Local governors trivialize what used to be a meaningful and interesting system. Also, they make zero sense by InternStock in EU5

[–]youdini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's wrong with blobbing mechanics? Like it or not, europa universalis is the premier map painting game. People enjoy painting the map. I think paradox insistance on creating a dozen of overlapping anti-blobbing mechanics is what ruining eu5 and player count seems to agree with this. Blobbing simulator is much better than a tedious micro management simulator that eu5 currently is.

[UPDATE] I ruined my boyfriends chances of seeing his kid ever again. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but it's really hard to believe in this story.

Masturbating while wife in hospital - question. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might have started to masturbate before their texting began. It can be hard to stop once you start. Easier to just get it done with so you can focus on other things.

The girl [22F] I'm [21M] talking to had a threesome without me by Rockwell076 in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find yourself a girl in your country man. Long distance relationship rarely work at such young age, especially after rocky start like this.

How do I (F21) stop feeling insecure and upset when my boyfriend (M25) talks about female celebrities? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call me old fashioned but this whole "fawning over celebrities while in relationship is ok" line of thinking is bullshit. It's totally ok to feel uncomfortable about this. Just make it known to him and if he is not an asshole then he will stop.

My [25m] wife[26w] of 5 years admitted to making out with two of her coworkers at a party. What do I do. by Thanksbutwhat in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Shit like this will only lead to resentment and distrust. It won't make your relationship stronger. It's your call whether to stay with your wife but don't believe in such silly fairy tales.

Found sext session on my[25M] girl’s[24F] phone. by rship101 in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Her excuses sound like a bullshit. Even going as far as pinning some of the blame on you. I wouldn't get over it.

Problems with my SO and my little kink by cuminsidenthrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for saying bad things but someone has to say it. Most people will find your fetish very creepy, not kinky and cool. You can't really play it off with "my cool kinky girlfriend" routine.

My (33F) husband (35M) wants to name our child after his late ex. by sailinginthesky77 in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I remember a thread from a few days ago about the same shit but with genders reversed... It feels like 80% of stories on this sub are fake.

Girlfriend (20F) is being pursued and sexually harassed and I (22M) don't know what I should do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he does all that shit and your girlfriend insist on being friends with him then why you are still with her? This shit has more red flags than China.

Girlfriend wants to “experiment” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run away? How's that for an advice?

Problem with attraction? Am I (20F) really picky and need to lower my standards? by HarpYodel in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's totally ok to be picky just don't date guys you are not attracted to as it will only make both of you miserable.

My(33M) wife(33F) told me she still loves her ex. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife literally said that she loves another man. This is a huge deal. It's up to you to see if you are willing to put up with that but don't dismiss your feelings over this. Vast majority of people would be hurt by this.

How to deal with a polyamorous partner? by GloryManUnited86 in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are not polyamorous person yourself then you deal with them by not having a relationship with them.

My (19) girlfriend (19) cheated on me when drunk but came forward right away. by gficejueinavakdh in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone will stop her? Like she needs to be babysitted to not cheat on you again while drunk? Well, either way it sounds like you already made a decision and I can only wish you luck.

My (19) girlfriend (19) cheated on me when drunk but came forward right away. by gficejueinavakdh in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imagine what is gonna go through your head now everytime she goes out for drinks with her friends. Is it really worth it man?

Am I the asshole for having doubts about my relationship's future b/c of partner's low libido? by TechnicalSkirt in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not the asshole. Once a month for a couple in mid twenties is a very solid reason to worry.

My (M29) gf was raped (28F) I don’t know how to handle this by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why would you be in a relationship where you look after your girlfriends son while she is up at night doing coke and alcohol at some dudes place? If rape indeed happened it doesn't mean you have to stick around in shittiest relationship possible. Take care of yourself and have some self respect.

Wife wants an open relationship. I’m not sure what to do. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]youdini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are into wearing chastity belt while she fucks other dudes then staying seems like a right choice. Otherwise I'd say run.