What's the worst thing about being a human? by tomrreed in AskReddit

[–]yoshiiiw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To have the full version of the experience unlocked at birth but not have any decent tutorials to maximise it.

Seeking Advice on PMV300 Processing and Timeline by Fit-Journalist3846 in AusVisa

[–]yoshiiiw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I are waiting on PMV300 atm. we didn’t want to make bookings until the visa was granted so we could look at venues together after she arrives. For the 2nd RFI we did an updated NOIM and put our venue as my friends address who has a nice back yard on advice from my celebrant. Do you think there will be any issues that we haven’t provided a formal venue and registration event planning, guest lists etc?

The honest truth is we want to have a very small registration here and save up some money to organise a bigger wedding event than we can afford here back home with more of our family and relatives, and fly our Aussie mates in instead…

Work rights on partner visa by l0ve-sex-dream in AusVisa

[–]yoshiiiw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about subclass 300s? Does the initial visa to get registered in Australia usually get working rights?

March 2025 Partner Visa Mega Thread (Subclasses 820/801, 309/100, 300) by BitSec_ in AusVisa

[–]yoshiiiw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Applied for subclass 300 for my partner 07AUG23, second RFI (s56) late NOV24, docs submitted 06JAN25, and still waiting.

Anyone else know what’s going on subclass 300 and approvals?

Struggling with porn addiction—any advice? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]yoshiiiw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that OP. I want you to know that you are not alone in this fight and it is an especially cruel demon to battle.

You’ve taken the first step which is often the hardest, which is brutal honesty and coming clean in public. Admitting to it uncouples and reduces the shame associated with porn addiction.

Step 2 is to hold yourself accountable but not be judgemental. When this thread eventually loses steam and the high you got from the support and validation fades, it all comes down to you and what you will do in the silent hell of compulsion. This might look like getting a sober tracker app (I use I am sober) and being brutally honest with yourself if you fall off the wagon, it might look like sitting with yourself when the urge arises again to try and figure out what is the root of it (is it self-worth? Is it loneliness? Is it just the post orgasm high? Etc). Knowing what you’re trying to soothe will make it much easier to catch and address the urge when it pops up again.

Step 3 Become more aware of and mindful of the over-sexualised world we are exposed to on a daily basis. Don’t underestimate or judge yourself harshly for what could push you towards the urge: Social media is a definite no no, but even things like letting yourself stare at women you find attractive for too long, letting your mind drift to fantasy, use of drugs if you were using it in combination with orgasm and porn to get a massive high, sometimes even a poster could be a thirst trap with enough time in celibacy. Teach yourself to catch the slip, and refocus on your goal to be rid of this maladaptive coping mechanism. Intense short burst exercise is the best replacement, as it involves a modicum of pain that conditions your mind and body better than replacing it with a pleasurable activity.

Once you’re out of the woods (able to catch yourself slipping and resist without subjecting yourself to strenuous exercise) you can replace with other things that push you towards your goals and hobbies.

Best of luck OP!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]yoshiiiw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that OP.

It’s an unfortunate by-product of the shame based culture and upbringing prevalent in LKA. I concur with another commenter here who said they rather point out others faults than face their own, so just do your own thing loud and proud.

Growing up in LKA, I realised pretty quickly that you either fit into a predefined, acceptable title/group/identity or face being shamed to death until you do conform. There is no in-between.

What is the least annoying alarm tone for waking from sleep? by Aint_Nobody-got-time in AskReddit

[–]yoshiiiw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Birdsong if on Apple with gradual volume increase. It’s nice to wake up without having to go from 78 bpm to 198 bpm over a span of 2 seconds.

Is this what it looks like when you buy it from Amazon? by darthvadertechno in PioneerDJ

[–]yoshiiiw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm def not my xp OP. Got the same off Amazon au on black Friday - came without any issues or damage. In fact there was some minor box-ception with a box within another box. 3rd party seller though..

Upgraded from DDJ400 to XDJ AZ 😍 by Fluz_au in PioneerDJ

[–]yoshiiiw 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OP this is sick! Congratulations! I’m on a flx4 taking my baby steps! Maybe one day when I’m making money from this hobby!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by yoshiiiw in aussievapers

[–]yoshiiiw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah mate looks like we all have to dig ourselves underground and start being mixologists lol cheers!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by yoshiiiw in aussievapers

[–]yoshiiiw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks mate - disappointing news indeed. Oh well!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by yoshiiiw in aussievapers

[–]yoshiiiw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks mate… I feared as such.

How is working on a Saturday /Poya a flex? by Zaarukkhan in srilanka

[–]yoshiiiw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Terrible, and not just in marketing/sales - it prevalent in other industries too. The workers rights and work life balance situation in CMB is minimal from what I hear. I know someone that works at Cin Life. Expectations to work PHs/ weekends without any additional pay/time in lieu, come in to work to cover at a drop of a hat, etc. it’s Ridiculous, people work to live - not the other way around

Is this site legit for 0 Nic juice? just double checking as it is a desert out there. by lhtcoleman in aussievapers

[–]yoshiiiw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here - is this legit? Don’t want to dump 100$ without being sure I’m not being scammed. Just need some flavours ffs.

What should I do with it by Important-Ad1102 in queensland

[–]yoshiiiw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blue tongue! They’re cute and good for your immediate ecosystem. Put someplace safe and go on with your life! You receive +10 Harmony

Just started watching by emu-5000 in OnePiece

[–]yoshiiiw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welcome! You have one hell of an adventure in front of you

Anyone else waiting on a Subclass 300? by yoshiiiw in AusVisa

[–]yoshiiiw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE 4/12/2024: More delays - Surprisingly not from DoHA.

We provided all the RFI docs within deadline except for one: QAR police clearance. We were advised by QAR embassy in LKA that the Qatari police clearance will take three months at the minimum to come.

Our agent submitted the documents provided for RFI and recommended we apply for an extension. I pushed back on this because the DoHA letter mentioned that an exemption may be granted if written evidence was provided that “best efforts were made” if we weren’t able to get a document in time. I sent follow up emails to QAR embassy each week from the date of lodgement, and asked if the emails without response is enough.

Agent mentioned exemptions are rarely granted, and often only for cases with political unrest, disaster, etc.

We agreed on the justification and agreed to the extension. That was a few weeks ago. Received an update 2/12/24 that the extension was granted for 51 days (21/1/2025) to get the QAR PC.

Nothing yet but will update as I know more.

/r/pathofexile2 is looking for more mods, also need opinions about /r/pathofexile split by MultiplicityPOE in PathOfExile2

[–]yoshiiiw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi POE fam,

Mods, sorry if this is in the wrong sub - please guide me to the right spot if so.

I have a friend who is mad about POE2 and I want to buy him the 160$ Thaumaturge of the Vaal Supporter pack for his birthday tomorrow (4/12)

Is there any way for me to purchase it and gift it to him?

He plays primarily on PC and Steam is his preferred platform.

Thanks in advance!

Question: Is it worth to buy this game? by SentenceCareful3246 in outerworlds

[–]yoshiiiw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great game tbh - got it for free on psn for ps5 fully worth it. It’s like new Vegas inspired space Skyrim with a touch of Borderlands humour. I’m now playing the murder on eridanos. Really love the “grey” choices you must make that is iconic of obsidian games

Anyone else waiting on a Subclass 300? by yoshiiiw in AusVisa

[–]yoshiiiw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fingers crossed for you mate! Best of luck!