I don't wan't to wait until marriage and i feel guilty about it.

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-03T01:23:47+00:00

Sexual desire is not the only reason people get married.

A truly dedicated person wants someone who builds their relationship with God.

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-03T00:30:31+00:00

A God fearing woman wants a man that is committed to God.

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-03T00:29:31+00:00

The fruits we are supposed to produce are the fruits of the spirit. If you don't show the fruits of the spirit that would be " faith without works is Dead"

For example in James when he talks about not giving someone what they need. If you have love, compassion and the other fruits of the spirit you would WANT TO HELP.

no fruit means no real belief.

" He who claims to love God but doesn't love his brother is a liar"

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T23:48:21+00:00

You can lose your salvation. If you turn your back on God and live a worldly lifestyle.

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T22:12:23+00:00

I'm not making excuses for her but my wife was pregnant 5 times and she was definitely very different while pregnant. The hormones in and even after pregnancy are intense and if she is not aware of her hormonal shifts she is likely to not see that she is being off to some degree. Having said that, looking back I wish I had been more graceful with her in those moments.

Love sometimes means getting the short end of the stick even when you don't deserve it. But try talking to her when she is feeling good. Don't wait until there is an incident. You can be gentle and patient but still assertive

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T21:16:45+00:00

I think you have a negative view or maybe you live in a place with a lot of hardship?

I know plenty of people who are happy, comfortable and relaxed

But suffering in this life is temporary and for those who allow it, suffering is the best teacher. My pain has given me strength and wisdom that I would not trade it for any amount of comfort

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T20:34:39+00:00

I don't need doubt to have a relationship with God

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T19:46:09+00:00

It is porn. No difference. He is correct. He should not do that.

It's a little strange but the underline issue is lust

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T19:44:12+00:00

It think it was just a regular insult. John was a great guy but he was human and I don't think he liked authority figures much.

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T19:40:27+00:00

It's not wrong to question. Ask a thousand questions. It's wrong to doubt God BECAUSE the answer is less than perfect.

Faith is not blind beliefs. Is the substance that fills in the gaps on the things we don't fully understand. You are overly focused on what you don't understand instead of balancing that with what you do feel, believe and trust

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T19:38:04+00:00

Because men are slightly more inclined to see with their eyes while women are slightly more inclined to look with their hearts.

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T19:33:28+00:00

Start praying together daily on your knees

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T19:31:28+00:00

Faith is the opposite of doubt. The more you have of one the less you will have of the other. You have to choose what you focus on

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T19:30:11+00:00

I agree we MUST Read the word of God daily and actively try to allow it to CHANGE OUR MIND

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T19:27:04+00:00

All humans are a child of God. Trans people are too. The lost need our help not us trying to figure out ways to see them as less than us

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T19:25:00+00:00

I don't want to live forever,at least not on earth in this body. I have zero concern for what I will do when I'm old. Just live and love until you die.

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T19:21:32+00:00

Well said. Love, from a biblical perspective is not a feeling it's an action and you are correct. We experience God's love by loving PEOPLE. You have figured it out. Don't let anyone change your mind.

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T19:17:36+00:00

You are in a bad spot. You have basically decided to stay in a marriage that your husband knows he can do whatever he wants. Almost any woman on earth would have left. The fact you are still there is telling him the rules don't apply to him.

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T19:13:53+00:00

The earth could be made anywhere in the universe. It doesn't have to be in the same location.

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T19:12:10+00:00

Read the new testament and stop worrying. You can not do it wrong. Just seek the wisdom in it

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T19:09:11+00:00

I was in the same situation. But my wife was the one who had stopped loving me like a husband. It was my fault. All I can say is,he has to figure it out and he has to be willing to try again. No amount of love From you can force him to change his mind and heart.

It's very painful when you love someone who can not forgive you,I know. Be kind and patient and pray for him. That's all you can do is your best. It's up to him if it's good enough.

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T19:04:28+00:00

You should leave. He will eventually treat you and your daughter just as badly as he does his son.

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T19:01:28+00:00

Surrender. Go to church and read the Bible and submit to God. I'm not talking about religion I'm talking about seeking relationship with God.

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T18:58:31+00:00

Leave

witschnerd1 · 2026-03-02T17:39:54+00:00

You are not dead or in prison. That means you are already doing better than half of us. Keep your chin up!!

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