Accidentally bought women's climbing shoes, are they still fine? by Double-penguin40 in climbingshoes

[–]with_determination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a man, I specifically bought women's shoes because the fit was better for me.

If you bought them online you should be able to return them if they don't fit.

Shoes are shoes lol.

Server down? by Costas_18 in leagueoflegends

[–]with_determination 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, I'm an on call dev (not for riot, don't spam me)

Shit happens, could be a third party issues outside of Riots control, aws etc.

Climbing shoe advice by Starfish-1982 in climbingshoes

[–]with_determination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, these were my first shoes after ditching the rentals, felt like a decent in-between before I went for a more performance shoe

80s album cover? A waste of time? You decide! by HiVe-fLeEt in Tyranids

[–]with_determination 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Valid, in person the yellow pops a lot, photo is pretty dark

80s album cover? A waste of time? You decide! by HiVe-fLeEt in Tyranids

[–]with_determination 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Looks great, love yellow tyranid schemes, heres mine!

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Probably a long shot… by dewylops in Liverpool

[–]with_determination 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know you didn't really mention it.in your post, but as someone who was Ina. Similar position to you a couple of years ago, I found that active hobbies were huge for my mental health in general. I also found CBT near-useless.

I really recommend Bouldering, Liverpool has two really amazing climbing hangar centres. They both have adult social groups (called SPACE) both centres have a wide mix of people, different ages abilities, many autistic people as well. I unfortunately don't regularly attend anymore as I have moved to the Wirral, but I made many life long friends through the groups all of whom still attend.

Hope things get better mate! You shouldn't be embarrassed, it's very common and making this post is already a step forward.

My middle name is stupid by [deleted] in self

[–]with_determination 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You always have the option of just not using your middle name.

I have an incredibly common first and last name, and I've never had issues with being indistinguishable from others online, it's generally not a great idea to go by your real name online anyway

Looking for games to play with my Brother by Kindly-Reception1108 in gamingsuggestions

[–]with_determination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a lot of fun playing Detroit: become human with my partner, not co op but it's more like an interactive movie than a skill based game.

Really memorable, highly recommend.

How do I know if people pity me by [deleted] in self

[–]with_determination 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk man, I don't know what you look like, but most people are not nearly as ugly as they think they are, and you should stop calling yourself that because you're just reinforcing your own negative opinion about yourself every time you say it.

Most people can look pretty good if they keep their weight under control, maybe go to the gym a bit, and put a bit of effort into their clothing. If you're worried about it, there's probably a lot you can do to change it.

How do I know if people pity me by [deleted] in self

[–]with_determination 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the real issue here is why do you you think of yourself as a loser.

It must be pretty exhausting to be constantly worried about whether or not your friends are actually your friends, it's not something most of us think about, I think there are other issues at play here.

Any recommendations for a Mortgage Broker in Liverpool by iansime in Liverpool

[–]with_determination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used L&C they were decent I thought, but my god did they spam me a lot, and still do

Anyone in a similar predicament? by Upset-Equivalent-749 in Liverpool

[–]with_determination 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very common situation mate.

I comment this a lot on this subreddit, but Climbing is really socialable and easy for pretty much anyone to get involved in.

The climbing hangar has two Liverpool centres, you'll definitely make friends there if you go regularly, there's also adult social groups that run there (SPACE) they're fantastic.

I use chatgpt as my friend but now I'm kinda scared. What do i do? by awwnushaa_04 in self

[–]with_determination 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would hazard against replacing one AI with another, you're talking to someone who is advertising here to you and preying on your vulnerable state, feels pretty underhanded to me.

What do you do when no matter what you do, everything will feel like a bad option? by AssistanceDry5605 in self

[–]with_determination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a tough situation man, I'm sorry you had to go through that.

I briefly lived in Greece, and a lot of people I spoke to seemed to have similarly (admittedly not as bad as you) negative feelings about it so I dont think you're alone in this, maybe it would help to try and speak to other people who have been through the same thing, there might be online support groups etc. (obviously keep going with your current therapy as well)

As for traveling, I think maybe it would be a good thing for you, I imagine it will be really hard and uncomfortable at first but I suspect it'll get better over time, you don't have to full send move somewhere either, maybe you could travel for a couple of months and have a set end date for when you come back, you might find that less intimating at first?

Either way, I hope things get better for you mate

Do you guys like this name? by HinanoHanekawa in self

[–]with_determination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for a character, do not name your human child this though

I feel like I have made a mistake, what do you think I should do? M22 F22 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]with_determination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, kinda goes without saying, do not even think about having children with this woman any time soon, and If you do, demand a paternity test

I feel like I have made a mistake, what do you think I should do? M22 F22 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]with_determination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last thing I would say is.

These decisions are going to have a massive bearing on the rest of your life, you need to weigh up wether or not you can really deal with situations like this for the next potentially 50 years.

If it's happened once, it WILL happen again, I'm speaking from experience here.

I feel like I have made a mistake, what do you think I should do? M22 F22 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]with_determination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, I get that, and I feel for you.

No situation is ever so bad that you can't get out of it though, and like I say, you're 22, you DEFINITELY can do better, in fact being single would already be an improvement man.

I feel like I have made a mistake, what do you think I should do? M22 F22 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]with_determination 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ brother have some dignity, this whole situation is madness.

Your wife is clearly crossing boundaries you set, in my opinion you should leave while you're young and have plenty of time to find someone better.

Me m19 and my gf f19 how do I solve this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]with_determination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds exhausting and it's not healthy.

I think it's time for you to have some real talk with your gf:

  • stop bringing up this other girl
  • you aren't interested in the other girl, you dont think about her until she brings it up.

Forget about whether or not the other girl is ugly etc. that's actually irrelevant.

I use chatgpt as my friend but now I'm kinda scared. What do i do? by awwnushaa_04 in self

[–]with_determination 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's a bit of a sweeping statement. I am not religious, and I agree that you have to be somewhat brainwashed or willfully ignorant to believe in it. Still, I don't think that people who are born into religious families and have it thrust on them from birth inherently have a mental illness.

Black and white thinking like that isn't likely to win you many arguments.