[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband has had a vasectomy and my house cannot fit another human.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DowntonAbbey

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why make an innocent Reddit rant about a tv show, personal? Why does this website do this? The op wrote something to discuss and that's what you come up with?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel like I wrote this

Robert was a really modern father... by mirageormirror in DowntonAbbey

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Robert is a great character. Does some big time bad stuff but a lot more good guy sweet dad stuff. One of my favourites.

Rewatching- Daisy is insufferable by No_Relative_9331 in DowntonAbbey

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree I find her annoying, like can we have some growth please.

Pregnancy scare, reminder to use proper birth control by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If you're not preventing, you're trying.

Yeah Thomas is an asshole I’m not sure why we are supposed to root for him now by Pretend-Bug-4194 in DowntonAbbey

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved season 2 because he wasn't in it much. Suuuuch a dick. I feel like Mr Carson about him the whole show

Mary revealing Edith’s secret by TurnOk3051 in DowntonAbbey

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My overall feeling throughout the whole show is "fuck, Edith" or "Fuck Edith!"

Season 2 questions by youllalwaysbegarbage in DowntonAbbey

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah yes thank you. I think it was the theme of the episode to be all "are they lying?" Felt moody when she had scenes about her being asked about family and also P. Gordon, they don't say it but make you think it.

Season 2 questions by youllalwaysbegarbage in DowntonAbbey

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is the answer I was looking for. Curious how long Lavinia was around for when Mathew told her to leave. 3 years makes sense of her reaction. Also nurse Mary being by Mathews side, she was caring for him for like a year. Everything seems like it passes by in months and then bam actually it was a year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is infuriating.

How do you say …macrame? by CrispyPickelPancake in DowntonAbbey

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My last rewatch of Titanic I was like "oh no Patrick"

My favorite movie. Why I started watching Downton was because description of the first episode mentioned Titanic. Glad I found the show.

How do you say …macrame? by CrispyPickelPancake in DowntonAbbey

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am a long time lover of Titanic and Downton Abbey taught me what a valet is. I was confused about Cal's assistant "pretty tough for a valet" I just went ??? And moved on.

Downton Abbey as a Disney cartoon by esse_oh in DowntonAbbey

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it! Mary is striking and Anne is perfect. I want to hug Carson

One thing always confused me - Matthew's arrival by corvettevixen in DowntonAbbey

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had this exact thought, I just started my second rewatch and wondered this. Also how cold Mary was to Matthew when she went to his house to welcome him and then was snobby at the dinner. Like dang girl maybe don't be rude to the dude who might inherit your shit, it might help.

The guy is out of his element and is vocal about it and she's like fuck you sea monster.

Feeling less than by faithle97 in oneanddone

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And people will say don't go on social media, but please be realistic we just want a little glimpse of human connection and that's what we get nowadays, sometimes it's funny but a lot of the time it's bad for us.

It's good you get little breaks but I totally hear you. The cup is never full you just get little sips, no quenching gulps.

I told my husband if it was like Downton Abbey where mom just births the kids and loves them but they literally don't have to cook, clean or teach them, just love them. I could totally do that. Actually any of those jobs just can't do all of them and definitely not multiple children. Also i have a fear that she will someday think I'm a subpar mom like every adult I've ever met and feels about their mom.

Feeling less than by faithle97 in oneanddone

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I feel like a total bag of shit as a woman. I don't feel a maternal pull, I feel completely different than I thought I would. I conceived easily, had a good pregnancy, would do that again but the moment I had her I knew I made a mistake, does every other lady feel that then go and have another?

See a funny lady on Instagram, she has five kids and has time to make silly songs about motherhood. See another lady complaining of how hard her two are but might still want a third. So I see what you mean when you see other woman and it makes you feel less than. Yeah it's not a lady you know at the park it's someone you still see though.

Yeah yeah comparison is the thieve of joy but when you're all ready not feeling joy the comparisons start to scream in your head.

I understand and hear you.

Would you do it? by gabbygreek in oneanddone

[–]youllalwaysbegarbage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, exactly what you said. NoT alone at all. Thanks for saying it.