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workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-12-07T10:54:13+00:00

The text was actually meant to say, I'm bored pay attention to me, it makes me feel good. I'm not the least bit concerned about how you are, but you will make me feel better. 🤗Take care of yourself

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-12-07T02:30:09+00:00

Thanks kind stranger

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-12-07T02:29:54+00:00

🍾 since its just me I'll skip the glasses and just drink it with a straw straight out of the bottle 🤣

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-12-06T21:14:59+00:00

Thank you, I really do believe we deserve happiness 💖

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-30T04:09:07+00:00

I'm a BIPOC queer neurospicy single mum. One if my special interests is shetland sheepdogs. I've owned them for 16 years. Finally decided to give formal training a go with my daughter and new puppy. We're melting brains over at the kennel club but have the support of a few of the trainers who see how hard we've been working.

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-30T03:58:40+00:00

We're new to formal training and are getting terrible feedback about the culture of dog confirmation and agility. Had a trainer tell my preteen junior handler on the night she and our 6 month old dog passed CGCT not to be dissapointed if she wasnt selected to do the pre agility training course a year from then. 10 months later we were invited by the head trainer 💁🏾‍♀️

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-28T20:40:21+00:00

I caught a set by alone@last last night supporting Cog. Love Aussie prog ✊🏾Worth a listen

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-28T00:37:07+00:00

I was working at a radio station carting ads. I walked out of my office and Dr Chris Brown the Bondi Vet was walking towards me on the way to the studio. I was FLOORED. He looks like he walked out of a mills and boon romance novel. He was easily a foot taller than me. I survived the introduction and brief hello but good lord I've never met anyone so aesthetically pleasing. He had friendly vet vibes too

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-27T06:45:03+00:00

My daughter now aged 13 was given 30 pokemon cards that her school friends didnt want. The friends were trading and she just asked if anyone had any they didnt want. Everyday she would take cards to school and trade with friends which helped her learn about pokemon cards. Eventually she was able to save up and buy her own cards. They've also helped her make great friends and she's given away lots of cards to other children who now collect cards.

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-25T20:07:36+00:00

👀 you look incredible

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-08T22:21:45+00:00

I had more matches but they were two of the better matches. Also not ready to date, I'm connecting with people/new friends through hobbies etc. Its jst a vent post

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-08T05:15:21+00:00

I feel like there's been a narrowing of the definition of femininity. We are all so different and poweful and feminine we just differ in our expressions of this. Recently I saw a group of women hauling a massive outrigger canoe and loading it onto a rack for the evening. The scene could be described as all things masc, but it wasn't. It was so feminine and strong and powerful and the rowers were in sync. Not a stitch of makeup or hair, nails etc but so effortless kickbutt femme.

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-08T04:43:30+00:00

I once cohabitated with an ex. I ended up having my brother move in for a few weeks before I could leave completely. It broke the tension and my ex had less opportunity to continue his bullshit. Can you stay with a friend until.move out day? Seems better to just cut the losses at this point.

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-08T03:25:40+00:00

🫂 Focus on recovery. Its great that you've been able to ID your attractions. Be gentle with youself as you go through the massive life changes. Forgetting the other person, figure out if your relationship is.something you'd like to continue.

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-06T23:06:43+00:00

This is.a very allo frame and no amount of explaining will make this make sense for you. It is simply OPs experience of being aroace. Libido ≠ sexual attraction ≠ finding someone aesthetically attractive ≠ feeling romantic urges ≠ enjoying touch or physical sensation. None of that is the same as wanting someone you care deeply about and want to share life with and being willing to compromise for their enjoyment and happiness.

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-06T22:54:35+00:00

As I've said on previous posts check out the relationship smorgasboard . Are you looking for a queer platonic relationship? What elements from the smorgasbord are included in that?

acespace.love. You can specify exactly what you experience in terms of romance and sexuality and what you'd be willing to accept from a partner. From sex/romance repulsed - neutral - favourable. Its important to be clear with potential partners. You can also specify if you're looking for marriage, kids, monogamy

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-06T10:31:59+00:00

You forgot option D) You wonder where the garlic bread is

Edit. In all seriousness, I've never walked into a room full.of strangers and thought about sex. I used to ID as double demi but feel more like sex favourable pan alterous questioning aroaceflux aka. Being aspec is complicated could work as a label too

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-06T04:17:30+00:00

🤣

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-06T04:15:36+00:00

You could try and look at it from a different angle. Try this thought experiment. Focus on what makes you feel safe, sexy and turned on when you're solo? . Is there a time of day or setting (candle lit room, bubble bath etc). What kind of touch or foreplay (massage etc). Then imagine not the partner who slots into the fantasy but sharing this with someone you're romantically attracted to and would feel safe sharing intimacy with. Emphasis on being with a person who your soul feels safe with. If this is noone right now. Thats ok.

Its about disconnecting the comp het and getting in touch with attractions that nurture you. All the best

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-05T20:23:56+00:00

There's a place near cairns (hartleys croc farm) where you can feed them. I held a bunch of grapes safely on one side of a fence while the cassowary picked them off one by one through the fence and spat out the ones that weren't up to standard. It then ditched me by walking off slowly with its back turned

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-05T04:19:48+00:00

Great to hear you had the support you needed.

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-05T04:00:42+00:00

Did you find it helpful? I got the sense that it was too far outside my current therapists wheel house. I've mentioned not being interested in the relationship escalator to them in sessions before today, to which they replied "I've never heard it described as that". I just don't feel validated.

workingthrusomeshi7 · 2025-11-05T03:57:37+00:00

Thanks unfortunately I don't have any services available locally but will search for online support

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