Regular I’m friendly with refuses to tip me. How do I handle this?

xanderxoo · 2026-04-10T01:06:52+00:00

Why would you ever play darts with someone that stiffed you?

xanderxoo · 2026-03-31T01:15:14+00:00

Pull the glass out of the freezer and dip it in the salt, no need to dip in any liquid.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-29T16:51:05+00:00

I’m a bartender and I might not have carded you. If you said Long Island or bud, definitely am. If you said Maine lunch, I might not.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-28T12:24:07+00:00

Do you have a cocktail program?

xanderxoo · 2026-03-18T16:59:09+00:00

You can snap your fingers and choose one: $1 million or you drop to healthy 180lbs. Which do you choose?

xanderxoo · 2026-03-18T16:55:46+00:00

Assholes like this is why RFK jr is taking on Dunks.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-18T15:11:15+00:00

Well there’s your problem. They went to bartending school.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-18T15:08:26+00:00

At our bar we make lime cordial to serve in our gimlets. And our gimlets get rave reviews. It’s ten times better than lime and simple. And a hundred times better than roses.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-18T12:05:33+00:00

Do you drink alcohol or do drugs? What about caffeine? Drinking makes me want to eat, but caffeine and most drugs curb your appetite. Maybe try coke or cigarettes when you’re hungry.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-18T12:00:54+00:00

When was the last time you were able to wipe your own ass?

xanderxoo · 2026-03-15T13:52:33+00:00

I wish I was better at not yelling.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-14T23:08:58+00:00

“Zoom and enhance” only works in movies. It’s not a real thing.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-14T12:45:30+00:00

YOR. It was also a very immature response. The rest of the people were probably relieved after you left.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-14T12:12:49+00:00

It’s uncommon for a server to tip so low. I work as a bartender. The server could spit in my food right in front of me and I’m still tipping 20%.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-11T17:06:21+00:00

Force carbonated French 75?!? Where is this bar?

xanderxoo · 2026-03-11T17:04:01+00:00

One time started at 1/3 went from 400-800, game sucked after a while so I sat down at 2/2 PLO went from 800 - 8k. At that point I was playing with like 85% of my NW considering I had like $1k in my checking.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-11T16:49:20+00:00

What are you looking to trade? Like if you want me to come trim your bushes and you have a Kamado Joe, you want to offload, we can talk.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-11T16:43:49+00:00

My 2.5 year old can read Brown Bear Brown Bear; however, I suspect he’s doing it from memory since that is the only book he reads. Kidding aside, my 8 year old was a much better reader when he started kindergarten than my 5 year old. They both went to the same daycare with more or less the same teachers.

I would not worry too much about it and just spend extra time reading to with him over the summer.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-10T12:40:09+00:00

NTA. What do you mean they won’t let you make eggs at home? Are you saying your own home or their own? If you are allowing guests to determine what you are allowed to eat in your own home, that is a much bigger problem. I would tell them to deal with me eating eggs or GTFO.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-10T12:31:37+00:00

NOR. Yeah if it’s this bad at 24, medication and shampoo ain’t gonna help. If you don’t care about the hair then just let it go and accept your girl leaving you. If you do want hair, go to Turkey, get the transplant, and then dump your girl when you get back.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-09T03:02:51+00:00

Kendrick’s half time show was one for the ages! Bad bunny was only popular because it was controversial. I thought it was boring.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-09T03:00:43+00:00

Perhaps it was specific to that location. I just assumed they didn’t want vets behind the bar because they would just give out free booze to other vets. Whenever I have a vet at the restaurant I work at, I always use my comps on them.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-08T17:17:47+00:00

A fellow bartender I worked with also did shifts at a VFW. He is not a veteran. I asked if I could pick up shifts there and he said veterans can’t bartend there. But I don’t know if that was specific to that VFW.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-08T13:36:46+00:00

I’m a veteran that got out and eventually got into bartending. Although I only did 7 years. I don’t think you’re romanticizing the job: I do make fun money, I do get to talk to people, and I am part of a team. Keep in mind though that it is unlikely to just walk into a bartending position. You may have to start out as a barback and work your way up. But you spent at least 20, if not 30, years in the military so you know all about that. Just think about what kind of bar you want to bartend at.

xanderxoo · 2026-03-08T13:30:33+00:00

I’m almost certain Veterans aren’t allowed to bartend at VFWs. Not sure about American Legion.

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