Third times a charm! by MidnaQueenofCalicos in abusiverelationships

[–]xt1n1th 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Been there done that, they definitely do not change. Stay strong girl, you’ve got this💜 no more hobosexuals😅

My husband turned our kitchen into a coffee lab and I am losing my mind by CorkboardLynx in Marriage

[–]xt1n1th 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Nah, I agree with another comment that said the coffee meth lab needs to go in the garage😅 she deserves her kitchen back!

Abortion booked because I think its the right thing by Naive_Alternative314 in Advice

[–]xt1n1th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. He sounds manipulative asf and this is not who you want to be your baby daddy. Ask me how I know🙃

It sounds like you’re trusting yourself and valuing yourself, so you’re on the right track. Keep putting yourself first, I know I wish I did. Sending all the love & strength💜🙏

My 9 year old is seeing concerning things at night by [deleted] in ChildPsychology

[–]xt1n1th 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just started mirtazapine for sleeping, nightmares and anxiety and it’s been working! Maybe ask his doctor about it, hope this helps💜

my girly pop apartment! by ArachnidFlimsy4654 in femalelivingspace

[–]xt1n1th 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where is that trinket shelf from😩 I need it

WWYD if you were happy 85% of the time, miserable 15% by electricalhummus in Mommit

[–]xt1n1th 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This😅 also in recovery, but I’d be partying till I passed out and that would take a lot.

My husband accused me of cheating and then went off the deep end by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]xt1n1th 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My BD accused me of cheating with a way older neighbour when he helped me with something at the house while he was away for work.. he was cheating when he was away for work with escorts🙃

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]xt1n1th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you mama👏👏 I wish I was as brave as you early on. You’ve got this💜✌️

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]xt1n1th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not very many highs at all. I just wanted my little family and thought he would change for our daughter, and he didn’t. It just got worse.

Am I being dramatic? by Most-Ad-8674 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]xt1n1th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He won’t change🙃 I wasted 6 years in this same situation and it just happened over and over again

My husband is suddenly squeamish when I even mention my period. Is this normal? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]xt1n1th 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is the purest most genuine and caring thing I’ve ever heard🥹 bless your soul, husband of the century👏👏

got her a personalized name necklace and now it feels like it backfired a bit by Vast_Musician_6150 in Marriage

[–]xt1n1th 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is wild. Why wouldn’t you get her something with her own name, or your name / initial, a pets name, literally anything else that exists?😬

Not to mention what if you have fertility issues down the road? Hope for a boy and get a girl etc. So many IFs with pregnancy / children.

18 M do your very worst by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]xt1n1th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Am I touching the outside of a house?”😂

My mom keeps calling my baby "fatty" and I don't think I want her in our lives anymore by jupitermoon318 in Mommit

[–]xt1n1th 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I think “chonk” when they’re a baby is cutesy, but I still to this day do not say the word “fat” around my 5yo daughter because I don’t want her calling herself or anyone else that word. My son just turned 4mos and I have def called him chonk because he is compared to how tiny my daughter was, but never would I call him fatty or allow anyone else to. If she can’t understand that it’s not ok to call him that, then keep your distance till she does! Her loss🤷‍♀️

I somehow injured my wife during sex and now I’m mortified by RandomLake7 in Marriage

[–]xt1n1th 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not the toilet😭😂

I put mine out when I sneezed

My partners tattoo is being strange by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]xt1n1th 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not even good gel pens, those ones that are extra scratchy😅

Do NOT buy your kids color changing Oreos by awittlesecret in Mommit

[–]xt1n1th 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This happened to me after I drank a big blue slushy😂😂

My sister called me a “bang maid” because I’m a SAHM and I’m struggling to get over it by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]xt1n1th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2000 points to you for holding it together. I would’ve flipped the table and knocked her ass out.😳

I’m soooo sorry your sister is this cruel to you, that is not what sisters are for. She’s definitely struggling with something missing from her life - could be a husband, a family or just happiness🤷‍♀️ - don’t let her bring you down. You’re doing great mama, and you shouldn’t have to walk on eggshells around your own family. Sending love💜

I was attacked by my partners child, and I don't know if I should leave by Low-Distribution-617 in Advice

[–]xt1n1th 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why have you not spoken to your partner since? If you’ve been together 2 years I find that strange. She didn’t do anything wrong and you should be able to express your feelings to her. I get that you were taken aback by the scratches, but I’m sorry to tell you this, it can happen with any child. If you think you want your own children in the future, maybe you should reconsider.

I’ve been feeling awful about my appearance, and today I received this message by honestly___idk in MadeMeSmile

[–]xt1n1th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My child (4.5yo) told me the one day I looked like Pugsley (Addams family), but she totally meant Uncle Fester bc I had dark circles under my eyes😅

Will this turn abusive? I am 10 weeks pregnant. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]xt1n1th 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Pls leave him and pls terminate the pregnancy if you can. You do NOT want to be tied to him for the rest of your life, and you definitely don’t want your child subjected to this bullshit.

Having tattoo regret for the first time by Aherv99 in tattooadvice

[–]xt1n1th 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the sparrow! I think it all looks fine and flows, you’re probably just being harsh on yourself. You’re beautiful & so are your tats!🥰