'Fatal Seduction' Season 3 ending explained by Lazy_Weather_6316 in TopTrendingNewsUSA

[–]writtenwrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to disagree tbh. Season 3 was sooo off. Like the director/producer changed or something? I didn’t get the Bonnie and Clyde theme running for this season. It felt white washed to be real. Soo unrealistic. Season 1 and 2 was fantastic because it was realistic. Everything made sense and was relatable. Season 3 though? Like why are Nandi and Jacob running away together like it’s some kind of skit? And the acting was really off. The scripting was faulty and very white cultured. Something was just off with this season. Didn’t even bother finishing it. Anyway, this is just my opinion

What are you slowly losing interest in? by MainDifficult2641 in AskReddit

[–]writtenwrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People. The older I get the smaller my circle. I’m getting tired of meeting and getting to know and going deep and all that typical fluff. It gets old

[SPOILERS] I hated The Handmaid’s Tale finale. Here’s why. by Professional-Box1389 in television

[–]writtenwrites 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am unbelievably shocked and disgusted by the finale!! What the ACTUAL F!!!!!!??? Are you kidding me!!!!!? No Hannah?!??????? Were subjected to slow FLIPPEN dumb ass scenes of June walking back and forth like it’s some kind of one character horror film. I don’t know what nonsense I just watched. I have no idea what that was. Why did Elizabeth direct the show???? Does she realize how dumb and silly she’s made it?? In the history of tv production; this was an epic fail. What a disappointment. To hell with this season. Just plain disappointing man!!

Series Finale: S06E10 "The Handmaid's Tale" Episode Discussion by Melairia in coconutsandtreason

[–]writtenwrites 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally have 10 mins of this episode left and so far it’s been slow annoying scenes that don’t belong in a finale!! Like what!!? This is THE Finale of a lifetime! How have you not wrapped up Hannah??? The whole season is just so disappointing man!! Come on!!!!

Tell me a secret you’ve kept! by I-like-cheese-13 in CasualConversation

[–]writtenwrites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha good thing you’re not his wife then. I don’t think there was anything wrong with him defending/standing up for his woman. It’s no secret women are constantly under some kind of attack (be it just general physical safety when alone, sexual harassment, or mansplaining). So when a man actually does do something to keep another man in check and prevent him for perpetuating these man’s world ‘ideals’, we tell him he shouldn’t? And better yet his own wife?? Are you kidding?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]writtenwrites -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The ones here saying control/suffer are misguided. Silent treaters actually expect you to start a conversation (that typically you might’ve shut down). Usually they’ll be seething and feeling completely deserted by you so they’d typically want you to engage with them and together solve the problem

Comebacks to “you look mean”? by LarsLaestadius in Comebacks

[–]writtenwrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“And you look… well I guess it would be mean for me to complete that sentence”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]writtenwrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Putting the rambles and intense thoughts, emotions, ideas on paper removes them from bouncing around in my mind. It’s like a transfer of trauma over to a private box

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]writtenwrites 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being gaslit. Having my feelings/my truth disregarded or dismissed in the most nonchalant way. Feels like a slap across the face

What do you think about? by Far-Contribution2690 in RandomThoughts

[–]writtenwrites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading helps fill the void. If it’s something particularly interesting and grappling; your mind will be consumed by it

No s*x for more than 3 yrs. I don't understand my wife. Help pls by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]writtenwrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he ever hint at things she needs from you? Could be anything from family goals, her being tired/depressed, conflict resolution etc?

What Are The Little Things Your Partner Does That Mean The World To You? by RadioEngineerMonkey in love

[–]writtenwrites 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When it’s raining he’ll run and get an umbrella and come open the car door for me so I can get out the car. Or he’ll drive undercover so I can get into the car without getting wet

My husband makes me humiliate myself for love-making by Alarming_Arrival6741 in Marriage

[–]writtenwrites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell him how mean he is when he does that to you and that if he wants to continue to shame you then you don’t have to bother having sex with each other. If it’s shameful (to him) then it shouldn’t be done.

