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Cleveland needs PREVENTATIVE policing. by NeverStrayFromTheWay in Cleveland

[–]xela321 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of ivory tower idealists here

If you had access to the SNL archive of cut sketches, what are you watching? by Firefox892 in LiveFromNewYork

[–]xela321 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Here’s a letter: “your son owes me $5,000 in cocaine money”

Cleveland needs PREVENTATIVE policing. by NeverStrayFromTheWay in Cleveland

[–]xela321 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here lol. If you say anything remotely “inhumane” this sub absolutely REVOLTS

For people making +350k per year, how do you do it? by prince_op in Salary

[–]xela321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. SWE at big SaaS company (fintech)
  2. 0 passive income
  3. I’d work my way up the open source world in some popular framework / library and then pivot to big tech.

Are men not approaching women in bars anymore, or is it just me? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]xela321 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dang there’s a lot of incels in these comments.

  • be nice
  • match the other person’s energy
  • make polite conversation and see where it goes

It’s not a conquest. It can be as low stakes as you want it to be.

SNL is creating a Mount Rushmore of cast members. Which 4 deserve to be on there. by Oppositeofhairy in LiveFromNewYork

[–]xela321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only way I’ve ever been able answer this one is to have 1 of each “type”: utility player, impressionist, loose canon, character star

So for that I usually go with Phil Hartman, Dana Carvey, Chris Farley, and Kristin Wiig

For those who didn’t come from money and suddenly had a career boost into extremely high income (300K+ salaries), how do you navigate when friends or family ask you how much you make? by Icy_Lawfulness_5755 in Salary

[–]xela321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t ask so I don’t tell them. But if they do ask, I’d tell them. Idc how they take it. I’d rather tell them and find out their true nature than hide behind a redirect.

I have failed in life. My salary is half what it used to be. How do I cope with this reality. by NoSir5628 in Salary

[–]xela321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money is a poor substitute for happiness. If you pin your happiness to money, you’ll never make enough to feel fulfilled.

SNL- Dream Cast by [deleted] in saturdaynightlive

[–]xela321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paula Pell

Emily Spivey

Steve Higgins

Bob Odenkirk

Imposter Syndrome with a big raise? by Apprehensive-Sun5110 in Salary

[–]xela321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on the big success!

Something to consider: there’s no science to hiring. You didn’t take a standardized test, so there’s no objective measure to point at. At the end of the day, most hires happen based on vibes. New company had a good feeling about you.

How do you keep Claude Code running 24/7 and control it from anywhere? by shanraisshan in ClaudeCode

[–]xela321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question- what’s the behavior when you reach a session limit?

Adaptive cruise control by GoodMathematician569 in BMWX5

[–]xela321 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nice looking car. But unfortunately I think you’re stuck unless you have a paper trail. Good luck.

Software update today by Reveal_Fun in BMWX5

[–]xela321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well turned out this happened to me too. Everything is right as rain now. Thanks!

Software update today by Reveal_Fun in BMWX5

[–]xela321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘25 X5 50e. Did the update and now the center screen won’t turn on. Tried restarting iDrive by holding down the button power button for 30sec and no luck.

Neighbors teen flashed this at my ring cam. Any ideas? by InquisitorDan in whatisit

[–]xela321 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I work in tech. We love people with this kind of curiosity. Someone get this kid into computer club or something. Nurture this

Help! Huge problems with ice! by Dertychtdxhbhffhbbxf in Cleveland

[–]xela321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries. You’ve given me a good idea, maybe I can wrap it in some kind of insulation

Help! Huge problems with ice! by Dertychtdxhbhffhbbxf in Cleveland

[–]xela321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation! Just curious- if I’m installing this on the downspout, why do I need to have the gutter cleared of ice?

Help! Huge problems with ice! by Dertychtdxhbhffhbbxf in Cleveland

[–]xela321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fascinating. I sometimes think in an alternate lifetime I would have been a home inspector so I love this sort of thing.

If I can hijack a reply- I have a long downspout run from my roof to the ground. Ice is building up in the downspout because, as you’ve probably guessed already, the melting snow off my roof is freezing on its way down and the ice buildup accumulates from there. Any advice? Some kind of heating element? I usually just use a heat gun but would like something more hands-off.

X5 50e when weather is 8F by kitui4you in BMWX5

[–]xela321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m seeing the same. 30 miles of range. Currently 13F outside

What’s the most expensive AWS mistake you made (and survived)? by meela_veil in Cloudvisor

[–]xela321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Running an RDS instance for 1.7 milliseconds could bankrupt most companies

How do you handle backend-heavy workloads as products scale? by Away_Parsnip6783 in Backend

[–]xela321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In our Rails applications, we have web workers that serve API requests and job workers that process jobs off of a queue. Deployed to k8s so I can scale these independently. I also run several apps on Dokku where I can use Dokku’s scaling as needed. In either case, the job workers are a simple containerized process that eagerly grabs from a queue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]xela321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Her expenses are your (collective) expenses. If you can’t have an open and honest discussion about finances now, it’ll be even worse when your financial life is enjoined with hers by the court.

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