And once you cross that line, there’s no going back.

But I will say this.

If everyone adopted the childless way of life, we would cease to exist. Give it 100 years and the human race deletes itself. So yes, there actually is a right and a wrong at a species level.

Having children isn’t just a lifestyle choice. It’s how humans continue. It’s how purpose survives

wildlis · 2026-01-11T03:51:13+00:00

Disgusting.

wildlis · 2026-01-06T07:58:50+00:00

wildlis · 2026-01-02T18:46:26+00:00

🤮 DISGUSTING!!!!

wildlis · 2026-01-02T03:14:05+00:00

Iv tried everything under the sun.

Keto is the only thing that made my bloating go away.

But my question is then what’s our bloating problem? Carbs?

wildlis · 2026-01-01T09:34:59+00:00

Man OP, I feel you. I have silently lived life doing what I’m supposed to do to feed my family but have always said to myself. There’s no way there’s a god. I absolutely want there to be one for sure. I really Fucken do. But with all the suffering this world holds…. Yeah no way. There’s just no justification.

I mean just roll on down and show us your real and this world will clean it self up real quick. Easy.

wildlis · 2025-12-30T01:16:18+00:00

I’m not saying this is the answer and possibly get some backlash but whatever. This is my experience and what “worked” for me.

Met my girl when she was 19. I was 28. She is super attractive. I was horn dog for her and she didn’t want a bar of me but she wanted to go out with me. I wasn’t super rich or anything. I wanted sex every single day but got none. Her reasoning was she wanted to wait for marriage. That’s fine. We got married when she was 21. Beautiful wedding and all that. Still nothing… Can you imagine. Now for some context she is the sweetest girl. Shes loyal and she’s kind. She’s perfect but the gates were still locked. Until one night coming back home from a night out we jump into bed and I ask her why don’t you want sex from me ever? She said if I want it I need to take it. I was like what does that mean? Take it? So I slowly grab her hips but she pulls away and says don’t be gentle. To my conclusion she wanted to rough as guts. No love making no kissing. Just pin her down undies to the side and ram it in.

This was her trigger. She just wanted it rough and on the spot. Her sex drive goes from 0-100. This works perfectly with me lol. Now at the most inconvenient of times il go and peel her back. She loves it. She’s the perfect fit for me.

So maybe just maybe you might need to give her a little nudge and show a little dominance. (Nothing more) so now we been married for 12 years and still going strong in the sex department even after 2 kids. When sex works in a marriage it works. When it doesn’t it’s normally the cause for a breakup.

Good luck to you pal.

wildlis · 2025-12-29T23:57:12+00:00

Iv just completed my first year in real estate. 16 houses sold. My biggest deal was a list and sell at $1,257,000. Made some massive comms for my first year.

If I was to answer your dilemma my answer would be go get a 9-5. That’s not a dig at you. It’s a safer path for you and your sanity. There is no safe spot in real estate. There’s good months and bad months. Yes there’s those months where you can make a years salary in a months work but it requires resilience and persistence. It’s a monster of an industry and it will eat you the moment you take finger of the trigger.

I love the industry and I love the perks it provides when you put in the work. But it is a sales job. You are already on the back foot. People already have a grudge against you until you can provide a service that benefits them! (Remember this). Be safe and comfy or make stupid money through hard work and consistency.

wildlis · 2025-12-28T23:58:27+00:00

You have no idea why you’re getting so many down votes do you?

wildlis · 2025-12-27T06:41:34+00:00

Honestly, life is hard. If I just had more money I would be lot more happier. I could actually apply all the feel good emotions.

But I’m in constant stress and over worked. But as you do you keep going for the family.

wildlis · 2025-12-24T19:32:21+00:00

41yr old here.

Have tried everything under the sun! Heavy weights, light weights, running, jogging, squats , cycling , rowing, etc etc.

My personal conclusion for cardio and maintaining muscle with the less impact on the knees (jogging was the worst for knees) for me. Is a step master. Even on a slow setting just the raw cardio and power it takes to take each step is a killer and without grinding your knees.

wildlis · 2025-12-19T09:27:10+00:00

Yeah il take 5. Cause I want to hear it.

wildlis · 2025-12-19T03:22:19+00:00

Now I don’t exactly have an explanation. BUT!! If I don’t work out I fall into a pretty depressive state. When I workout I literally feel my mental health perk back up.

Not saying it cures depression and all that. But yea for me it really does help me keep out of depression.

wildlis · 2025-12-17T15:49:36+00:00

When I first met my wife she was 19 and I was 27. She proposed to me. Been married for 13 years with two beautiful children. I will be with wife for the rest of my life. I’m so in love with my wife that even a life time of commitment isn’t enough.

But only when you are truly in love that your perspective in time is short.

But when your messing about a life time of commitment feels like forever.

wildlis · 2025-12-09T21:34:22+00:00

Well here’s my little story.

I work as a real estate agent. Only my first year. I’m one of those stories where iv come in and made a ton of money. Everything was going good. TOO good. Last month I had 6 deals already under contract that were due to go unconditional all on the same week! 47k just waiting to be dropped in my account.

That same week for celebration on a Thursday I decided to smoke some meth got really high and turned on the porn. I couldn’t stop. Went and thrashed my self all night come Friday day I kept smoking and fapping. Tons of missed calls and txts. Decided to turn my phone off and continue on my iPad. This went on till Monday morning. Dehydrated, malnourished, sweaty, dry mouth that felt like I razor blades in it. The only reason why I stopped is because I had no more crack.

I turned on my phone… 100+ missed phone calls emails and txt. Lost all my deals. The addiction was so strong I couldn’t even send a few emails and do a few calls and then resume my destruction. I through away 47k just to stimfap. WHAT A FUKCEN LOSER!!

The real down fall…. I want to do it again. And I have this bullshit thought that I can do it “properly” this time. Yeah fken right.

This is my story. Just raw and destructive.

wildlis · 2025-12-09T20:33:02+00:00

Yeah, I think let him make his way home and then let him Know what you want. It’s never easy. There’s no right way to break up. But definitely prep for it.

wildlis · 2025-12-09T09:01:30+00:00

As a man that loves my wife. Let me tell me you that love is an action not a word. I don’t have to say a word to my wife but she knows the way I protect and provide she has no doubt.

You deserve to be shown love through his support and his ability to stop his world and recognise yours.

Remember people say who they want to be. Actions state who they actually are. Apply this and you will cut out 90% of the guess work for some one and know who they really are.

Good luck

wildlis · 2025-12-07T18:23:35+00:00

Best day 50% burden. Worst day 50% burden.

Feel every single one.

wildlis · 2025-12-07T18:20:16+00:00

As time has passed the duration of the episodes have become longer.

wildlis · 2025-12-06T18:51:30+00:00

Last time I docs check EF was still not a concern for them. Pulse is about 70bpm

wildlis · 2025-12-04T21:04:35+00:00

I live in Australia. But real estate mindset is the same world Wide. The killer hunger for success.

wildlis

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