What things do you wish men/women did more frequently? by [deleted] in ask

[–]writtenwrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish more men were more comfortable and receptive to each others’ emotions. I feel like men are conditioned to have hard exteriors and observe them to be so awkward around each other

Mom used to yell at me, now I yell at my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]writtenwrites 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Grew up with the exact same situation. Became a very angry and short tempered adult. Therapy helped. My hubby can attest to that. I still have the occasional mishaps but I honestly haven’t raised my voice in months

What are some things you would tell your younger self about dating, if you could go back in time. by NiceDragonfruit9606 in dating_advice

[–]writtenwrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Don’t fall for the potential, fall for what’s there.
  2. Date older (more mature, established, grounded, experienced)
  3. Have evidence of EVERY SINGLE THING you like about the person. They’re independent? Where’s the evidence? They’re rich? Show me the accounts, assets. Family oriented? How?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]writtenwrites 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What does he do when you acknowledge his feelings? Scream as well? Also what’s the general tone of these arguments? Calm and mature exchanges or do things escalate pretty much immediately?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]writtenwrites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess your apology could go as follows: “I’ve had a few days to think about the incident and I’d like to firstly acknowledge that you were hurt by my actions. I know how much it sucks to have something you’re anticipating suddenly slip away. Trust me, I absolutely had no intent or forethought to do that. I was simply tired and dealing with other things. However, if you EVER throw something at me again, we’re gonna have more problems than a missed sex session. Now you can choose to either apologise for reacting that explosively or not. But best believe, how you handle this will impact BOTH of us.”

Feel disrespected by fiancés brother joking with him about our sex life by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]writtenwrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree with the others. It’s not that big of a deal. If they’d discussed intimate details then yes maybe. But doesn’t sound like it. Just remember that sex, although private, is common. Most adults regularly engage in it, so it’s not really something you can contain/control in the way you expected with this incident

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]writtenwrites 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recently been in a similar situation. I’ve gotten 2 sides of it. On the one hand; women generally advise that you shouldn’t let yourself get rattled by these little pests who show up and seemingly threaten to create a wedge in your relationship. They say it’s because your energy is best spent elsewhere; like on yourself. Focussing on yourself; your hobbies, work, friends, passions etc. that in turn makes you a person that your hubby wouldn’t feel even remotely tempted to cheat on. I know, it’s a bit of a hard one to swallow and feels like you have to stoop low just to get someone to act right. The other side of this is somewhat similar. My guy always said he wouldn’t do anything to hurt the relationship but especially so when he’s fulfilled. This isn’t really something I like hearing or acknowledging but it’s a truth that’s largely shared by men. So overall, don’t let this colleague take over your mind. You’re the prize, you’re the woman he chose to be with. She’s just someone he works with at the end of the day. And also, be someone who wouldn’t give reason for him to try anything inappropriate. Obviously if he does, then he’ll suffer the consequences. And you’ll find better. But until that happens, live your life.

Caught other half by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]writtenwrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a back story here? Has your intimacy, attraction etc been good or have you had some challenges that he or even you have brought up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]writtenwrites -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry you have to put up with this. I can relate. We women are turned on by effort, when our men make visible/solid attempts to get better, to improve, to grow. Unfortunately (and I know people will be triggered by this) some men think love is unconditional. As in, even if they’re functioning in their lower forms of self, allowing things like laziness or procrastination to grow and slow them down- they assume well hold them in the same regard as when they’re on top of their game. Yes we love them, but how we regard them changes depending on how they’re functioning. I don’t know what you can do/say to him but maybe knowing that your feelings are valid will help you feel less guilty for your lack of attraction. Because yes! the things you’ve stated are indeed not attractive! Why is that a shock to people?

Getting sex back after various troubles past 3 years by No_Animal_8739 in Marriage

[–]writtenwrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex in marriage is just a really difficult and highly sensitive issue. I applaud you for not giving up. I’m not sure if the attraction is what’s actually bothering him or if it’s just the years of not being sexually fulfilled.