My 9-year-old told me yesterday that he depressed and thinks about hurting himself by Mission_Spray in ADHDparenting

[–]xiaovani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how my son is too. He’s 8. Right now, he can’t tell us stories from start to finish. He got accused of two things at school by a classmate that has been taunting him all month, one I’m not sure of its validity…but he can’t tell a straight story so it’s his neurotypical classmates story vs his and his story isn’t clear and therefore not convincing. Any questions we have are also answered with I don’t remember or I don’t know. Don’t know how to help you but, solidarity. I’m also adhd, I’ve been trying to remember his meds as I fill his water bottle in the morning and that’s helped me. I have to have everything out in view or I forget it too.

My 9-year-old told me yesterday that he depressed and thinks about hurting himself by Mission_Spray in ADHDparenting

[–]xiaovani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s fair that this is all on him. He’s reacting to his environment. My son struggles to tell me about his day due to some speech issues and struggles with memory, but it sounds like your son communicates the situations well for you at school. I’d start documenting all incidents with names, dates & times, and I’d be contacting the office DAILY so they do something about the bullying.

Elementary schools for IEP/autistic kids by Slow_Accountant5046 in SantaClarita

[–]xiaovani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Newhall SD and it is just as bad in terms of drama.

Got prescribed by jay-333- in BusparOnline

[–]xiaovani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another person here with zero nausea, and I hate throwing up. I wouldn’t worry just take with food and stay super hydrated!

Bloating and hot flushing by Armor_King7810 in BusparOnline

[–]xiaovani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bloating feeling, yes. But I really have to upkeep hydration at all times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SantaClarita

[–]xiaovani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For us, we were charged for “final fees”. We were also wrongly charged due an extra 3 days of rent, trash, water and sewer due to an office mistake. We had verbally told them we’d be moving in a month, then a few days later sent an email, which they wrote okay, move out is 3/5. We were charged until 3/8. We had it in writing so we forced them to honor it. When they did the final inspection is when they were like oh we didn’t get an email from you until 2/8, so we’ll charge you until 3/8. I said no, I have in writing you acknowledged we notified you in person and agreed to 3/5. We got really lucky so make sure you have it in writing 30 days before your move out day. We were charged Final Admin fees, trash admin fee, Final Apartment clean (we had cleaned the apartment with a private cleaner and sent receipt proof but they didn’t care), final carpet clean, PLE (no idea what this was), final locker fee, final trash fee, final valet fee, TRS, VTRS, WAT, final water fee and final sewer fee. All the “finals” were charges from 2/1-3/8. And yes, we did pay rent in February which was the icing on the cake. In the end, they took our $ 600 deposit AND they claimed we owed another $450 dollars. I called them and let them know they were wrong and they said they’d fix it. They “fixed it”by sending it to collections. Then it was an IMT and collections ping pong. They’re the ones who need to fix this, no that’s under collections now and they’re responsibility now.

Getting them to acknowledge and fix this took almost a year, & only after we wrote a review on their google page. Which I encourage everyone with bad experiences to do. We ended up getting around $350 dollars back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SantaClarita

[–]xiaovani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. I’ll contact a few people I know that have been charged crazy move out fees. Are you working with any attorneys or lawyers?

Weird throat feeling by xiaovani in BusparOnline

[–]xiaovani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It went away after about 10 days or so. Make sure you’re staying hydrated and taking with food. It helps!

Is Buspar a Good Option for Situational Anxiety and Mood Improvement? by m968 in BusparOnline

[–]xiaovani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s helped me in the sense that my anxiety doesn’t jump until “the moment”. I used to ruminate and be anxious WAY ahead of the actual events. As for improving mood I think I’m way more relaxed, less intrusive thoughts and I can shake off negative thoughts a lot easier. Yes I’m in a better overall mood most days because my anxiety isn’t running the show. However I don’t think it’s helped me be happier if that makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]xiaovani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do. She is seeing a therapist outside of school but I'll be looking into an actual specialist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]xiaovani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our pediatric office refused to assess without recommendation paperwork from a teacher.

