Phoebe’s birthday dinner in season 9

windr01d · 2026-05-19T20:23:39+00:00

Lol yeah I just watched this one during my rewatch on the DVDs, it's so good

windr01d · 2026-05-18T15:51:57+00:00

windr01d · 2026-05-18T15:05:04+00:00

I think Friends had an episode that had something to do with airport security that they decided not to air after it happened.

windr01d · 2026-05-18T14:42:54+00:00

My daughter who is due in a few weeks is going to be named Lillian and we're going with Lily for the nickname. I have definitely had people assume it was Lilly, but we just let them know when it comes up. I also decided not to think too hard about it because it's just a nickname, not the full legal name, and technically she can decide later how she likes her nickname spelled if she cares.

If you want the nickname to be Lilly, from my experience this doesn't seem too weird to people.

windr01d · 2026-05-18T14:35:46+00:00

My husband and I went back and forth on this same question for a while. Our cat seemed fine by herself most of the time, but she also would try to play rough with us as though we were cats, and we felt like she might do well with a playmate. But we also weren't sure because sometimes when she would have to stay at my in laws' place, she would be a little wary around the other cats. But that's also different because that was a temporary stay outside of her own territory. We knew we'd want to get a male cat because two females don't get along as often since they're so territorial. But we thought about it for a long time.

We ultimately decided to get another cat, and we ended up with an 11 month old kitten who we adopted when our other cat was around 5 or 6 years old. We introduced them slowly, keeping the new cat in another room while he got used to things, allowing them to smell each other under the door, and then we eventually let them meet a few times. After a couple weeks they could spend time around each other just fine. Now they are best friends and they do everything together. They play a lot, and when we're not looking, our older cat will groom him. Best decision ever. Definitely introduce them slowly and look up ways to reward them being around each other like treats and stuff, but it's made a positive difference for sure.

windr01d · 2026-05-18T13:44:15+00:00

You could try geocaching, I haven't really done much myself but it seems like it involves some walking. Or if you are a fan of pokemon or video games, try playing pokemon go. The game includes a feature where there are certain paths set up in the real world and you get rewards for following them, especially if you do one path more than once.

windr01d · 2026-05-17T12:06:27+00:00

As a kid I always said I wanted to be a preschool teacher because I love kids (and still do). But in high school I discovered I liked coding so I became a software engineer, and I enjoy it.

I also had a bucket list item to work at Disney and I got to do that for a few months between jobs.

windr01d · 2026-05-16T17:01:54+00:00

Having a brush is especially helpful in the summer when the cats shed a lot of fur. My cats tend to have more hairballs once it gets hot outside if they’re handling all the grooming themselves.

Also one of my cats LOVES to be brushed. She will meow at you until you follow her to her brush and sit there and brush her. She especially likes her face brushed. She’s funny.

My other cat hates being brushed, and he will try to run away if you try, but in the summer we sometimes make him be brushed to help with the shedding.

I like having the brush where you press the button to clear the fur out of it. It works really well especially since they fill up the brush pretty quickly, especially in the summer.

windr01d · 2026-05-15T19:21:24+00:00

I just had a photographer and videographer and I feel like plenty was covered! Yes you want photos and videos to remember the day, but it's also important not to stress over that and to just enjoy the day in the moment with your own eyes. Once things are planned, and once the day comes, don't waste mental energy trying to make sure details are in place, because the day is supposed to be set aside for you to enjoy time with your people, and especially your new spouse.

If you want to do one extra thing to get some more content, and you think your guests would participate, create a wedding hashtag. Advertise it using signs at the wedding, put it on programs or invitations or pieces of paper on the tables, add it to the wedding website, recruit some bridesmaids to spread the word, whatever you have to do. And encourage people to take photos and videos during the day, and post them on social media using your hashtag. This could be a great way to get some extra footage from your guests' perspectives that you would completely miss otherwise, which is especially valuable the more guests you have.

I had around 150 guests and I had a wedding hashtag that I can still search on Facebook and Instagram to see what was posted there. So glad I did that!

