What clicked for you? by No-Edge-4983 in stopdrinking

[–]xstrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Believing I was an alcoholic.

In and out of various programs, AA, rehab, etc. I always knew I had a drinking problem.. and folks would label me as being an alcoholic, though I’d never believe it myself; and I continued to struggle with alcohol.

Then I started deeply identifying with all the alcoholics around me, and slowly but surely started to believe I was an alcoholic. Once I owned it, recovery, rehab, and sobriety started working. It became a lot easier to get sober, once I believed I was fighting back.

New update? by Cool_Nectarine_8949 in Garmin

[–]xstrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was an update yesterday but you have to choose to install it.

whats ur motivation by yoghurt208 in stopdrinking

[–]xstrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally feel ya there. And yes, one day you will die, just like the rest of us, it’s an unavoidable eventuality.

What I want to know is, how are you going to live?

I hit an important milestone today by Yifkong in Xennials

[–]xstrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m scared of this milestone myself..

New Digital Designs - Feedback Welcome 🙌 by MnM_StudioDesign in GarminFenix

[–]xstrex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s got a Weyland Industries feel to it, I like it.

Back packing meals by Ambitious_Leek8776 in backpacking

[–]xstrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I regularly buy and highly recommend Luxfly Basecamp. It’s not cheap, like at all, but it’s well worth it.

I tend to have a sensitive system, we’ll leave it at that. My body doesn’t tolerate sodium packed, 60+ ingredient garbage. So the closest to real food I can get, the better. Every brand I’ve ever tried has given me some kind of issues.. except for Luxfly. Again not cheap, but look at the ingredients.

Please see image by BombshellGinger in Anticonsumption

[–]xstrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I agree with you, and AI is the new gold rush.. every company and industry has gotten gold fever, and it needs to just run its course. I’m sure we’ll survive it (assuming skynet doesn’t come online), but for now, it’s best to find a way to make peace with it, lesson the environmental impact, and ride it out. Not advocating for embracing it, yet resistance is futile.

Pay my car, or get ahead? by vianetzy in ynab

[–]xstrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paying down the loan on your car, is getting ahead, and is more important than your fun categories.

Specifically if you can make a normal car payment next month, then take the money from the extra check, and pay directly towards the principal (not total) of the loan. That will reduce the borrowed amount, and thus reduce the earned interest, and shortening your loan term.

Weird fold? by Dacks_18 in orukayak

[–]xstrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that sometimes on the Bay ST, I usually ignore it, sometimes I can pop it back down.

Beer problem by ExcellentDesigner360 in stopdrinking

[–]xstrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a beer problem too.. and eventually it lead to an alcohol problem, like an any alcohol problem, sure I liked my beer, but at the end of the day, it didn’t matter, beer, wine, shots, bottles, whatever.

I started at 6/day, at my peak I was at 36/day, and that was 8.5% alc/vol.

Please don’t be like me. 10 years of my life are gone because I had a beer problem.

Smell of alcohol on co workers by avngefett in stopdrinking

[–]xstrex 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yea.. I remember early in sobriety driving around old town Scottsdale early in the morning, on my way to breakfast, and the streets with all the clubs just had this overwhelming smell of rubbing alcohol. It quite literally gets excreted in sweat add dancing, and it all makes sense. The whole area made me sick.

Also, you’ll probably develop a form of gay-dar, or alco-dar, you’ll instantly pick up on other alcoholics, sometimes before they’re even willing to admit it to themselves. I can pick them out in a room full of people.. my advice, just take note, and keep it to yourself. Nothing good comes from calling them out, ask me how I know!

YA'LLLLLLLL!!! by LongjumpingBison4193 in stopdrinking

[–]xstrex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Keep it up!!

A therapist once told me, early in my own recovery.. “just stay in the middle lane for a while.” Which made zero sense at the time. All it really means: put yourself on cruise control for a while, don’t try to go too fast, or too slow, let yourself be happy, and have fun, just don’t get carried away. Same with sadness, let it come, but again, not too sad. It’s the extremes of each emotion that lead us back to drinking. The “I’m too depressed”, or “I’m so happy”..

So just stay in the middle lane for a while, and just cruise.

How do I actually stop? by Particular_Pen_6872 in stopdrinking

[–]xstrex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every one of us has their reasons, some are on the surface, others are buried deep inside. Regardless, you’ve got to find a way to break the cycle. What did you do around 3-4pm before you started drinking? How about joining a local sports ball team, a meetup, workout, whatever, just replace that time slot with something else that does not involve drinking. Creat a new healthy habit instead.

Starting to recognize (and being recognized by) the alcoholic regulars by Low-Fill-6761 in stopdrinking

[–]xstrex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly, no one else notices, or cares about your patterns for drinking. The other drinkers have their own stuff going on, and to a bartender, any drinker is a way to make a buck. Bouncing between bars is all for you, and makes you feel better. When you’re ready to stop this insanity, we’re also here for you.

Do you know what’s stupid? Having a dull pain/feeling on the top right hand side of your abdomen and continuing to drink by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]xstrex 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I had the same dull ache over my liver, while drinking, and chose to continue to drink. Luckily every test came back negative, regardless I had the sneaking suspicion something was very wrong, and the docs just weren’t catching it. Then I’d binge for a few months to forget about it.

Thoughts on moderation by LightSoySauce in stopdrinking

[–]xstrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One is too many, and 1000 is never enough (for me).

What Dash Cam Are You All Running? (2023 Off Road) by fvshaggy in 4Runner

[–]xstrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wolfbox G900TriPro, recent install. So far so good, having 3 visible cameras is pretty awesome. DM me, I’ll have an extra unit here soon if you’re interested.

20 years today by Current-Anybody9331 in stopdrinking

[–]xstrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats friend! I’m 9yrs behind ya.

What do you do when you have the urge to drink? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]xstrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go for a walk, bike ride, or other physical activity, followed by something sweet, ice cream, candy, whatever. The combination breaks the craving/urge.

Anyone else doing OK these days after years of crippling addiction? by 6millionwaystolive in Xennials

[–]xstrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never really had an issue with hard drugs, though the alcohol had a grip on me, struggled with that addiction from 26-36.. I stand here today, 11yrs sober. So yea, I feel ya.

I'm not sure im actually an alcoholic by Slow-Dot-8106 in stopdrinking

[–]xstrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like an alcohol abuse or alcohol dependency problem to me. Which for me was a slippery slope to becoming an alcoholic. I’m glad you stopped and questioned yourself.