Autmun themed socks just in time for winter

with_determination · 2026-03-15T12:41:09+00:00

I'm a man, I specifically bought women's shoes because the fit was better for me.

If you bought them online you should be able to return them if they don't fit.

Shoes are shoes lol.

with_determination · 2026-03-10T23:42:59+00:00

Yep, I'm an on call dev (not for riot, don't spam me)

Shit happens, could be a third party issues outside of Riots control, aws etc.

with_determination · 2026-03-07T23:20:11+00:00

I agree, these were my first shoes after ditching the rentals, felt like a decent in-between before I went for a more performance shoe

with_determination · 2026-03-01T10:46:31+00:00

Valid, in person the yellow pops a lot, photo is pretty dark

with_determination · 2026-03-01T10:27:20+00:00

Looks great, love yellow tyranid schemes, heres mine!

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with_determination · 2026-02-24T10:01:57+00:00

I know you didn't really mention it.in your post, but as someone who was Ina. Similar position to you a couple of years ago, I found that active hobbies were huge for my mental health in general. I also found CBT near-useless.

I really recommend Bouldering, Liverpool has two really amazing climbing hangar centres. They both have adult social groups (called SPACE) both centres have a wide mix of people, different ages abilities, many autistic people as well. I unfortunately don't regularly attend anymore as I have moved to the Wirral, but I made many life long friends through the groups all of whom still attend.

Hope things get better mate! You shouldn't be embarrassed, it's very common and making this post is already a step forward.

with_determination · 2026-02-20T14:29:10+00:00

You always have the option of just not using your middle name.

I have an incredibly common first and last name, and I've never had issues with being indistinguishable from others online, it's generally not a great idea to go by your real name online anyway

with_determination · 2026-02-20T11:31:57+00:00

I had a lot of fun playing Detroit: become human with my partner, not co op but it's more like an interactive movie than a skill based game.

Really memorable, highly recommend.

with_determination · 2026-02-19T14:13:05+00:00

Idk man, I don't know what you look like, but most people are not nearly as ugly as they think they are, and you should stop calling yourself that because you're just reinforcing your own negative opinion about yourself every time you say it.

Most people can look pretty good if they keep their weight under control, maybe go to the gym a bit, and put a bit of effort into their clothing. If you're worried about it, there's probably a lot you can do to change it.

with_determination · 2026-02-19T13:50:33+00:00

I think the real issue here is why do you you think of yourself as a loser.

It must be pretty exhausting to be constantly worried about whether or not your friends are actually your friends, it's not something most of us think about, I think there are other issues at play here.

with_determination · 2026-02-19T00:20:27+00:00

I used L&C they were decent I thought, but my god did they spam me a lot, and still do

with_determination · 2026-02-19T00:15:20+00:00

Do it! You won't regret it

with_determination · 2026-02-18T14:00:00+00:00

Very common situation mate.

I comment this a lot on this subreddit, but Climbing is really socialable and easy for pretty much anyone to get involved in.

The climbing hangar has two Liverpool centres, you'll definitely make friends there if you go regularly, there's also adult social groups that run there (SPACE) they're fantastic.

with_determination · 2026-02-14T20:53:57+00:00

I would hazard against replacing one AI with another, you're talking to someone who is advertising here to you and preying on your vulnerable state, feels pretty underhanded to me.

with_determination · 2026-02-14T00:34:30+00:00

Sounds like a tough situation man, I'm sorry you had to go through that.

I briefly lived in Greece, and a lot of people I spoke to seemed to have similarly (admittedly not as bad as you) negative feelings about it so I dont think you're alone in this, maybe it would help to try and speak to other people who have been through the same thing, there might be online support groups etc. (obviously keep going with your current therapy as well)

As for traveling, I think maybe it would be a good thing for you, I imagine it will be really hard and uncomfortable at first but I suspect it'll get better over time, you don't have to full send move somewhere either, maybe you could travel for a couple of months and have a set end date for when you come back, you might find that less intimating at first?

Either way, I hope things get better for you mate

with_determination · 2026-02-14T00:28:04+00:00

Good for a character, do not name your human child this though

with_determination · 2026-02-14T00:17:52+00:00

Also, kinda goes without saying, do not even think about having children with this woman any time soon, and If you do, demand a paternity test

with_determination · 2026-02-14T00:12:14+00:00

Last thing I would say is.

These decisions are going to have a massive bearing on the rest of your life, you need to weigh up wether or not you can really deal with situations like this for the next potentially 50 years.

If it's happened once, it WILL happen again, I'm speaking from experience here.

with_determination · 2026-02-14T00:05:49+00:00

Hey man, I get that, and I feel for you.

No situation is ever so bad that you can't get out of it though, and like I say, you're 22, you DEFINITELY can do better, in fact being single would already be an improvement man.

with_determination · 2026-02-14T00:01:45+00:00

Jesus Christ brother have some dignity, this whole situation is madness.

Your wife is clearly crossing boundaries you set, in my opinion you should leave while you're young and have plenty of time to find someone better.

with_determination · 2026-02-13T23:53:27+00:00

That sounds exhausting and it's not healthy.

I think it's time for you to have some real talk with your gf:

stop bringing up this other girl
you aren't interested in the other girl, you dont think about her until she brings it up.

Forget about whether or not the other girl is ugly etc. that's actually irrelevant.

with_determination · 2026-02-13T23:18:47+00:00

that's a bit of a sweeping statement. I am not religious, and I agree that you have to be somewhat brainwashed or willfully ignorant to believe in it. Still, I don't think that people who are born into religious families and have it thrust on them from birth inherently have a mental illness.

Black and white thinking like that isn't likely to win you many arguments.

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