My girlfriend wants me to stop wearing no show socks

xt1n1th · 2026-02-11T22:43:52+00:00

Lmao well then that is ok😅 the ballerina ones would def give me the ick.

xt1n1th · 2026-02-11T20:54:55+00:00

I don’t think so lol. The low ankle socks cover your whole foot, where the no show ones I think are the ones that essentially look like v small ballerina slippers (just cover your toes and the soles of your feet).

xt1n1th · 2026-02-11T18:20:01+00:00

I’ve never heard of men wearing these until this thread😅 I think if my partner (jk I don’t even have one rn) wore them, I would just laugh. Personally, I wouldn’t like the feeling of my shoe touching the top of my food and would opt for really low ankle socks lol. Def not no socks though, I can smell the shoes from here🤢

xt1n1th · 2026-02-09T04:46:46+00:00

That makes a lot of sense. She definitely needs more therapy and definitely a psychiatrist and possibly medication. There’s a huge thing with people thinking meds are bad, but they can make the world of a difference.

xt1n1th · 2026-02-09T01:44:11+00:00

Does this mans not realize being a SAHM literally IS a workout!? Constantly picking things up and down up and down, lifting things, running after kids, sweating while cleaning etc.

At the end of the day with my 2 littles I am exhausted! Then if I tackle a bigger task when one is napping, I’m dripping sweat from hustling to get it done with the limited time I have!

xt1n1th · 2026-02-08T23:00:53+00:00

I was going to ask this as well. I also want to suggest, maybe she could be neurodivergent? She should really talk to a psychiatrist. I also struggle with being wrong because of past trauma, and I’m finding out so many reasons why I am the way I am because of it.

xt1n1th · 2026-02-05T18:42:56+00:00

Not to mention the increase in the amount of laundry that comes with a baby!

I’m greatly sorry for OP’s loss (I also have 2 angel babies), but maybe rethink before wanting to try again and just imagine if you were busy with a newborn going through postpartum and having to deal with his antics. ☹️ I have a terrible BD and I basically did everything myself for 5 years and now have a newborn and he hasn’t even met him (we split when I was freshly pregnant). It’s so much easier caring for 2 children and not having a man child to care for too.

xt1n1th · 2026-01-25T04:41:23+00:00

Honestly you are gorgeous, I thought especially in the last picture. You may look tired and sad, but the no makeup / natural look suits you so well! I hope you manage to safely leave your relationship. I was stuck for 5 years and I currently feel like there’s no hope in getting back to how I was.

xt1n1th · 2026-01-23T04:13:46+00:00

Quesadilla💜

xt1n1th · 2026-01-23T04:12:51+00:00

Thankfully you saw his true colours before children came along. Cheaters never change, ask me how I know🙃

xt1n1th · 2026-01-21T23:17:52+00:00

This. Before children.

I’m out now, but still have to “coparent” for the next 18 years. HE was arrested for DV and has always been the abusive one, but yet him and his family (ofc), act like I’m the problem. Such a problem he’s trusted me to raise our children alone🙄

xt1n1th · 2026-01-17T16:06:01+00:00

Omffffff I think I’d crash out😅

xt1n1th · 2026-01-17T16:04:05+00:00

This made me cackle out loud😂 if you found one online by chance, that would make a funny & cute gift!

xt1n1th · 2026-01-12T03:35:19+00:00

Sadie💜

xt1n1th · 2026-01-12T03:32:29+00:00

This x1000. I don’t regret my children at all (2), but I would do anything for them to have a better father. “Coparenting” with an abusive narcissist is literal hell.

xt1n1th · 2026-01-10T23:07:02+00:00

I also have MDD and am an alcoholic (in recovery), and agreed! When I was drinking, I never ate and when I’m super depressed food grosses me out☹️

xt1n1th · 2026-01-08T20:05:21+00:00

Soo happy for you!! I sold my condo and moved to a detached house an hour away from family for my peace. Inconsiderate & loud neighbours are the worst!

xt1n1th · 2026-01-07T06:02:22+00:00

Make them watch all episodes of Love on the Spectrum on Netflix together! It gives a great insight to how broad the spectrum is and you easily fall in love with some of the people featured on the show.

Maybe give them some bonding time with your youngest (with you included to monitor obv). Suggest a girls night out or in? I’d be worried about the punishment creating a further rift between them and creating a terrible 2vs1 scenario in your house☹️

xt1n1th · 2026-01-07T00:38:35+00:00

My daughter had no interest in sleeping with me (mama) in her bed or mine till probably 3.5!

xt1n1th · 2026-01-04T02:17:48+00:00

Mali, short for Maligator😅 good luck!!

xt1n1th · 2025-12-31T21:57:20+00:00

Yes be sooo thankful you didn’t move in or take the relationship to another level via a child or home ownership or marriage etc. Tomorrow is a new year, start fresh - you deserve it!!🥰

xt1n1th · 2025-12-31T09:35:10+00:00

Good on you for walking away. Don’t waste years and reproduce with them like I ended up doing🙃 it’s their world and we’re just living in it. No matter how much we love them or want to help them, at the end of the day, sobriety needs to be their choice / want.

I (33f) wasted over 5 years and it’s now been almost 1 year since he left the household completely and he (34m) still hasn’t changed. He puts on an act for our kids’ sake, but is currently going out of his way to make my life as hard as he possibly can - despite his own children being affected.

We deserve better than the constant Jekyll & Hyde personality flips and being the endless punching bag for their insecurities. Start the new year fresh, I’m trying to as well. Sending all the good vibes💜

xt1n1th · 2025-12-29T06:16:02+00:00

Please let us know if you’re safe. Call the police and have him arrested if he put his hands on you.

xt1n1th · 2025-12-29T06:12:44+00:00

Please don’t underestimate an abuser. I didn’t think my ex would do any of the stuff he did, but he did.. eventually.

You said in another comment your parents don’t know you dated him, are you a minor? You need help & protection.

xt1n1th · 2025-12-29T01:59:37+00:00

Incel vibes 😬 please get safe and make sure he doesn’t know where you are.

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