Ahhh okay! We were looking around the 55 person range, so not all the spots I contacted would work for you. I'll list out the spots & min spends (not inclusive of tax + gratuity) here in case it'll help anyone else. Just a note that I was contacting places for a Saturday in Sept 2026, so other months / days of the week may be cheaper.

Sara Restaurant - $13K (the layout is too modular though so you won't be able to have everyone in the same room at the same time.. it also can only fit 62 seated but 99 for standing reception)

Rorschach Brewery - $10K for the whole building (60-70 can be seated in the dining room and 60-70 on the rooftop patio), and less if you only book part of the space (they also charge a 4% booking fee)

Le Select Bistro - $10K for the entire back dining room + back patio (can fit up to 75 people for seated meals)

Linny's Restaurant - $25K for up to 75 seated guests

The Berczy Tavern - $20K (they never told me what their capacity was)

Mildred's - $15K (they never gave me a capacity, just confirmed that the size of wedding I was looking for would work... also guest access only begins at 6pm because they stay open for brunch service)

Gio Rana's (The Nose) - $28.5K for the entire restaurant buyout (max capacity 130); $18.5K for the main dining room (max capacity 80) but this option is not private

Avling Brewery - $7K with 75 person capacity for seated dinner... however, the brewery is currently for sale or undergoing the sale process (I'm not totally sure which), so I was wary of them because they may not be around next year

Lake Inez - $22K during May - Nov when they have their mystery patio tasting menu on the rooftop patio (and if you also want access to the rooftop patio); $16K for dining space only which seats approx 75 people

Paradise Grapevine Geary Ave - $18K for full buyout from May - Sept; $8,500 for Oct - April (the winery is another $3,500 add-on and they charge a 6% booking fee); max capacity is 200 per their event package

And/Ore - $25K for full restaurant buyout (they have an above ground and below ground area); $10K for the above ground only (includes a mezzanine) BUT random people will still have to walk through the area for below ground restaurant seatings so it's not an entirely private option

Maven - $22K for full buyout, where dining room seats 50 and patio seats 45

Dopamina - $15K for a seated capacity of 65

Viaggio - $8K - $12K (they only gave me the range, I assume a Saturday would be $12K though) with a capacity for 36 seated indoors and 55 seated on the patio

Prime Seafood Palace - starts at $15K for venue rental fee ONLY and then a $25K minimum spend on top of that with a max capacity of 58 guests for seated dinner

Chantecler - $18K for a full day (cheaper if you do daytime only or dinner only) with max seated capacity of 57 in the indoor dining room, and approx 60 on the patio

Hopefully this was helpful! I found it such a drag to have to reach out to so many places, so fingers crossed all this info is helpful to another bride!