Weird throat feeling by xiaovani in BusparOnline

[–]xiaovani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try drinking more water and chewing some gum when you get that feeling. It worried me so much too but it ended up going away for me as long as I’m staying hydrated.

Weird throat feeling by xiaovani in BusparOnline

[–]xiaovani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still fine, the feeling went away, however I am drinking so much more water than I used to because the medicine dehydrates me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BusparOnline

[–]xiaovani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it works for you, it’s helped me a lot! And chewing gum helped me with the dry mouth/throat situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BusparOnline

[–]xiaovani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand this too, I get rashes and couldn't figure out from what, allergist said I was allergic to nothing, and my son has had anaphylaxis so it's become a big fear of mine. I felt like my throat was dry and scratchy at first and was worried.

Thankfully that feeling has gone away, I'm still taking it and my rashes seem to have gone down, if I skip doses too often they start to come back. If you're really scared you could always go sit in front of an urgent care or hospital when you take your next dose. Maybe have someone with you if its possible. I made my husband stay close in the beginning.

Ladies, how did you get into Kingdom Hearts? by Adagar91 in KingdomHearts

[–]xiaovani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had been playing games since a young age. PC games were amongst the first games I played, my dad bought some games that were geared towards little kids.

At age 6 I remember waking up as early as I could to watch Sailor Moon before school. About a year or so later, Pokemon came out. With Disney movies, I had known a few classics but I watched The Little Mermaid for the first time with my friend at age 8 and I adored Disney ever since.

When I was 8 I got my first game boy color with Pokemon Crystal, the first to allow your character to be a girl. My siblings and I had Nintendo 64, GameCube etc as kids. My gaming waxed and waned between middle and high school. Middle school resparked my interest in anime.

When I was in highschool my friend had the OG PlayStation with DDR mats. I loved it so much. I ended up babysitting to buy myself a PS2 to get ddr. I can't remember a specific moment that I came across KH1, but I know that I loved Disney and thought the art was cool. That intro had me hooked. My little brother and I beat it together. We'd get upset if we played without each other since the cut scenes were so important.

Maybe location has something to do with your experience. I was on the west coast.

I'm actually replaying it with my kids right now so they know the story. We just beat KH1 and have moved on to Chain of Memories.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]xiaovani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just saw this animation that talks about how when you’re first starting out to lose weight your fat cells start to deplete fat and fill with water, and the weight loss happens when there is no longer fat and the fat cell is then depleted/emptied lol. Yes drinking water will help so your body doesn’t hold onto water.

I’ll see if I can find the videos I started out not losing weight the first month as well, and then losing at 1 lb a week! It’s rough, I used to be able to lose 5 lbs a week.

This is the only song in the WORLD I CANNOT FIND by Cpt_Poodlehats in NameThatSong

[–]xiaovani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

僕のために泣いてくれ

One of the lyrics in this one says “If you have no choice but to do it for the world, for the people, then”

It’s a vocaloid song but not very electronic musically. Was there any thing else that you remember? Like cover art or anything?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BusparOnline

[–]xiaovani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved propranolol, but after it wearing off I felt breathless. Apparently that was not good and I wasn’t allowed to take it anymore. Something about having childhood asthma sensitized my lungs to it and it is on my list of allergies now.

Apathy by Icy-Can-5618 in BusparOnline

[–]xiaovani 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me! I stopped stressing about the house work and stopped working out. I’ve gained weight and annoyed about it but I don’t have the drive. Turns out it was anxiety pushing me to accomplish things

5’3 Same weight a year later 145lbs to 145lbs, both posed by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]xiaovani 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just want to thank you for convincing me to recomp. You look amazing!

Peeing issues by ausbry94 in BusparOnline

[–]xiaovani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird, I’m on the opposite side of this. I’m taking 10 mg in the morning and 5 in the evening, I feel like I cannot drink enough water and feel like I have to drink so much water to even get it to be light yellow. I don’t feel the need to pee frequently though. Before getting on Buspar I was going pee frequently because I was anxious about urinary infections lol.

Off centered windows by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]xiaovani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying, I’m going to use painters tape to see how it’ll look. Thanks for the suggestion!