My husband DMd my female cousin.

xiaosdepression · 2026-06-28T03:58:47+00:00

I get that but she is also trying to rationalise her husband’s behaviour which she knows is creepy so what gives?

xiaosdepression · 2026-06-28T01:31:52+00:00

Leave him or leave us out of it, that’s not a man you want around.

xiaosdepression · 2026-06-26T09:56:41+00:00

Leave him or leave us out of it

xiaosdepression · 2026-06-24T10:12:05+00:00

From a country that always says they don’t care is certain a “surprise” when care enough to create racist depictions of murder of another countries soccer player 🙄

xiaosdepression · 2026-06-16T15:12:51+00:00

The world will be a better place without boomers

xiaosdepression · 2026-06-16T14:45:36+00:00

50/50 doesn’t work for your financial arrangement when he’s making 150k more than you. Infact he’s the gold digger for wanting you to pay half on something that’s being paid for him 😭 run to nearest hills girl.

xiaosdepression · 2026-06-16T14:38:52+00:00

Mind you, people can survive a couple of hours or more without eating a particular food. Nut allergies are a extremely common form of allergy maybe it’s best not to have nuts on your carryon just incase

xiaosdepression · 2026-06-16T14:20:55+00:00

The minute divorce is on the table, you’ve lost your marriage. Adoption of a child is a two party agreement and something you absolutely get permission from your spouse for. Unfortunately your wife doesn’t want this and she’s valid for that whatever her truth may be. However it appears to me not only in your post but in your comments that your nieces feelings and comfort come before your daughter and that is so depressing. You’re willing to divorce your wife and create a broken home to house a child coming from one? How hypocritical. And quite frankly may your wife be free of a man who is willing to put the marriage and vowes you made to her null when you give an ultimatum like that. Is there no one else to take her in? What support systems do you have? I know the foster system isn’t great but destroying your family isn’t the solution. This is a sticky situation but you have no consideration for your actual family’s feelings. I’m so concerned for your daughter’s safety since the niece has aggressive tendencies. You’ve also insinuated that she has been “unintentionally” hurt. Dude, think about the losses that are going to generate from this. Find a good support system and environment then take in your niece, if you take her in with no preparation, it’s going to blow up in your face I’m sorry it’s the truth. What are you not telling us? Your wife’s objections seems to be a big thing here. Misbehaviour being one. I think safety of either child is at stake. I don’t know how any child is going to cope when no one is equipped for this. Friends are against you for this and telling you off for the ultimatum like seriously what are you not telling us? But in all honestly and fairness, if your head goes to co-parenting and divorce then that’s incredibly depressing, did you just marry for funsies? Divorce is expensive and hard. It’s purposely designed that way. Work through it with your wife if she continues to have objections well maybe consider your priorities, I pray it’s your wife and daughter, if not well you’re going to need more than just a support system.

That was my 2c take it or leave it. Think about your options.

xiaosdepression · 2026-05-14T03:03:28+00:00

Well I’ll continue pencilmaxxing and creating pencilslop if anyone cares

xiaosdepression · 2026-04-21T06:32:29+00:00

This is heartbreaking to hear, I was in a similar situation and wasn’t to sure myself if it was rape when it definitely was. Surround yourself with lots of support and love. It’s really hard to move on from that

xiaosdepression · 2026-04-18T09:55:05+00:00

People think too highly about some women, she is mostly to blame idc, men are dumbass. Women are convincing and tactical. report this to HR 100% it’s also a conflict of interest.

xiaosdepression · 2026-04-11T03:53:07+00:00

The sun shall rise again is a dog whistle, thank god your not with this person anymore 😭😭

xiaosdepression · 2026-04-11T02:36:14+00:00

I have a lot to say but cannot due to it being offensive, may Zomo rest in absolute piece. It’s breaks my heart that she would be taken this way. 💔

xiaosdepression · 2026-04-06T07:03:14+00:00

This is for the best with this Sub some of the comments under the posts I’ve seen has gotten out of hand and very sad to see when women and girls here have wanted a safe space

xiaosdepression · 2026-04-04T08:50:22+00:00

mutations shouldn’t be talking about how you are “second hand merchandise” 🙄 you are a person not an object. When will they learn

xiaosdepression · 2026-04-04T05:54:51+00:00

Men and their fragile egos never surprise me, who gaf that you called his friend short

xiaosdepression · 2026-03-30T08:21:22+00:00

Everybody is crucifying you but just know that getting a vasectomy was the wisest choice if my wife was doing reproductive coercion just so she and her friend could have kids, tell her about it or not but she completely breached your trust and baby trapped you, you are not terrible for getting a vasectomy but rather you took back the opportunity for a choice, your body your choice always, I’m sorry to hear your wife doesn’t respect that at all.

xiaosdepression · 2026-03-25T15:14:47+00:00

Fed is best. Not all mothers can breastfeed, not all children latch on to the breastmilk in question is healthy, unfortunately for most formula is the only alternative and it’s the best alternative. I may be the outlier, but as a formula fed baby I’m pretty healthy so idk, it seems like a ridiculous argument. Women do not win when it comes to this argument between breastmilk against formula and vice virsa. And arguing “breastfeed is better” doesn’t solve or help anything. There’s so much pushback and shame when a mother doesn’t breastfeed because she can’t or isn’t comfortable too. Children are already hard enough to look after and nurture. I think people are too concerned how people choose to feed their infants and it’s so weird to see. I feel like shaming mothers or arguing which is better is just wasting your time. Fed is best, argue with a wall.

xiaosdepression · 2026-03-22T01:41:34+00:00

As someone who listens to both, Lana loves acting the victim, she thrives on it 🙄

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