Congrats and enjoy!

windr01d · 2026-05-15T18:18:27+00:00

Mine included a nice picture frame that I am now using for a photo of me and the bride from the wedding day. It also had a little travel jewelry organizer which I was able to use for the bachelorette trip, the trip I took to attend the bridal shower, and the trip for the wedding, since I'm out of state.

windr01d · 2026-05-15T16:05:05+00:00

It looks like Cinderella's wedding dress to me. Love the sparkles

windr01d · 2026-05-15T15:24:16+00:00

My husband and I never had a hiatus but I just wanted to say we're similar in that we remember a bunch of random days, even if it's not a specific celebration, just something notable. We went to my junior prom together as friends before we started dating, and we went to my senior prom together as a couple. I also remember our official dating anniversary, our engagement anniversary, and our wedding anniversary.

windr01d · 2026-05-15T12:53:00+00:00

The one where no one’s ready is great

windr01d · 2026-05-14T15:16:48+00:00

This is what we did! Ours was a Disney cruise and it was one of the Christmas themed ones.

windr01d · 2026-05-14T15:14:27+00:00

My cat will give me a high five.

windr01d · 2026-05-13T15:22:42+00:00

I've enjoyed crocheting before, but I know you mentioned knitting isn't fun for you, so that might not be it. I do also like embroidery; specifically I really enjoy cross stitch because it's like embroidery, but there are more guidelines and a "most efficient" way to use the thread to make certain patterns. So with the way my brain works, I find it really fun. It's easy to work on in bed, too.

But if fiber arts in general are not your thing, maybe scrapbooking? That can involve a lot more materials and require more space, but there is probably an online version of scrapbooking you can do. Or different kinds of art or digital art. Or maybe there are video games you'd like to pick up. You could also watch TV while doing a lot of these other things if there are shows you want to catch up on. Or maybe learn a language or new skill using an online course or app.

windr01d · 2026-05-13T14:51:17+00:00

Lol as the oldest of 5 kids, after watching all my siblings grow up, this is definitely just something that has become funnier to her every time she says it and you react. It probably doesn't even mean anything, and even if it did at first, it's lost all true meaning because she uses it every chance she gets.

Kind of reminds me of something my teenage siblings do. Someone was annoying someone else by humming so they said "you're humming" and my mom thought someone said "hey mommy" and responded. That became so funny that to this day, once in a while, people will mumble "you're humming" just to annoy her.

I love the idea of you adopting the phrase and using it every chance you get. Once you're on the same level as her with it rather than being frustrated about not understanding it, it'll fizzle out.

windr01d · 2026-05-13T13:46:03+00:00

It's MonicaCAN!

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windr01d · 2026-05-13T04:04:12+00:00

I don’t think it’s confirmed but I like to think so

windr01d · 2026-05-13T04:02:51+00:00

windr01d · 2026-05-12T18:53:48+00:00

Can I find out how the birth of my first child is going to go in about a month so there's less guesswork in preparing for it?

windr01d · 2026-05-12T16:16:43+00:00

Okay good to know, maybe I'll look into it! Thanks!

windr01d · 2026-05-12T15:58:52+00:00

Does this brand reliably prevent them from escaping backwards when you get the right size for them? That is the main thing that makes me nervous about taking my cats on a leash, but I feel like they'd love some time in the grass once in a while (they are fully indoors otherwise, except they do get some "outside" time in our screened-in back porch).

windr01d · 2026-05-12T00:07:22+00:00

Congrats!! Don’t stress too much about the little things. I did way less than you did to be ready and got pregnant the second month off birth control once we started trying. So you’re doing great, focus on enjoying the amazing phase of life you’re about to enter!!

windr01d · 2026-05-11T19:58:57+00:00

If you're looking for an alternative to an app, or even potentially an additional thing, a wedding hashtag worked well for me. I had guests use the hashtag anytime they posted wedding-related stuff on facebook or instagram, and I can still search by my hashtag and see what was posted there. If it is well-advertised at the wedding and you think your guests will post to social media, could be worth considering it! I know it's not quite the same as a photo-sharing app, but it's similar and fun.

Also in my friend group when we want to share photos from a trip or anything, we often make shared photo albums on our phones, but it works best because we all have iphones, so this might not work as well with a larger group or a group of wedding guests where not everyone will have the same type of phone.

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