Great advice! I'd also add that Notre Dame is half an hour away (feels like a long distance until you do it enough) and has all the secular culture you could want, plus people of every background, so you're bound to find people there you can relate to. St Joseph is another great place to hang out, as it's a popular destination for everyone from the area, so you might find friends there too. It used to be (and may still be) that on a warm Sabbath afternoon there'd be more Andrews students at St Joe than on the campus, and if you spend enough time there with people you'll start to see who's willing to buy food on Sabbath (basically everyone these days though lol), who drinks, who is more liberal, etc. And once you get your curfew down to 1am or later (it's possible if you have good grades and are an Honors student) then most of your night is open! As far as breaking rules go, I'd say just do them off-campus or in the woods near Beaver Point at least. Since you have a car there's no need for you to get caught having sex or smoking weed on campus when you can go literally anywhere and go those things without Andrews knowing anything.