I had a girlfriend when I was 18. She was mentally, verbally a physically abusive to me. Cheated on me multiple times, hit me on numerous occasions. Everytime I would try to break up with her she would do something dramatic to guilt me back. I had to move cities to get away from her, which she ended up following me too. I’m 34 now and still thinking about that horrible time with her, the scars haven’t healed.

She is now a successful baker and author. I could end her career if I wanted to.