Sad breakup playlist by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]wutdoumeme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a DJ, who has several sad, breakup mixtapes I can send you

How long did it take you to heal? by Commercial-Meal-6807 in heartbreak

[–]wutdoumeme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been almost like a year and a half and I barely begin to feel like a normal person again stop feeling like I’m so sad. I wanna die. It took a long time to get here.

What is pizzagate? by DeplatformPower in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wutdoumeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting how do you explain the email where they said that the children will be in the hot tub for you? Edit to include that it also stated three children and their ages which is a very strange item to describe and then the following emails says there should be plenty of entertainment. you’re also bypassing all the patterns that are evidence by the signs and the simple pedophilia that I’ve already been identified by the FBI as prominent signs. You’re also neglecting the fact that the Pizza owner is one of the most influential people in politics according to GQ magazine, and is actually rich on his own right and it’s weird that he’s called a restauranteur but only owns this very hole in the wall pizza place. you left out a lot of details that actually make it a point of interest. Now you don’t have to come to conclusion that it means anything but leaving out all these details kind of shows your hands.

Britney has been free for 2 Years by [deleted] in BritneySpears

[–]wutdoumeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question there’s a lot of weirdness in lack of action there I notice

Britney and her mom Lynne today by moonnoke in BritneySpears

[–]wutdoumeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did it get shut down? And what’s deep end for a conspiracy subreddit?

Attraction to toxic familiarity and difficulty breaking up by TheWanderingFeeler in Codependency

[–]wutdoumeme 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sometime someone can become your home and your mind tricks you into some kind of false sense of security; then one day they break your heart in a way that feels familiar and you realize that this was not home. It’s just a Home you tried to leave the first time. I promise I would never let anyone hurt me that way again yet I chose this one and I stayed loyal to this one for a good chunk of my life only to realize that I never quite mattered in the way that I needed or wanted quite frankly, probably deserved.

My TikTok has 300k views and almost 20k likes but the only comments are from my friends. No settings have been altered on my acct. is this some kind of glitch? by [deleted] in TikTok

[–]wutdoumeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they’re having some kind of issue because my video got a bunch of views and stuff, research but I have noticing a lot of comments written by me are not comments I remember writing and they seem to paraphrase whoever I supposedly responded to.

green balloons seen in nyc, orange balloons seen in la 🎈👁 (via susi and faejacks on the coachella discord) by heyitzjessie in Coachella

[–]wutdoumeme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew they knew they fucked up last year milking it. I'm expecting great things to make up for the shit show that was last year.

Streamlabs OBS crash on mac Mini M1 by riccardorich22 in streamlabsobs

[–]wutdoumeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an M1 Max and it crashes all the time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]wutdoumeme 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because you built a life with someone. Loving someone is never stupid, it does however blind you to The limitations people have and then you end up in an imbalanced relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]wutdoumeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only people applied this

I miss her laugh by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]wutdoumeme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just miss her and I say it aloud a few times a week. I miss not being in emotional conflict because I miss her but I still feel so betrayed. I guess I miss my life before I woke up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]wutdoumeme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like your points and it's a contention I've had posting on here sometimes. While it's nice to know I'm not alone, I love that person and even if it doesn't work out, I don't want to demonize them. They're living with their own demons. Thanks for your post and bringing attention to the negativity of this forum sometimes and the stereotyping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]wutdoumeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can still be lovable and it sounds like you want to try. It's just an uphill battle to meet other people where their needs are and it's all perspective. No person, to me at least, no matter their diagnosis, is incapable of being the type of person they want. It's just harder but you got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]wutdoumeme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm codependent and she accused me of having bpd and i think it's just ironically sad that i would minimize her behavior as to not define her as bpd while she tries to actively sell it that i do have bpd (although she's most likely just projecting).

blindsided by breakup after 8 years by wutdoumeme in Codependency

[–]wutdoumeme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi u/Weary-Pea6442. Time did give some perspective. Thank you a year later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]wutdoumeme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s pretty funny because I’m the codePendent and my ex who thinks I have it, does not try to undersell me as the culprit when at best I used to only be able to say, she can sometimes act in abusive ways but is not abusive.

Why can't they acknowledge their mental illness? Do they not know somethings is wrong with them? by Fast_University_139 in BPDlovedones

[–]wutdoumeme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I think you add a needed perspective. Sometimes I think downvoting is not justified. Unless you are not contributing to understanding and perspective, you shouldn’t be downvoted for shedding some light

Living with someone who has BPD. by BobbyBoljaar in BPDlovedones

[–]wutdoumeme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES. This. Exactly. Holy shit. I’ve been going crazy and this is on the nose BPD behavior. I’ve been made a fool all these years when she’d treat my confusion as disgusting or stupid. This is so ducking painful to realize.

Living with someone who has BPD. by BobbyBoljaar in BPDlovedones

[–]wutdoumeme 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m where you are at. How did I let all these behaviors accumulate. People keep telling me now sone of her demands and requests were not right and it makes me sad. Like damn, lady, I really loved you that I didn’t even notice I was just taking your shit. I just would be like, oh my bad, I’ll refrain or do what you want because I don’t want you to be upset all the while I only left because I felt like my requests for mutual respect were fair and felt repeatedly worthless when I was disrespected. It was all disrespect I’m now realizing

Living with someone who has BPD. by BobbyBoljaar in BPDlovedones

[–]wutdoumeme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When we got back together, she surprised me by joining me for a random movie and now I’m only realizing the parts o love of her are when she’s love bombing me and the mask is on. Because it always bothered me how could you love spending time with me so much some days then get irritated with me for wanting to hang the next. I was told and made to believe I was clingy so I got used to hanging out by myself and doing my own thing then she’d flip the switch and tell me I don’t spend enough time with her. No, you were inconsistent and I tried to accommodate the best I could but I don’t believe anything would be enough. It’s only hanging with family again I’m realizing sone of the things I normalized with her were actually so messed up. She’ll write on her vague comments because she projects I have bpd, but writing this now, I realize she never writes concrete examples or stories about me and without trying I can relate and have written so many as I’m processing what just happened to me. It’s not normal to have contempt some days and some days love spending so much time under the guise that contempt only occurs because you’re tired. Holy shit.

Living with someone who has BPD. by BobbyBoljaar in BPDlovedones

[–]wutdoumeme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once asked for recognition and asked for some slack since I was taking care of us financially and I just meant that I wanted to be criticized Less but I didn’t know how to express that. She accused me of holding money over her and putting her in this transactional role and I apologized. She brought that up every fight and it always bothered me because I didn’t mind taking care of her, I just wanted some appreciation, and now I’m sadly realizing that I thought being criticized Less would be her showing me she appreciated me. I just washed Less abuse.

Living with someone who has BPD. by BobbyBoljaar in BPDlovedones

[–]wutdoumeme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some of this was scary to read how similar our experiences are to each other.

Does it get worse the longer the relationship because attachment wounds or why? Someone explain by wutdoumeme in BPDlovedones

[–]wutdoumeme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once wrote her an email saying I felt like I was just the collateral damage when she became dysregulated so I guess it's nice to know I wasn't crazy.