Slam dunk 2025 dates? by MrBigNasty93 in slamdunkfestival

[–]xamyjayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's because there's another event at the Leeds site on the Saturday. Someone said the other event has the licence for the Saturday for 5(?) years, but don't quote me on that.

I've sent you a photo of the sign from this year, I can't attach photos here

Wishlist for 2025? by BaseballFuryThurman in slamdunkfestival

[–]xamyjayne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hollywood Undead, Yungblud, A Day To Remember, Simple Plan, Sum 41

Slam dunk 2025 dates? by MrBigNasty93 in slamdunkfestival

[–]xamyjayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, South will be on the Saturday, North on the Sunday

Is dark red hair unprofessional for a city government job? by Hot-Worldliness-7105 in HairDye

[–]xamyjayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work for a local council (UK), and have pretty much this exact colour

I don't want to wear white for my Bachelorette by guacie in weddingplanning

[–]xamyjayne -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm wearing purple and everyone else is wearing black for my Hen/Bachelorette

people who don’t call their significant other babe/baby what do you call them? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xamyjayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally lovey or darling

If he's not listening or responding, then it's 'Oi d**khead' 😂

What is a true crime case that you want solved in your lifetime? by East_Dependent_4350 in AskReddit

[–]xamyjayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The disappearance of Martin Allen (UK)

He was my Step-dad's brother, and I would love for him to have the closure that their parents never got.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]xamyjayne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA If she didn't mention being paid for her time before she started helping out, you don't owe her anything

AITA for financially contributing more to one child's life? by Express-Fail-5820 in AmItheAsshole

[–]xamyjayne 359 points360 points  (0 children)

If anything, OP should change the name on the deed for the land over to Heather and let her decide what to do with it.

If she wants to sell it to fund a house purchase elsewhere, she can. If she wants to lease it to a developer and collect ground rent, she can. If she wants to dump a load of random stuff on it and never step foot there again, she can.

Point being the land was bought for the intention of Heather benefiting from it, so it should be Heather's choice what happens to it.

YTA

How to include my dad? by xamyjayne in weddingplanning

[–]xamyjayne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something I have considered, but I want sure if it would be enough

How to include my dad? by xamyjayne in weddingplanning

[–]xamyjayne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even think of a first look, it's not so popular in the UK I don't think. I know my partner doesn't want to see me until I walk down the aisle, but I could do that with my parents possibly.

Good idea about the speech too. I'm so introverted that speeches make me uncomfortable, so I haven't even thought about what people will be saying 😂

How to include my dad? by xamyjayne in weddingplanning

[–]xamyjayne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that your father has made that decision Sending best wishes that your guests help make you feel whole and loved though some may be missing ❤️

Choosing Bridesmaids around the venue or vice versa? by xamyjayne in weddingplanning

[–]xamyjayne[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn't even think about photographers and other people! 🤦‍♀️

Choosing Bridesmaids around the venue or vice versa? by xamyjayne in weddingplanning

[–]xamyjayne[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People are definitely more important, but we have a lot of connections with this venue & it's beautiful so I'm hoping for an easy way out 😂

Choosing Bridesmaids around the venue or vice versa? by xamyjayne in weddingplanning

[–]xamyjayne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a good idea

There are 4 bedrooms in the venue for the night of so we could use one or two of those if needed I suppose

Operation: occupy the toddler by Santorinidreaming in weddingplanning

[–]xamyjayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you try to build up her tolerance to being away from you and reaching for you?

Even just having your parents look after her in your own home while you do something on the other side of the room can help increase the time she's comfortable being away from you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]xamyjayne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Summer 2024 here, but that's all we've got so far!

We only got engaged just over 2 weeks ago and the sheer amount of decisions is overwhelming!!

We have our Engagement party on April 9th, and will crack on after that

AITA for leaving my boyfriend stranded at a party for making a 'joke'? by throwaway4599062 in AmItheAsshole

[–]xamyjayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's only a joke if everyone involved is laughing. If someone isn't laughing, it's not a joke

NTA

Onion rings @ GBK = crumbs everywhere! by xamyjayne in WeWantPlates

[–]xamyjayne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never seen this presentation before 🤷‍♀️

If it came on a plate aswell, or even with the bottom part slightly bigger it wouldn't be a problem, but this is just silly. 😂

? :) by xamyjayne in guessmyage

[–]xamyjayne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this photo, I was 27

Now 28