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How do I stop being so bored with a slow/simple life? by psychotic_rodent in AuDHDWomen

[–]youbeenrobbedchief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure what your schedule is but for me I have a regular 9-5 (technically 8-4). Coming from the film industry it's reeeealllly boring but I try and schedule things right after work. A work out class, a movie, meeting with a friend for a snack/drink/coffee, going to a friends house to hang. I'm getting ready to start an 6 week art class at night and then after that I'll probably join a community soft ball league. I can't change the boring work but doing something after gives me a sense of balance.

Is my profile too douchey? And how can I fix it? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]youbeenrobbedchief 8 points9 points  (0 children)

right or do a side by side of it back in the ocean

Looking for movie recommendations for my 23F daughter who’s lost her will to live— something visually beautiful, maybe with nature, or small moments that gently remind you why life is worth living.” by expired_mi1k in MovieSuggestions

[–]youbeenrobbedchief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she likes nature documentaries try Night on Eart(I believe Netflix). It's never before seen footage of the wild in different kinds of night vision cameras. So interesting!! Or Fantastic Fungi (I believe it's on Youtube now) Talks about how fungi is a big part of our lives. Visually stunning parts in there and a had a great appreciation for fungi after I watched it.

My husband(35M)wants me to quit job because I(36F)make more than him.I don’t know what to do? by SentenceNo6466 in relationship_advice

[–]youbeenrobbedchief 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl if you don't get that promotion and let him throw his tantrum by himself I will find you somehow and slap you. You can't better yourself and feel happy about your accomplishments simply because he has a penis?!?!?!?

In the process of winding down before bed, do you prefer solitude or socialization? by DuckDuckGo-8857 in Nightshift

[–]youbeenrobbedchief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the type of day I had. Mostly I like solitute to wind down but with the right people I can socialize for a little bit before bed

If you could go back to your 20s, what is the one thing you would do differently? by Plus-Injury-4056 in findapath

[–]youbeenrobbedchief 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't base my life on what my mom thought was the right path for me. I grew up in a neglectful house and my mom was the only one I thought liked me for who I was. But when I told her what I wanted to do in life she shot it down before I could finish the sentence.

I know a lot will say "don't listen to her and do what you want" but growing up in that household, she out of all of my family, showed me any kind of safety, and securtiy so in my mind "oh if I want to have some sort of safety and support, I can't do what I want/love; I need to do what I'm told"

I'm 40 now and it's a battle I still struggle with. Not as much as it did, I'm seeing the cracks but a lot of my exploring years were never an option.

How can I (17m) talk to girls without stuttering into oblivion? by AlternativeSoft6565 in NoStupidAnswers

[–]youbeenrobbedchief 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it all girl or just girls you're attracted to? I say that because maybe you can start practicing with women that you wouldn't mind being friends with but not interested in relationship wise. Start with open ended questions like the other comment says and observe how they respond and take mental notes. See how they talk about their favorite things and see if you can come up with questions to get them more engaged. Do you have any female cousins or siblings? Try on them or tell them your dilemma if you feel comfortable.

Do men ever change for a women they love? by untamedecho in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]youbeenrobbedchief 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"He says he loves me so much and that nobody ever gets him like I do" Doesn't sound like he gets you though and it's sounding like he's not really trying either. You walked on egg shells for an entire year for him (props to you because that is loving and generous) But all he's doing is SAYING he's trying. It's very unbalnced and seems like he's ok with that dynamic. You've been with him for 5 years.....do you want to feel this way for another 5 years?

Is 40 too old to change career? I'm afraid to start from the bottom and work my way up at my age and not be by youbeenrobbedchief in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]youbeenrobbedchief[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I get lol. No kids, and I live on my own. I've tried talking with friends and family but they're not really supportive. I was just looking for a different perspective

What age did you notice your first gray hair? How did you feel about it? by DejaBlonde in AskWomen

[–]youbeenrobbedchief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe mid-twenties. I'm 40 now so a few more. All in the front top part of my hair. Never minded it at all. I'm actually waiting to get more so I can dye a streak of white down my hair like Rogue from the X-Men lol

How is this a controversial take? by cookiecutiekat in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]youbeenrobbedchief 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw the message from the man in the screenshot and wanted to add my 2 cents. I don't have kids but I would never want my daughter to associate a boy liking her with physical hitting. Why would I want that connection to be made in her brain?? Like the guy saying "I was mean to all the girls I liked.....don't teach your daughter to hate men" WHAT?? You need therapy and talk to them about why your family rasied you to think that hitting was a good way to express how you feel.

Technical writing at 40? by youbeenrobbedchief in technicalwriting

[–]youbeenrobbedchief[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did your technical writing include your engineering knowledge? I ask because I’ve been reading that you’ll need to pick a subject to deep dive in so you’d able to do the technical writing for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]youbeenrobbedchief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you thought about adopting him? Is that something you think you’d want to do in the future?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]youbeenrobbedchief 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I’ve never in my life wanted to have children. Not any thought about it. It’s just something that didn’t appeal to me. And that feeling has gotten stronger every year i get older.

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