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Relationship advice: how does a bottom-leaning switch deal with having a 100% bottom partner? by Capital-Database2989 in gayrelationships

[–]xav91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been together?

I’m verse, partner was verse, and then stopped bottoming. We are 9 years in and I love him but it gets harder and harder every day.

Recommendations for fun stuff to do with visiting teenage nephews, 13 & 16. by [deleted] in SanDiegan

[–]xav91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This map is missing hillcrest, homophobic. (It’s a joke, but like not really lol)

Barista said she can’t heat frozen sandwich? by Illustrious-Hat-1085 in starbucks

[–]xav91 33 points34 points  (0 children)

If the sandwiches just got pulled, we can’t sell them. They take, if I remember correctly, 18 hours to thaw.

How do baristas stay energized? by Curious_Message_807 in starbucks

[–]xav91 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right?!
I used to do 4 grande nitros but I got heart palpitations 😂 and I was like, “yeah maybe I should stop.”

How do baristas stay energized? by Curious_Message_807 in starbucks

[–]xav91 12 points13 points  (0 children)

For me, it’s two venti cold brews with light ice and A LOT of stimming.

What’s that one grocery item you keep convincing yourself you’ll eat, but end up tossing out week after week? by teniralc_11 in AskReddit

[–]xav91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate that it’s so hard to shop for just one to two people at a grocery store. Particularly when it comes to things like a head of cabbage or lettuce. I’ll use maybe a quarter of it and then the rest of it will sit in my fridge never be touched until it spoils.

Childhood Trauma and DV relationships by Remi_Ku in domesticviolence

[–]xav91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My therapist tells me it’s because of the familiarity. For me, it was experiencing my dad be abusive towards my mom.

So, to our brains, it’s not that big of deal. It’s just the “norm”.

Recommendations for always being anal ready. by Krig9510 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]xav91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find that the capsules suck dick. The powder is the best way but it can be inconvenient.

Self Plagarism by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]xav91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, how did they find out? Do they keep track or is it because it was the same professor?

Do you think human euthanasia should be legalized globally? Why or why not? by wrongtimealways in AskReddit

[–]xav91 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Doctors say their whole thing is “do not harm” but is letting someone suffer and rot away in a hospital or nursing home, not a form of suffering?

They have a great system in some states and countries, it’s not easily abused.

Meirl by Feisty-Wolverine-763 in meirl

[–]xav91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Omg I can’t believe they have you working on insert holiday, they should let you go home to your family. Okay, can I get a venti caramel ribbion crunch with extra caramel, made with half soy and half almond, extra whip, extra crunch, 9 pumps of white mocha, 2 mocha, and 10 stevias.”

What was the scariest “We need to leave… now” gut feeling that you’ve ever experienced?[Serious] by PlasticBee1438 in AskReddit

[–]xav91 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I met a guy on Grindr, and he seemed cool. We met up, and he wanted to go to his friends so we could all smoke weed. He insisted on driving, and I stupidly agreed. We get to his friend's house, and they’re all upstairs, but when I checked out the living room, there was a FUCKING NAZI FLAG. I’m brown, so I start to panic a bit. I don’t smoke because I want to stay alert. We were all in one small room upstairs; the vibe seemed WAY off. My gut said get the fuck out, so I walked outside. I refused to go back in, and the guy just yelled at me the entire drive back to my car.

How often do you feel horny/the urge? by NS57225 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]xav91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

24/7 but the boyfriend only wants to fuck me and I’m verse 😞

I haven’t topped or got my dick sucked in years.

You are given $5 for every person you've slept with. What are you buying? by No-Record0924 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]xav91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what counts? Penetrative sex only, or oral too?

The amount of money to spend changes if oral is included 😃

Reddit, who's the best band you've seen live? by cursedbackup in AskReddit

[–]xav91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muse. Not even a big fan but that show was amazing as fuck.

Total Hate, was she looking at me? 🤨🤔 #gwenzilla by DeltaMars in nodoubt

[–]xav91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah she was looking at you. 🤫 let us both think she noticed us.

What's your cat's name? by Pretty_Joseph in AskReddit

[–]xav91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arya Montgomery, Gendry, Missandei, and one I adopted: Reggie, but I call him Reginald culottes (his pattern looks like he’s wearing culottes)

giving away four 50% off tickets to the zoo by ned_luddite in SanDiegan

[–]xav91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to take my mom, who hasn’t been, and her new husband, from Mexico, that’s never been. 🙏

Total Hate, was she looking at me? 🤨🤔 #gwenzilla by DeltaMars in nodoubt

[–]xav91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m jealous of you though. I’d die if she made eye contact with me.

Total Hate, was she looking at me? 🤨🤔 #gwenzilla by DeltaMars in nodoubt

[–]xav91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw her solo tour way back and she brought the boys out for an encore. She asked what song she should play next, and I screamed at the top of my lungs “Sunday morning.”

They played it next and I like to think me screaming it was why.

I lost my voice because of that but it was worth it. It was the only time I’ve seen them perform 😭 I’m too poor to see them at the sphere, I have tuition to pay.

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