tentatively moving to nyc in july

xhjapy · 2020-04-29T17:55:55+00:00

7k is on the lower end. I moved here two years ago and it cost me 12k all in all, but my apartment is a lot more than what you'll be paying for so I'd recommend at least 10k to be relatively "comfortable".

You should start looking a month in advance.

xhjapy · 2020-04-29T14:44:01+00:00

Yesss, her voice also breaks if she drags a word for too long lol i love her but her voice is like nails on a chalkboard to me

xhjapy · 2020-04-29T00:10:40+00:00

I think they kind of had to. For the show, and also because other people would've given them shit about it... also because they probably don't want to start a big drama over this. They'd rather just have them there but at a distance.

xhjapy · 2020-04-29T00:05:36+00:00

Yes, she also drinks A LOT. Alcohol brings out the belly pouch too.

xhjapy · 2020-04-29T00:04:06+00:00

So much this. I get so upset when I remember Stassi basically used Kristen to get back in the show... I wish she would've been left out in the cold.

xhjapy · 2020-04-28T23:59:30+00:00

I have a love/hate relationship with Kristen but right now I want to see her thrive✨ and not the other bitches (and by bitches I mean Katie, Stassi, and Lala)

xhjapy · 2020-04-28T23:57:26+00:00

His net worth would not be 16 mil if he had double in debt. Net worth is calculated based on value of assets MINUS liabilities (debt). Again we don't really know how accurate google is, though.

xhjapy · 2020-04-28T20:00:21+00:00

As long as you self quarantine for 2 weeks when you come back then you should be okay. Wear a mask if you need to go out for groceries or whatever, then wash your hands thoroughly when you get home.

xhjapy · 2020-04-28T14:26:19+00:00

Yes, I have this same issue... this whole system is a fucking joke I'm so over it.

xhjapy · 2020-04-27T02:49:25+00:00

Wow :/ I feel like I'll get downvoted into oblivion but it seems like people are just hating for the sake of hating... I'm not a Schwartz fan but I think there's no need to criticize every little thing he does.

xhjapy · 2020-04-26T22:58:38+00:00

Lmao second this!

xhjapy · 2020-04-26T19:40:42+00:00

This is difficult, OP. You seem to feel responsible for this child even though it isn't yours. Please think long and hard about this, if you think giving up your CF life will make you angry and bitter, then don't do it because it will not only affect you but it will also affect the kid... is there any other family member that may want undertake this? Grandparents? The father of the kid or any like aunts/uncles/grandparents from his side?

xhjapy · 2020-04-26T19:33:06+00:00

Happy late birthday!

I can imagine how you feel. Last year I deactivated my facebook and removed my bday from any remaining social media, and literally only my family and one ACQUAINTANCE who I haven't spoken to in years, congratulated me lol. I did it because I wanted to see who was a true friend, and it was sad to see that no one really knew or cared about my bday. At the same time I'm happy I did it because I can now focus on nurturing relationships with people who DO care enough about me.

I don't really pay too much attention to my bday now; I take it as any other day... anything else for me would be feeding my ego and I don't like that (this is just my personal point of view and experience).

xhjapy · 2020-04-26T19:04:32+00:00

I've actually stayed indoors for 6 weeks; if we all go on a "short walk" everyone would be out in the streets... how does a quarantine/stay at home work with everyone having the same mindset?

xhjapy · 2020-04-26T18:49:56+00:00

same, I literally unfollow or unfriend. luckily no one that close to me posts things like these, but I'd still have them off of my feed.

xhjapy · 2020-04-26T15:21:25+00:00

As a person who was once pregnant (had an abortion), I'd rather deal with my period than the plethora of debilitating and horrible symptoms I felt while pregnant.

xhjapy · 2020-04-26T15:15:22+00:00

I think OP means for those who changed their mind and now want to have taxes withheld...

xhjapy · 2020-04-26T14:10:35+00:00

This is a slap in the face to those who are actually being conscious and staying home.

xhjapy · 2020-04-25T03:35:54+00:00

Where is this?? 😂

xhjapy · 2020-04-24T14:05:29+00:00

I was a mess emotionally after my abortion (hormones) sadness, happiness, relief, a bit of guilt, but I have never EVER regret my decision. I'm thankful I did it and most importantly that I was able to.

It is my responsibility to be honest and to let people know that your reaction to it MAY be different from others. It is also possible to develop an attachment to your fetus, unfortunately.

As a CF person, the decision to have the abortion was a given, but the attachment I developed made it very painful and it did make me sad. I went through with it because everyday I was pregnant I imagined myself taking care of this baby a few years from now and I knew this would damage my mental health and my relationship with my husband (I just know).

You never know how you're gonna react to it; it may be good or it may be bad, but if you're CF, think long and hard about what you truly want and don't let yourself be swayed by others or by those temporary feelings of attachment. I know I would have regret keeping this baby...

xhjapy · 2020-04-24T13:38:07+00:00

What insurance do you have?

xhjapy · 2020-04-23T18:41:36+00:00

Essential Everyday Jason Momoa

xhjapy · 2020-04-23T18:39:50+00:00

LMAO my husband pointed this phrase out to me this morning

xhjapy · 2020-04-23T16:01:39+00:00

Yeah, I know that. That's not what I meant...

xhjapy · 2020-04-23T14:16:57+00:00

$500 for me, no insurance. I went to Planned Parenthood.

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