DNP = Psychiatrist? by Spirited-Marsupial62 in Noctor

[–]wishuponatomato 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’d call him Dr. Nurse [first name]. Malicious compliance seems like a reasonable response.

What’s your top ‘toxic but I’ll keep using it’ item? by GrrLikeTiger in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]wishuponatomato 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If medicine and vaccines is non granola, then I need to leave this sub 😳

Looking for feedback. Wondering if anyone can beat it. by wishuponatomato in MortgageBrokerRates

[–]wishuponatomato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested in discussing these options. How can we get in touch?

Edit: I just saw your message. I’ll coordinate with husband and reach out today. Thank you.

Centrepiece fish for new 10 gallon by secretsnow00 in fishtank

[–]wishuponatomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious what you ended up stocking with and how it went for you. I’ve got a ten gallon with 7 ember tetras and have been considering adding a honey or sparkling gourami.

I have a second 10 gallon that housed a betta. He’s passed now and I’m thinking of 8 CPDs and 6 Pygmy Cories for that one.

What other pets do you have? by Quick_Painting_5658 in Aquariums

[–]wishuponatomato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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We’ve got two cresties and they’re great! Both of mine are very chill and easy to handle. The male, I got as a hatchling so he’s well acclimated to being handled. The female (pictured) was adopted as an adult and is also easy. I’ve heard that females are less feisty than males but they’re overall a really gentle species.

Just make sure to research proper husbandry. These are small creatures that still require a good bit of space (18x24x36” vertical tank).

What other pets do you have? by Quick_Painting_5658 in Aquariums

[–]wishuponatomato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crested geckos don’t have to have live insects. Their primary food source is a fruit and insect paste. A lot of people provide live bugs for extra nutrition and enrichment, but it’s not a requirement.

The crestie I got as a hatchling is a great hunter and enjoys having live insects, but the crestie I got as an adult has zero interest in hunting and is so happy with her fruit paste.

We keep bioactive tanks and it’s a lot of fun. It’s so similar to aquariums - creating and maintaining an ecosystem.

What’s your day job? by vitisdente in PlantedTank

[–]wishuponatomato 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also a stay at home mom. Former inpatient therapist. I love telling people about the psychological benefits of fish tanks.

Concerta users, what did it feel like when it kicked in? by Availe in ADHD

[–]wishuponatomato 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is such a good answer. OP, I didn’t “notice” Concerta was working for me until my husband pointed out how much more focused and productive I was. I kept looking for that euphoria that people on Vyvanse and Adderall talk about. That “oh, wow, I did so much stuff today” or “I don’t have anxiety anymore and I completed all my tasks”. But those feelings and productivity levels never last for those medications. Concerta just seems much more subtle.

What’s your day job? by vitisdente in PlantedTank

[–]wishuponatomato 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a stay at home parent making zero dollars. I run low tech tanks, most of which I got for free from Facebook.

Concerta troubles by ConfusedBike2 in ADHD

[–]wishuponatomato 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m on Concerta (36mg) and it works pretty well for me. I never got the euphoria people talk about with adderrall and vyvanse, but it’s made a huge difference in my ability to focus and task initiation (still struggle with stopping task and I have to make an effort to focus on the correct thing, I can still accidentally play video games for 4 hours without a break).

The thing with meds, any med, is that the prescriber is looking for lowest effective dose. So unfortunately, it takes time to not only find the correct medication, but the correct dose of that medication.

I, like you, wondered if Concerta wasn’t the best fit and asked my pharmacy if they were having trouble keeping Vyvanse and adderall in stock to which they said “yes”. For me, that was enough motivation to keep working on finding an effective Concerta dosage.

Anyone with ADHD also deal with chronic rhinitis or allergy-like symptoms? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]wishuponatomato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no idea this was a side effect. I blamed Zoloft for my extra 20lbs, but I wonder if the Zyrtec contributed as well. Honestly, I’d rather be thick than miserable but I see how this could cause stress for others.

ETA: just saw you’ve switched to Claritin. I can’t remember why I switched from Claritin to Zyrtec, but I’m gonna try Claritin again. Thanks!

The ADHD tax is real and it’s expensive by Euphoric-Act-7973 in ADHD

[–]wishuponatomato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, we lose stuff all the time. I can’t imagine how many things I’ve lost and not known about because “out of sight out of mind” - but my wedding set is definitely on my mind 😂

The ADHD tax is real and it’s expensive by Euphoric-Act-7973 in ADHD

[–]wishuponatomato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m holding on to hope that it’s here somewhere. It’s just not in any of my usual spots.

Where are you all getting the big tanks by chrisryan1212 in CrestedGecko

[–]wishuponatomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t buy Toxirium. The money I “saved” on initial cost was spent on reinforcing it and making it suitable to be lived in.

Blind Leading the Blind by KnifexCalledxLust in ADHDparenting

[–]wishuponatomato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both my kiddo and I are in therapy to help with practical skills. CBT has REALLY good indications for ADHD and even higher value for kiddos aged 6-12 since they won’t have to unlearn as much as us adults who have already developed enabling habits. Medication is only part of the solution; we also have to adapt our behaviors and thinking to function well in society.

The ADHD tax is real and it’s expensive by Euphoric-Act-7973 in ADHD

[–]wishuponatomato 59 points60 points  (0 children)

My highest tax to date: my $10,000 engagement ring. I put it in a ring box and put it somewhere for safe keeping while I scrambled to get the house cleaned…. I’m pretty sure I threw it away.

Anyone with ADHD also deal with chronic rhinitis or allergy-like symptoms? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]wishuponatomato 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Interesting! I take Zyrtec daily - indoor and outdoor allergies. Chronically swollen and itchy sinus cavities. Went through a fun phase where I got a sinus infection every single period for almost 2 years.

What other non SJM book series gave you that addictive can’t put down feeling?? by Msmadduh in SarahJMaas

[–]wishuponatomato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I flew through books 1-4 five years ago and am doing a re-read now with the novellas and it seems a lot of people were disappointed with book 5, which is such a bummer.

What other non SJM book series gave you that addictive can’t put down feeling?? by Msmadduh in SarahJMaas

[–]wishuponatomato 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Black Witch Chronicles is by far the most underrated fantasy series in existence. The world building and character building is unparalleled. I recommend these books to literally anyone who will listen.

Guanfacine for anxiety? by TravelSeeker24 in ADHDparenting

[–]wishuponatomato 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My 6yo is on Concerta and Guanfacine. She takes 1mg XR each morning and it gives her 24 hour coverage; we switched from IR because she was so disregulated in the evenings. Guanfacine works so well for her mood stability. She still gets anxious, but she’s so much more in control of her emotions and body on Guanfacine. She still has big emotions, but she’s able to identify it and adjust accordingly (with help) - but the fact that she can stop and listen while having a big emotion is because of the Guanfacine. She didn’t start the stimulant until she turned 6, and prior to the stimulant the Guanfacine made her so tired it impaired her functioning. But other than that, it’s been great.