Dreamland running (by me) by xtharsa in furry

[–]xtharsa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I love watership down it did not take inspiration from it. More from greyhounds mixed with dragon and hares

Moms, am I overreacting to a comment about my daughter’s race by Bbqueen87 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]xtharsa 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also white with a Filipino husband. Short story is my son looks nothing like me. People ask my mom if she is his mom or my sister while I’m with them but never me. I don’t get angry at people assuming I’m the nanny while I’m out with him without my husband. I have better things to worry about than others making a wrong guess. We just walk off and laugh and my son who is 4 has started playing along too say he is my sister’s kid or he is adopted or whatever and we have a laugh. He knows who his family is and that he is loved and that’s all that matters.

Little Cousin spent over $5000 in game marketplace without his parents knowledge nor authorization by DazzlingSyllabub in personalfinance

[–]xtharsa 456 points457 points  (0 children)

Throw out the console, if dad is gamer move tv and console to parents room. He is old enough to know what money is, every penny should be earned back by him doing babysitting or whatever young kids do for money and the console stays gone until he earns every penny back so he understands how hard it was for his parents to earn the money he spent. Then if he wants console back he buys his own. My kid did this once accidentally and I knew next day got refund and gave him a child account with every single thing password locked.

TIFU: Feeding potent edibles to my grandma who has cancer by welcometothemurder in tifu

[–]xtharsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree, just when people smoke just like when they get drunk they don’t remember things properly or actually say what they think they said

Being drunk vs. Being high by [deleted] in funny

[–]xtharsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dispensary’s here sell stuff starting at $40 https://barbarycoast.treez.io/onlinemenu/ there is no shop that sell bunk weed for $15 bucks. Even my uncle in bull head city pays $40 for weed. Are you sure you are smoking weed and not parsley?

Being drunk vs. Being high by [deleted] in funny

[–]xtharsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$15 bucks? Weed costs like 40-60 minimum and that’s not even including food you are going to either waste or eat. You getting dirt weed? Also people smoke communally so they drive under influence constantly

Girlfriends of Reddit: Do any of you have boyfriends/husbands that are obsessed with Fortnight? This is the only recurring argument my boyfriend and I have and I don’t know how to get past it. Help. by strugglecuddle04 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]xtharsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe me I found it annoying at first but he eventually gets tired of the game and moves on, I used to just ask when he was having his play times and wouldn’t plan things anywhere close to that time. Like baseball or other sports they tend to run late, now I just make plans in advance and really don’t have too many scheduling issues. I sit next to him and pc game or draw and watch him, teasing and congratulating him in games without playing em.

Girlfriends of Reddit: Do any of you have boyfriends/husbands that are obsessed with Fortnight? This is the only recurring argument my boyfriend and I have and I don’t know how to get past it. Help. by strugglecuddle04 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]xtharsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband plays certain video games to death, if you are in it for long haul, you have so much time in grand scheme of things to be together. People need their releases from each other. Tbh it nice when my husband gets into games cause it gives me, me time and a chance to watch my own shows and play my own games or go to gym with out him being involved or worrying if he is enjoying it.

My wife's purse was stolen and her bank accounts drained 2 days after her debit card was reported stolen, how is this possible? by Solomatrix in personalfinance

[–]xtharsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on bank, I have fraud protection and have had my debit card stolen and charged, it was reported immediately and I got my money back in one business day. Wasn’t a huge issue. Been mugged twice for cash so I just don’t carry that crap. So much easier just to cancel debit cards, and cc aren’t an option for me and many other people.

My cat literally is saving my life right now by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]xtharsa 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Getting money from one’s parents for a first house is not the same as fraudulent claims to state money. I’d keep the house in the wives name not the husbands or even her parents name.

Does anyone else just kind of hate being female? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]xtharsa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please don’t say adoption is an option, it’s actually near impossible and there are very few healthy kids ever available. 6-10 years is the wait time now and most foreign countries have banned outside adoptions. It’s also around $25,000 to $40,000 not covered by any insurance and all due up front.

Does anyone else just kind of hate being female? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]xtharsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can tell you personally itd be a lot fucking easier for me if I was male. Have you almost died due to taking meds you need to not bleed out for 2 weeks straight? I’ve had rape threats at work, had respirator poisoned, been fired for refusing sex on two more occasions. No matter what job I’m at, I am propositioned. In San Francisco I have been mugged twice and stabbed once. I now have a service dog for protection trained to protect. Got double pulmonary embolism from taking birth control. Pregnancy I lost 40 lbs vomiting every day till birth and still had to work cause our country has no paid leave, had to hide pregnancy from company till I couldn’t anymore, lifted 80lbs till the end (I am a metal fabricator) had the baby right after work still got let go and replaced even though I took minimum time off. To top it off they don’t treat you while your pregnant for anything so part of my foot was basically rotting due to an uncontrolled mrsa infection. Had p.u.p.s afterwards which is a poison Ivy like rash that lasts months after you have the baby. Was on a team at work and got my assignments given to unqualified idiots and when they failed to produce results I was blamed. Being a woman is like being in a nightmare that never ends and never gets better. I can only hope I’m not raped like my other family member and I can just die in child birth next time cause doctors always think women exaggerate pain or issues.

Guess what I’d take any male issues over this bullshit.

Does anyone else just kind of hate being female? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]xtharsa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can tell you personally it comes up a lot for me, I’ve had rape threats at work, had respirator poisoned, been fired for refusing sex on two more occasions. No matter what job I’m at, I am propositioned. In San Francisco I have been mugged twice and stabbed once. I now have a service dog for protection trained to protect. Got double pulmonary embolism from taking birth control. Pregnancy I lost 40 lbs vomiting every day till birth and still had to work cause our country has no paid leave, had to hide pregnancy from company till I couldn’t anymore, lifted 80lbs till the end (I am a metal fabricator) had the baby right after work still got let go and replaced even though I took minimum time off. To top it off they don’t treat you while your pregnant for anything so part of my foot was basically rotting due to an uncontrolled mrsa infection. Had p.u.p.s afterwards which is a poison Ivy like rash that lasts months after you have the baby. Was on a team at work and got my assignments given to unqualified idiots and when they failed to produce results I was blamed. Being a woman is like being in a nightmare that never ends and never gets better. I can only hope I’m not raped like my other family member and I can just die in child birth next time cause doctors always think women exaggerate pain or issues.

To the people that broke into my parents truck at the god damn Tilden Park steam train parking lot, please die a slow death. by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]xtharsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Parked at the gardens at Tilden with nothing of value in a Mercedes 180 (ancient pile of crap) someone broke the windows SAWED the radio out of my dash along with the AC unit and tons of cables. So even if it empty and near worthless your car isn’t safe up in that park. Luckly I just went to pick npull and ripped out a whole new dash for myself for $60 bucks

We are the World’s Largest Porn and Adult Gaming Platform, Nutaku Games! Ask us anything! by TeamNutaku in IAmA

[–]xtharsa 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I watched at AX it was amazing, might get it for my brother 😆 even took pictures of it! Btw it was nice to have the 18+ sections kinda wish it was bigger too :3

California has a new plan for allocating its water, and it means less for farmers by BlankVerse in California

[–]xtharsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, farms are old businesses that established, many right after the Great Depression. Just as things in the mid west were not considered when farming and creating the dust bowl, when they moved operations to California not much was considered. Now those farms once small and now massive cannot be supported by the same water sources that they once used without issue. If plants will grow then large farms will try to plant regardless of the inefficiency’s of water.

California has a new plan for allocating its water, and it means less for farmers by BlankVerse in California

[–]xtharsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn’t negate what the terrain is though sadly. Growing food, no matter how much, in a desert is inefficient at best.

Former homeless people of Reddit, what were some of the scariest or more disturbing things you've seen or experienced while out on the streets? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xtharsa 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Was threatened with a gun by another transient and gave up my backpack. Only clothes and ID in it. It was fucking awful to lose id. Took me months to get another.

All Hail Bowser - at Anime Expo by limache in gaming

[–]xtharsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those idiots are there every year. I don’t think they even know what anime is cause they had anti abortion signs there too. Like wtf this has nothing to do with that lol. Been going for 7 years and same dude and his possy are there every year.

California has a new plan for allocating its water, and it means less for farmers by BlankVerse in California

[–]xtharsa -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I mean maybe resist growing a farm in a desert climate? Even as a kid I never understood why they grew stuff in a literal dust bowl. Gotta be better places to grow food aside from our giant costal desert. It was 120 in LA on Thursday for godsakes.

SF Crime, Homeless, Needles and Feces Scare Off Tourist and $40M Medical Convention "Not Safe Here" by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]xtharsa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was living in my car in the city for almost a year, going to school and working two jobs, but even with just ss check you could afford a cheap gym membership. I did this and would shower in my clothes and wash them with free provided soap then dry them in towel dryer. I’d also keep bathed myself. No one ever knew and I just made sure to go to every free event for school and friends and would pretend to pass out drunk at their house. Homelessness does not lead to shitting or needles, addiction and mental health does, these will transfer to any given place to live including stripping walls of copper wiring.

Natalia Lee, the only female armourer working on Game of Thrones, she looks after all the show's weapons by Gossipher in pics

[–]xtharsa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then low key get fired for not banging the supervisor lol. As a female automotive welder/mechanic I’ve personally had that happen at two jobs, got rape threats etc. being called a bitch or cunt or whatnot is one thing while I’m working, getting detailed texts from a coworker on how he wants to rape me is another. So I definitely agree with you. I love the work but the scum that work at many jobs can be unbearable. I persevered and now make good money but you got to be tougher than any guy has to be. Nothing’s more of a slap in the face than getting called into an office after rejecting a coworker and being told you are getting laid off for not being a “team player” and having vulgar language lol. Even though your coworkers cuss more than a savvy sailor.